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Topic: Breaking a Virgo's Heart
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beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 84
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 14, 2013 11:22 PM
  
This Virgo guy had gemini moon and venus, mars in virgo. And I'm a scorpio.. Right now, he tells me that he was never close to real love as he was with me. And that he thought I was the one, and all these things he loved about me. But that he can never love me the same way again. Because when he was gone to his home country for 2 weeks, I dated another guy.The thing is, he told me all this mindblowing romantic stuff too early in the relationship. And I told him I loved him but that I didn't trust him yet. After spending just 4 days together, he arranged a romantic date with wine and roses but I was late due to an accident. After our break-up, he told me he was going ask me to be his wife that night! Anyway, the reason I dated another guy was that after I was late for this date, he was so jealous of me talking to another guy at a party. The night after, he flirted a little with a girl. So the last day, he made jokes about going to his home country and whether I would be upset if he slept with other girls. He jokingly said he saw me as a close friend. He joked around. A scorpio.. His family knew about me, he called me everyday. But I didn't feel it. I felt insecure and I couldn't feel his sincerity.So I told him I was also seeing another guy. I kind of expected him give me a sign whether he wanted us to be exclusive. But no, according to him, when a Polish guy says I love you, it means, I want to spend the rest of my life with you, and that he was very heart broken. IP: Logged |
beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 84
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 14, 2013 11:27 PM
If he was so serious, why did he make so many jokes ?My question is, have you ever seen such a Virgo ? I thought they would analyze you for months. We had only been together for a month, and spent 6-7days together. Doesn't he realize it was too early to be behaving this way ? Do you think if he really cared for me, he would give me a second chance ? I am so confused about what to do. He says we can meet but it will never be the same again. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 808
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 14, 2013 11:29 PM
I have sun in Virgo. Did he see other girls before you saw other men or did you both go separate ways and date other people before returning to each other? Do you feel like he is playing you? IP: Logged |
beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 84
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 14, 2013 11:35 PM
He didn't tell me even if he did. He said he shouldn't be sleeping with other girls and that he was jelaous of me.When he was in Poland he said he was freaking out because he thought I would meet someone else and forget him. But you know, he has so many friends on facebook, and he is so social, I assumed he would prefer if I acted like we didn't have to be serious. I guess he saw things differently. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 808
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 14, 2013 11:37 PM
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Originally posted by beckylee:
He didn't tell me even if he did. He said he shouldn't be sleeping with other girls and that he was jelaous of me.When he was in Poland he said he was freaking out because he thought I would meet someone else and forget him. But you know, he has so many friends on facebook, and he is so social, I assumed he would prefer if I acted like we didn't have to be serious. I guess he saw things differently.
So he says you saw others and he no longer wants to be together? Sorry *hugs*Doesn't particularly sound like a Virgo thing. Maybe he cannot decide who he wants to be with since he has those Gemini placements? He could be fickle.
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beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 84
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 14, 2013 11:44 PM
Maybe. I care about him a lot but it's all so sudden. I'm not even sure what I feel for him is love or lust yet!I can't believe I ended up breaking his heart. I was so sure I was going to be the unlucky one in this relationship. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 808
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 14, 2013 11:46 PM
Any chance of you two talking/patching things together? Gemini planets love to talk things out.IP: Logged |
beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 84
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 14, 2013 11:53 PM
We could perhaps, but we had trust issues to begin with, now I'm afraid it would only get worse.I don't know why but I never really trusted him and when I told him I loved him, he always said, no you don't. What did he expect from me ? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 808
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 14, 2013 11:55 PM
If his sun/Mars Virgo planets are square the Gemini moon/Venus, he could be somewhat confused about what he really wants from a relationship. He could be conflicted and too critical about his relationships with women. Virgo likes to be critical and the square could emphasize the critical nature of Virgo sun then there's Mars as well. Maybe he does not know what he really wants from women so he is not ready to take a relationship seriously? IP: Logged |
beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 84
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 14, 2013 11:56 PM
He says he doesn't want just sex, he doesn't want to be friends, and that he was serious about me.But everyone knows these things need time. He really drives me mad. I have my mars conjunct his sun and venus and I'm blaming it on those. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 808
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 14, 2013 11:59 PM
The Mars conjunct sun can mean passionate moments, especially if it squares his Gemini planets. There could be arguments.IP: Logged |
beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 84
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 14, 2013 11:59 PM
You could be right, I should check those out. He probably is critical about his relationships. I'm a scorpio but I know the importance of grey areas in the beginning of a relationship. It can't just be black and white. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 808
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 15, 2013 12:00 AM
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Originally posted by beckylee:
You could be right, I should check those out. He probably is critical about his relationships. I'm a scorpio but I know the importance of grey areas in the beginning of a relationship. It can't just be black and white.
That's so true. Maybe you two need a little time to work things out 
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happyaskings
Knowflake Posts: 243
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Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 15, 2013 12:32 AM
He doesn't sound very stable...that Gemini Moon is coming through!IP: Logged |
beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 84
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 15, 2013 08:23 AM
That's why I can't trust him.Maybe he just likes the idea of romance. IP: Logged |
neilthecellist
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Oceanside, CA, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 15, 2013 12:56 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
If his sun/Mars Virgo planets are square the Gemini moon/Venus, he could be somewhat confused about what he really wants from a relationship. He could be conflicted and too critical about his relationships with women. Virgo likes to be critical and the square could emphasize the critical nature of Virgo sun then there's Mars as well. Maybe he does not know what he really wants from women so he is not ready to take a relationship seriously?
Full agreement with this post. Your man is too focused on details. The big picture is lost in the square. quote:
Originally posted by beckylee:
That's why I can't trust him.Maybe he just likes the idea of romance.
This. IP: Logged |
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