posted April 17, 2013 01:11 PM            

Anything else?

posted April 17, 2013 01:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Alphabetically, or by category?

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Say what?

posted April 17, 2013 01:20 PM              

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Say what?

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posted April 17, 2013 01:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:

Just kidding around. I meant to say, you know, it's a long list. Brace yourself .

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LOL.

Sorry, didn't catch the joke. Am in my serious mood! LOL

Nah, that's what this thread is about...give me your list lol

posted April 17, 2013 01:23 PM              

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With Venus in the 7th House a person feels a great need for a committed relationship in order to bring love into his life. With this placement there is frequently a marked lack of self-love: self-worth comes from being in a partnership. Venus in its own House is usually faithful and anxious to fulfill the partners expectations but the eagerness to get into a relationship may make a person indiscriminate in his choice and too willing to expect the formal trappings of marriage to be a substitute for true compatibility. In relationships of all kinds there is a tendency for the Venus person to place too much faith in the superficial indications of suitability. Yet no matter how many adverse exper­iences there may be, a person with Venus in H7 tends to keep alive the hope that he may one day meet his soul mate.

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posted April 17, 2013 01:26 PM              

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
According to cafeastrology,I should be careful not to bend over backwards just to keep the peace,as I may be taken advantage of. It's true. I tend to analyze situations real fast and readily adjust to play nice because I really don't like disharmonious relationships.

Anything else?

Calling out all the 7th house Venus to share their experiences

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I have this placement, Venus in Leo to be precise in the 7th opposite my Ascendant and I don't see to much of a downside to it. That might be because I'm a Libra so I naturally have had to deal with the downsides of having Venus dominant in my chart. I'd say it can be frustrating being a people pleaser. Especially when your young and you want to impress people or fit in. I'm no longer a people pleaser though. I only tend to see positive with this placement.

You've got a pretty unlimited supply of attraction from others, because this placement is ideal for Venus (being at home) you've got a pretty good chance for having a wonderful partner relationship later in life.

posted April 17, 2013 01:34 PM            

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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
I have this placement, Venus in Leo to be precise in the 7th opposite my Ascendant and I don't see to much of a downside to it. That might be because I'm a Libra so I naturally have had to deal with the downsides of having Venus dominant in my chart. I'd say it can be frustrating being a people pleaser. Especially when your young and you want to impress people or fit in. I'm no longer a people pleaser though. I only tend to see positive with this placement.

You've got a pretty unlimited supply of attraction from others, because this placement is ideal for Venus (being at home) you've got a pretty good chance for having a wonderful partner relationship later in life.

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Moi aussi Venus in Leo.

posted April 17, 2013 02:08 PM              

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
^^ yeah I read that description...do you relate to this? I don't.

I love myself a lot

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posted April 17, 2013 02:20 PM              

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Moi aussi Venus in Leo.

I don't relate to the descriptions I read on the net, I was wondering what are the other downside to this placement,besides being a people pleaser/peacemaker.LOL.Because I don't view my venus in 7th as a sign of weakness.True, I'm very generous with my affections but I very much expect the same in return,and won't settle for anything less that what I'm giving.

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Cheers to Venus in Leo's!

I don't consider Venus in the 7th to be a weakness. It's a strong placement because Venus is at home. The reason you might not relate to the descriptions on the internet is because everyone's different. You've got aspects to your Venus that might adjust the way you experience that placement. I'll even say my history of being a peacemaker comes more from having my Sun in Libra then Venus in Leo in the 7th. You know first hand how dignified and proud Venus in Leo's are. That's a strong Venus placement that's not known to allow others to push them around. So many things have to be taken into consideration.

posted April 17, 2013 04:53 PM              

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
^^ I have quite a packed 7th house. Sun,mercury,saturn and venus.I take relationships very seriously.That's why I don't go out on dates or go out with someone for just fun.I see it as a waste of my time and energy.

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Wow, yeah that's a full house! I can understand more about why you experience your 7th house energies so uniquely. It's been your life lesson in a sense to understand your relationship with yourself and how you relate to others.

As long as you're happy in life and don't see your 7th house placements as holding you back from experiencing life to the fullest. Saturn in the 7th isn't the easiest placement. You should do more research on the placement if you haven't already. It's almost a constricting placement. I don't know if you ever feel like your bound to your standards and principles when it comes to relationships, so much so you can't loosen the reins when it comes to your expectations of others. You want to have your standards but still find a way to be open to all types of people and relationships. You said you don't really date because you see it as a waste of your time and energy. I think that speaks more to your Saturn traits, because 7th house Venus types tend to be very open to all kinds of social activity especially dating because the 7th house is the house of relating and relationships. The more I understand your chart and those 7th house placements, it makes sense why the descriptions you've read online don't really match how you feel on a personal level.

posted April 18, 2013 01:16 AM            

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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
Wow, yeah that's a full house! I can understand more about why you experience your 7th house energies so uniquely. It's been your life lesson in a sense to understand your relationship with yourself and how you relate to others.

As long as you're happy in life and don't see your 7th house placements as holding you back from experiencing life to the fullest. Saturn in the 7th isn't the easiest placement. You should do more research on the placement if you haven't already. It's almost a constricting placement. I don't know if you ever feel like your bound to your standards and principles when it comes to relationships, so much so you can't loosen the reins when it comes to your expectations of others. You want to have your standards but still find a way to be open to all types of people and relationships. You said you don't really date because you see it as a waste of your time and energy. I think that speaks more to your Saturn traits, because 7th house Venus types tend to be very open to all kinds of social activity especially dating because the 7th house is the house of relating and relationships. The more I understand your chart and those 7th house placements, it makes sense why the descriptions you've read online don't really match how you feel on a personal level.

My Venus in the 7th is trine Saturn and I tend to take relationships pretty seriously like you as well. But it's also trine Uranus so I'm into weird/unconventional relationship situations lol.

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My natal chart revolves around my 7th house.If I know my 7th house a little more, I feel there are so many of my questions that would be answered.My ASC ruler Saturn (am capricorn rising) aspects my 7th house stellium (Leo) Cancer is my 7th house,its ruler Moon is in 6th house Cancer,trines Uranus.I attract unconventional relationships too.Jupiter in the 5th house sextile natural 5th house ruler Sun in the 7th house. Indeed, Saturn in the 7th house is a constricting influence.I'm pretty focused on knowing my 7th house placement and Saturn in 7th.I feel the planets in my 7th house competes with each other at times, but in the end it's Saturn that wins lol.However, I feel my Sun as well as I feel the influence of my Saturn. I tend to attract powerful guys character,and status wise....It's that part that I'm trying to figure out...LOL

posted April 18, 2013 03:52 AM            

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Saturn in the 7th isn't the easiest placement.It's almost a constricting placement.

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imho I do not think that Saturn is ever really a constricting placement or body. I always feel like it gets a hugely negative reputation, when all it really wants is for us not to fight it. When people fight Saturn and the lessons he has to teach us. That is when things go horribly wrong and people start saying, "oh it was all Saturn's fault, he was transiting, he was sitting on my..." My point is, if you step back, listen to what Saturn is telling you, he can be an incredibly positive driving force and force for change. He will teach you what you need to know, and as long as we listen, and put into practice what he gives us, we can go on to new and different things.

Having Saturn in the 7th, he wants to teach you what the important things in relationships are, whether friendly, platonic, romantic, or enemies. So step back, listen to what he is telling you, whether it is, "you are not complete enough yet for relationships, you need to work on this and that." Saturn is only trying to groom you for success, to give you the tools, to become the best possible version of you, you can be.

That is how I feel at least.

- Chris

posted April 18, 2013 04:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
imho I do not think that Saturn is ever really a constricting placement or body. I always feel like it gets a hugely negative reputation, when all it really wants is for us not to fight it. When people fight Saturn and the lessons he has to teach us. That is when things go horribly wrong and people start saying, "oh it was all Saturn's fault, he was transiting, he was sitting on my..." My point is, if you step back, listen to what Saturn is telling you, he can be an incredibly positive driving force and force for change. He will teach you what you need to know, and as long as we listen, and put into practice what he gives us, we can go on to new and different things.

Having Saturn in the 7th, he wants to teach you what the important things in relationships are, whether friendly, platonic, romantic, or enemies. So step back, listen to what he is telling you, whether it is, "you are not complete enough yet for relationships, you need to work on this and that." Saturn is only trying to groom you for success, to give you the tools, to become the best possible version of you, you can be.

That is how I feel at least.

- Chris

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You have a 7th house Saturn too?

posted April 18, 2013 01:26 PM              

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
imho I do not think that Saturn is ever really a constricting placement or body. I always feel like it gets a hugely negative reputation, when all it really wants is for us not to fight it.

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posted April 18, 2013 01:31 PM              

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Yes.Saturn has my best interests at heart,yet he is a constricting influence for a good reason I don't fight it, I don't go against his wishes.I know exactly when I should step back and let the universe take the reins.

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posted April 18, 2013 01:43 PM              

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Anyways,I want to have a partner that is fun and outgoing,but I won't enjoy a fun and outgoing relationship without a commitment.You are right, I won't loosen up on what I see just and fair, what I view as principles.I won't let go of what I believe is right for the sake of a relationship,that's entirely opposite to what I read about a 7th house Venus.That being said, I dislike petty fights,I make it my responsibity smh to restore peace and harmony lol when it's not really entirely up to me to do that.When I invest myself in a relationship I'm very demanding of the other person.Just to say that I'm a whole different person when am friends with a guy and when I'm in a relationship.That's the reason why I don't favour relationship that progresses from friends to romantic involvement.Friends likely see me as laid back,easy going type of girl when in truth there is nothing 'easy' about me.LOL

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With those 7th house placements everything you've said makes sense. I hope you find what you're looking for.

I have my Sun at the end of the 7th house. I tend to like outgoing types, but I find my self as I grow older, more and more attracted to the more quiet but still very open personalities. They have to of course be nice and friendly (Venus talking). I take relationships seriously but commitment isn't a deal breaker for me. This might speak more to my Uranus traits. I think loyalty is more important to me. I've never wanted to get married and on an intellectual level have never understood the logic behind the practice.

posted April 18, 2013 02:02 PM            

Saturn in the 7th also indicates karmic relationships isn't it?

How does Mercury in the 7th plays out?

posted April 18, 2013 04:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
According to cafeastrology,I should be careful not to bend over backwards just to keep the peace,as I may be taken advantage of. It's true. I tend to analyze situations real fast and readily adjust to play nice because I really don't like disharmonious relationships.

Anything else?

Calling out all the 7th house Venus to share their experiences

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