Thread Closed  Topic Closed
  Lindaland
  Astrology 2.0
  Please Help.. How to get better Socially?

Post New Topic  
profile | register | preferences | faq


This topic has been transferred to this forum: Personal Readings.
next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   Please Help.. How to get better Socially?
ayujegeg
Knowflake

Posts: 93
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Jan 2013

posted April 18, 2013 01:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ayujegeg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
can anybody look at my chart to see why i have a bit of social anxiety when speaking with people I don't know very well. My main concern is that i cant seem to organize and structure sentences to a very good ability like others, its quite obvious when i tell long stories to people for instance, it's quite all over the place and fiery, I just don't have patience with speaking. Another reason is I have a bit of social anxiety and this is why I may not appear clam when trying to speak, i also feel it's because mind is faster than i speak. Another cause is probably lack of self confidence and a natural introversion. But you can be still be introverted and a good communicator because of a strong mercury for instance.

I know I have to fix my self confidence up, before i can see improvements socially but was just wondering if it could be afflictions with mercury ruler etc and placements.
Im a bit clumsy with communication cuz i have mercury in sag which is a bad placement, can anybody delve deep into my chart of why i have more difficulty than other people when communicating. I envy people that communicate good.

Also it comes up with writing, my writing structure is not very structured and comes up messy.

Thanks!
http://i47.tinypic.com/2vt37s3.jpg

IP: Logged

Jessica2407
Knowflake

Posts: 1609
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012

posted April 18, 2013 01:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^ Why do you say your writing structure is not well structured? I can understand you pretty well.

what are your mercury aspects?and sun?

IP: Logged

oops123
Knowflake

Posts: 44
From: San Francisco
Registered: Sep 2010

posted April 18, 2013 01:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for oops123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can you post your chart via Photobucket?

IP: Logged

ayujegeg
Knowflake

Posts: 93
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Jan 2013

posted April 18, 2013 01:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ayujegeg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i put it in.

IP: Logged

somethingexcellent
Knowflake

Posts: 965
From: walking with my head in the clouds!
Registered: Nov 2012

posted April 18, 2013 01:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Low self-confidence? That could be your S-turn overpowering your Sun there via the square, since S-turn is both diginified and conjunct his own angle. Then Taurus AC and Mars in Cancer, two placements I generally don't find to have good social and communication skills when it concerns unfamiliar people.

IP: Logged

Randall
Webmaster

Posts: 26962
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009

posted April 18, 2013 01:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Personal Readings.

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Open Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright 2000-2013

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a