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Topic: Please Help.. How to get better Socially?
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ayujegeg Knowflake Posts: 93 From: Sydney, Australia Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 18, 2013 01:27 AM
can anybody look at my chart to see why i have a bit of social anxiety when speaking with people I don't know very well. My main concern is that i cant seem to organize and structure sentences to a very good ability like others, its quite obvious when i tell long stories to people for instance, it's quite all over the place and fiery, I just don't have patience with speaking. Another reason is I have a bit of social anxiety and this is why I may not appear clam when trying to speak, i also feel it's because mind is faster than i speak. Another cause is probably lack of self confidence and a natural introversion. But you can be still be introverted and a good communicator because of a strong mercury for instance.I know I have to fix my self confidence up, before i can see improvements socially but was just wondering if it could be afflictions with mercury ruler etc and placements. Im a bit clumsy with communication cuz i have mercury in sag which is a bad placement, can anybody delve deep into my chart of why i have more difficulty than other people when communicating. I envy people that communicate good. Also it comes up with writing, my writing structure is not very structured and comes up messy. Thanks! http://i47.tinypic.com/2vt37s3.jpg IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 1609 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 18, 2013 01:30 AM
^^ Why do you say your writing structure is not well structured? I can understand you pretty well.what are your mercury aspects?and sun? IP: Logged |
oops123 Knowflake Posts: 44 From: San Francisco Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 18, 2013 01:31 AM
Can you post your chart via Photobucket?IP: Logged |
ayujegeg Knowflake Posts: 93 From: Sydney, Australia Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 18, 2013 01:35 AM
i put it in.IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 965 From: walking with my head in the clouds! Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 18, 2013 01:46 AM
Low self-confidence? That could be your S-turn overpowering your Sun there via the square, since S-turn is both diginified and conjunct his own angle. Then Taurus AC and Mars in Cancer, two placements I generally don't find to have good social and communication skills when it concerns unfamiliar people.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 26962 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 18, 2013 01:52 AM
Moving to Personal Readings. IP: Logged |