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Topic: One question about BABIES thats been bothering me lately..
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sillyme Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 07:19 AM
Are Babies (below 3 years) EXTRA SENSITIVE to synastry/composite with people , or IMMUNE to it???Eg. You carry a baby..it doesn't like it...so starts crying.. then someone else who is not the mother or a close contact of the baby pitches in.. holds the baby...and it is instantly comforted and its happy and giggling in moments.. Would this be because of that person's synastry/composite with the child which makes it feel nurtured, or is it because that particular person just has it in him...and all babies would feel comfy around him.. irrespective of synastry? Now, no matter what the compatibility between mother and child, for every baby, it is mostly the mother who it turns to for nurturing and protection..... This is also true for the father and all other family members or others who are in constant contact with the child...but ofcourse its the mother who comes First, in most cases. Sure, every baby is different and some are more outgoing than the others and can be comfortable with external people as well..ofcourse this also changes with age....But usually, a baby is more comfortable around the people its used too, especially for longer periods of time... So, obviously astrology does not hold good in this case... But what about OTHER people? why would it cry in the company of A , while it laughs in the company of B, the very next moment? Is this because of synastry/composite connections between baby and B? Or, because of some beautiful individual quality of B that attracts babies? NOTE : By synastry/composite aspects I mean moon/venus, moon/node or venus/node and other such aspects between the baby and the person which the baby might be able to sense and hence makes it feel like its with mommy.. Ofcourse, being adults we would be affectionate and playful towards any baby in the vicinity no matter what the synastry...which clearly shows that we are IMMUNE to our synastries with babies !
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 3014 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 20, 2013 07:57 AM
Eh, that's an awesome question right there, I've never even thought about that! "silly me" doesn't fit you I don't have any babies in my surroundings, aye. But I think they would be very sensitive to synastry/composite. Don't ask me why though! IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 09:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Eh, that's an awesome question right there, I've never even thought about that! "silly me" doesn't fit you I don't have any babies in my surroundings, aye. But I think they would be very sensitive to synastry/composite. Don't ask me why though!
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RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6608 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 20, 2013 11:53 AM
Yes the baby does feel these things.There was a 2 year old at a behavior analysis program we were doing for autistic children, and i had a love stellium comjunct pluto with him and from the first day he came in he was crying and he would only stop crying when I came and comforted him. He'd also fall asleep more easily with me, and there was definitely a lot of affection between us. He would run away from other counselors, but he'd stand quietly next to me and didn't run away from me. There was also a 3 year old little girl who would always play around with me and call my name over and over. And when were doing our activities together she would never throw a tantrum with me, and would mostly listen to what I said to do and comply. We had a love stellium, no pluto. Also, with my cousin's baby, he is about 8 months old, there could be 5 people around me but he always stays making eye contact with me and doesnt break it. And there is also a lot of affection. He holds onto my hand and plays with my fingers whereas he doesbnt do that with anyone else. My family thinks it's that im good with children, but i wish i could explain that it's just because we have a love stellium ------------------ True to my aqua north node, I'll always pick the choice nobody expected me to pick. ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility (3rd post) | Q&A | What's a Love stellium? | Most important aspects descriptions | Aspects to avoid IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6530 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 12:25 PM
babies dont really have advanced personalities, they are either friendly and sociable or only like mommy. Babies usually like me alot for some reason but I have ran into a few who wail when I try to hold them because they only feel safe with their mother. I heard an astrologer say they believe babies operate purely from their moon sign and that has been true in my experience. My mom said I was very calm as a baby and never cried. she also said I liked to eat and sleep, i'm a taurus moon.IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 12:27 PM
Thanks so much for the input RAS So, both of you are saying that babies can sense the synastry/composite with other people and respond accordingly... Okay, but does this also imply that they would not respond positively to a person who naturally emits a calm, soothing, loving vibe/aura....because the synastry/composite of the baby with that person is not good?? Which would triumph in this case : the soothing aura of the person, or, the synastry with the baby? IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 75 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 12:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: babies dont really have advanced personalities, they are either friendly and sociable or only like mommy. Babies usually like me alot for some reason but I have ran into a few who wail when I try to hold them because they only feel safe with their mother. I heard an astrolger say they believe babies operate purely their moon sign and that has been true in my experience. My mom said I was very calm as a baby and never cried, she also said I liked to eat and sleep, i'm a taurus moon.
I like your theory about kids acting out purely on their moon sings but I have to disagree with you. My youngest sister has an Aries Moon at 0° degree. When she was a child, she was very obedient,quiet, shy and so easy to please, she rarely cried and she used to sleep most of the time. So this proves that she was acting actually out her Pisces Sun Sign rather than her Aries Moon. In my case, I have a Libra Moon and I acted nothing like it when I was a kid. I was the biggest troubler maker in the family, I used to be wild and untamed, piking up fights with other kids just for the fun of it. Now I realized that I was actually acting out my strong Sagittarius Sun. I don't know maybe your theory works for boys and not girls ??
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6530 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 12:44 PM
^ I'm not talking about children, i'm talking about babies. like 3 and under..IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 75 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 12:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: ^ I'm not talking about children, i'm talking about babies. like 3 and under..
The same still applies from what I've seen. IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 01:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: babies dont really have advanced personalities, they are either friendly and sociable or only like mommy. Babies usually like me alot for some reason but I have ran into a few who wail when I try to hold them because they only feel safe with their mother.
True...but it also depends on its age...the same baby which was outgoing and sociable with almost anybody might become shy after a few months and cling to its mother...or, vice versa. IP: Logged |
FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 757 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 06:31 PM
Idk but babies and family synastry fascinate me!I recently went with my family to see my cousin's 8 month old baby for the first time.. The baby is a Leo Sun, Moon and Mercury. My younger sister is a Leo Sun, Venus, Mercury with some of their planets conjunct, and yeah there was definitely a strong connection between them. The baby was drawn to her the whole time and there was lots of smiling/laughing. I might as well not have been in the room lol. And guess what they bonded over the most?? Playing with my sister's flashy bracelets and her hair Like really making a big deal about the hair lol So frustrating not being able to point out the obvious IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 1875 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 08:32 PM
I think they are sensitive to synastry/composite and astro influences in general.. I don't know if they would be *extra* sensitive.. When I was young I used to break out crying whenever two particular people held me. These two people both had their Sun square mine (in orb) along with several other negative aspects. I checked the synastries for both. They both tried to be nice.. One of them always tried to play with me - but I used to give him a blank stare or cry and run off. IP: Logged |
mockingbird Knowflake Posts: 1520 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted April 20, 2013 08:37 PM
I think that they're as sensitive as everyone else, they just can't smooth over their reactions.------------------ If I've included this sig, it's because I'm posting from a mobile device. Please excuse all outrageous typos and confusing auto-corrects. IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted April 21, 2013 03:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by FireMoon: Idk but babies and family synastry fascinate me!I recently went with my family to see my cousin's 8 month old baby for the first time.. The baby is a Leo Sun, Moon and Mercury. My younger sister is a Leo Sun, Venus, Mercury with some of their planets conjunct, and yeah there was definitely a strong connection between them. The baby was drawn to her the whole time and there was lots of smiling/laughing. I might as well not have been in the room lol. And guess what they bonded over the most?? Playing with my sister's flashy bracelets and her hair Like really making a big deal about the hair lol So frustrating not being able to point out the obvious
Thanks for replying! Is the baby's moon conjunct your sister's venus and maybe mercury too? IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted April 21, 2013 03:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: I think they are sensitive to synastry/composite and astro influences in general.. I don't know if they would be *extra* sensitive.. When I was young I used to break out crying whenever two particular people held me. These two people both had their Sun square mine (in orb) along with several other negative aspects. I checked the synastries for both. They both tried to be nice.. One of them always tried to play with me - but I used to give him a blank stare or cry and run off.
Thanks Surely sun square sun couldn't have caused that....Maybe there were really bad pluto/Saturn aspects between you and them? IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1093 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 21, 2013 04:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: babies dont really have advanced personalities, they are either friendly and sociable or only like mommy. Babies usually like me alot for some reason but I have ran into a few who wail when I try to hold them because they only feel safe with their mother. I heard an astrologer say they believe babies operate purely from their moon sign and that has been true in my experience. My mom said I was very calm as a baby and never cried. she also said I liked to eat and sleep, i'm a taurus moon.
That's actually true in many ways. It's believed that people behave based more on their moon placement and aspects than sun. People can disagree, but keep in mind, you don't always act like what's described of your sun sign, either. So, it wouldn't surprise me that a baby would behave based more on their moon. IP: Logged |