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Topic: Venus in Pisces: Do you make the move?
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DreamingBull Knowflake Posts: 43 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 16, 2013 11:27 PM
This person is a Venus in Pisces, Leo Moon.Holy moly has he ever surprised me. I am so drawn to him and our conversation has gone from a message about music to a full blown essay style engagement that I look forward to reading and replying to every single day. Everything he says is both stimulating and relatable, I have never met someone like this. He has said a few times that connections like this are rare and that he finds such raw conversation to be special and that he is enjoying our dialogue. However - no prompt to hang out or to continue it in person. Granted we did just start talking after seven years a part, and we never spoke when we had gone to school together we were just acquaintances. Are leo mooners/venus in pisces the kinds of people who will converse with anyone and put effort into those conversations in order to have intellectual conversation? Should I be taking this from a place of friendship? Because, although I am so idealistic, I really think that he could be someone special for me, its just a feeling I get. I'm wondering if he could be thinking the same thing and just isn't the kind of person who will make the first move... IP: Logged |
nove731 Knowflake Posts: 85 From: Washington, DC Registered: Jun 2009
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posted April 16, 2013 11:40 PM
I think that in general, with Venus in Pisces, there can be a lot of vague romantic feelings. Personally, I find that it takes a while to really suss out how I feel about a potential mate/romantic situation (that sounds so lame) and I'm not necessarily inclined to make the first move in that regard. As an example, I always find it really charming when someone likes me: So much so that if I don't make a conscious effort, I often risk falling headlong into a situation when I'm not even sure how -I- feel...this generally means that I tend to move a bit more slowly in relationships, I think.I usually tend to attract very aggressive types, though, so I don't generally need to make the first move, anyway. For what it's worth, I'm a (gay) guy with Moon in Sagittarius. IP: Logged |
CatMote Knowflake Posts: 46 From: New Britain, CT, United States Registered: Apr 2013
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posted April 16, 2013 11:48 PM
i think it also depends on the sun sign with venus in pisces people. im a venus in pisces, yet im aggressive when it comes to women that im interested in. of course if i didnt have to be, i wouldnt be. i mean IDK how this guy is in real life, but based on what hes saying and not hanging out im not so sure he likes you. you should tell him how you feel, venus in pisces is so open that he will accept you probably no matter what. ------------------ Sun Aries Moon Pisces Mars Pisces Venus Pisces Mercury Aries Ascendant Libra Jupiter in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 912 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 17, 2013 12:04 AM
i have moon in leo/venus in pisces. we can chew your ears off, we love a good convo. any convo. as long as it is stimulating.IP: Logged |
pixieangel Knowflake Posts: 252 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 17, 2013 12:09 AM
Hi, What sign is his Mars?IP: Logged |
DreamingBull Knowflake Posts: 43 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 17, 2013 12:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by pixieangel: Hi, What sign is his Mars?
Pisces! IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms Knowflake Posts: 889 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 17, 2013 01:04 AM
double pisces....my gut says no they wont make the first move lolIP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 1051 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 01:20 AM
It depends upon the other person. If I think that person is the type that will make the move then I won’t, if I think that person won’t then I will. If his venus and mars conjunct each other then I think he will make the move. In my experience, Leo moons give attention only to special people. If you need to make the move, just shower him with compliments and make the move. That method has always worked for me when I am dealing with Leo moons. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 1629 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 01:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: It depends upon the other person. If I think that person is the type that will make the move then I won’t, if I think that person won’t then I will.
what if you really like someone and you know that someone likes you too. You get into some disagreement with that person,will you wait for her to make the move towards you? IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 1051 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 01:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: what if you really like someone and you know that someone likes you too. You get into some disagreement with that person,will you wait for her to make the move towards you?
No, I will make the move. If she does not respond well then that will be the end. I was in a similar situation with a libra sun with leo moon, scorpio venus and cancer mars. Cancer mars, do they ever make the move? my experience with cancer mars people has never been good. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 1629 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 01:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: No, I will make the move. If she does not respond well then that will be the end. I was in a similar situation with a libra sun with leo moon, scorpio venus and cancer mars. Cancer mars, do they ever make the move? my experience with cancer mars people has never been good.
Even if she was wrong? I don't know about cancer mars I have only my moon there>>.cancer is not my favorite sign :/ IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 1051 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 01:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: Even if she was wrong?I don't know about cancer mars I have only my moon there>>.cancer is not my favorite sign :/
It depends upon her mistake. If it is a minor mistake then I will. It also depends upon how much I love her. Love is blind for a venus in pisces. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 1629 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 02:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: It depends upon her mistake. If it is a minor mistake then I will. It also depends upon how much I love her. Love is blind for a venus in pisces.
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12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1093 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 03:20 AM
Venus in Pisces here. Let me put it this way: more often than not, when I've initiated things (relationship-wise), it hasn't gone much further than a first date, then "friends." Only when the young woman has shown an interest in me and initiated our relationship has it gone anywhere. I have Mars in Capricorn sextiling my Venus, and someone informed me that those two signs are ones that enjoy getting pursued. Not "enjoy" in an ego-centric way, but because they're in receptive signs that most benefit when someone pursues them rather than doing the pursuing. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 1629 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 03:28 AM
^^ Hmmm..so mars in cap, venus in pisces likes to be pursued by their interest? or do they feel all fuzzy inside when any beautiful girl is pursuing them?anyone who happens to show interest?How do they react if a beautiful girl they are not really into is doing the pursuing?Also I want to know what does a cap mars,venus in pisces do when their interest has stopped pursuing them? IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1093 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 04:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: ^^ Hmmm..so mars in cap, venus in pisces likes to be pursued by their interest?
Likes? Well, it's simply turned out that way, as I said earlier. quote: or do they feel all fuzzy inside when any beautiful girl is pursuing them?anyone who happens to show interest?
lol fuzzy? It's simply appreciated. quote: How do they react if a beautiful girl they are not really into is doing the pursuing?
Can't speak for others, but I simply smile and act like a gentleman--polite without misleading her. quote: Also I want to know what does a cap mars,venus in pisces do when their interest has stopped pursuing them?
Can't speak for other Mars in Cap Venus in Pisces, but I simply move on if interest has faded. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 1629 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 04:08 AM
^^ I meant if the girl you are interested in has stopped pursuing you.what do you do?IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1093 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 04:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: ^^ I meant if the girl you are interested in has stopped pursuing you.what do you do?
Like I said, I assume she's lost interest and I move on. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 1629 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 04:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: Like I said, I assume she's lost interest and I move on.
Venus in pisces sounds complicated to me J/K okay...may be half joking... IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1093 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 04:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: Venus in pisces sounds complicated to me J/K okay...may be half joking...
lol okay... what seems complicated? (although I'll admit, Pisces can be a complex sign) IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 1629 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 04:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: lol okay... what seems complicated? (although I'll admit, Pisces can be a complex sign)
No seriously it is..for me...Am having to deal with a cap mars,sun,moon,mercury and venus in pisces at the moment. He is a bit like you lol, he prefers ( if you like that word better lol) me to be the one pursuing him. He'll never initiate contact, if I initiate contact he'll answer me like within mins, it's almost as if he is in front of his laptop all the time lol.But if I don't initiate contact, he'll start dropping hints everywhere he knows am at, but he won't make the move.He knows am the jealous type,he'll go to extreme just to make me jealous but still won't make the move. So yeah it's complicated to my venus in leo.Because it's so bloody obvious that I like him and want him to show interest in return while he is going around making a fool of himself!!!!If you are interested in someone why the heck do you have to tiptoe around the person!sometimes I don't know if I have to laugh or be irritated at all the silly things he does so that I'm the one who talks to him first!But this time I won't, so if he moves on just too bad. IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1093 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 05:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: No seriously it is..for me...Am having to deal with a cap mars,sun,moon,mercury and venus in pisces at the moment. He is a bit like you lol, he prefers ( if you like that word better lol) me to be the one pursuing him. He'll never initiate contact, if I initiate contact he'll answer me like within mins, it's almost as if he is in front of his laptop all the time lol.But if I don't initiate contact, he'll start dropping hints everywhere he knows am at, but he won't make the move.He knows am the jealous type,he'll go to extreme just to make me jealous but still won't make the move. So yeah it's complicated to my venus in leo.Because it's so bloody obvious that I like him and want him to show interest in return while he is going around making a fool of himself!!!!If you are interested in someone why the heck do you have to tiptoe around the person!sometimes I don't know if I have to laugh or be irritated at all the silly things he does so that I'm the one who talks to him first!
It could be that he's not initiating (and "expecting" you to initiate) because his Sun, Moon, and Mercury are in the receptive sign of Capricorn as well. Mine aren't. My Sun, Moon, and Mercury are in Aquarius, which is an emissive sign. So, there will be that difference as well. And for me, it's not a matter of "preference" in terms of being pursued. This doesn't appear to be clear. It's been the pattern of how things have gone for me, not a matter of preference. I've initiated things in the past and they haven't gone far. It's when the young women show initiative that things have gone further.
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Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 1629 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 05:36 AM
^^ and venus in leo is in what kind of sign? Because I don't like doing the pursuing,neither do I enjoy being pursued as such..I like when guys meet me half way..IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1093 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 08:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: ^^ and venus in leo is in what kind of sign? Because I don't like doing the pursuing,neither do I enjoy being pursued as such..I like when guys meet me half way..
Leo is positive polarity, an emissive sign. Libra is an emissive sign ruled by Venus, and Taurus is a receptive sign. Which houses do they rule in your chart? Also, it could depend on what your synastry with this Cap man looks like, the aspects and such. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 1629 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 12:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: Leo is positive polarity, an emissive sign.Libra is an emissive sign ruled by Venus, and Taurus is a receptive sign. Which houses do they rule in your chart? Also, it could depend on what your synastry with this Cap man looks like, the aspects and such.
Libra is my 10th, Taurus is my 5th.
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