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Topic: Venus/Mars Sexuality and Sex Style
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goatcat
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posted April 23, 2013 12:03 AM
  
When reading the sexual styles of Venus and Mars, I can relate more to my Mars when it comes to the act of sex itself. I relate to my Venus more when it comes to foreplay and attraction.My boyfriend's Venus is in Taurus and his Mars is in Gemini. When having sex I experience his Venus in Taurus but I'm not quite sure I experience his Gemini Mars...cuz he's definitely not a talker in bed! My question is how does this work? Does my boyfriends Venus in Taurus show more because of his Libra ascendant? Is it aspects? IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted April 23, 2013 12:04 AM
Does a man's Venus show during sex and a woman's Mars?IP: Logged |
k e p h x i
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posted April 23, 2013 12:06 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
Does a man's Venus show during sex and a woman's Mars?
Yeah, I heard something like that. But, someone who's more knowledgeable should give their two cents.  ------------------
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frankie2912
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posted April 23, 2013 12:10 AM
Just because he doesn't talk in bed doesn't mean his Mars in Gemini isn't coming through. Gemini is very cerebral so he may have a wild fantasy world going on in his head that keeps him going in bed. I think that Mars is how EVERYONE tends to act in the physical act of sex. Venus tends to be how everyone attracts, seduces, and reacts to the emotional parts of sex.IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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posted April 23, 2013 12:17 AM
Mars in Gemini doesn't necessarily show through only talking or vocalisations. Does he like to move around lots? Does he perform at/prefer a faster pace? Different positions? Basically anything involving movement and change could also be Geminese...IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted April 23, 2013 12:40 AM
Hold on y'all lemme tell ya...IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted April 23, 2013 12:54 AM
When Venus or Mars is in Taurus, the sexual nature involves all of the senses. Touch and smell are supremely important to these lovers. These are the most physical of sexual partners. No frills sex is quite fine, as long as the mood is right and there is plenty of physical contact. These lovers don't have a reputation for spontaneity or variety, but they are good at what they do nonetheless, simply because they are truly right there with you. Abstaining from sex is especially difficult for Taurus, so finding a regular sex partner is particularly important. Their sexual stamina during love-making is long-lasting and steady. Although generally patient, their style is natural and physical, and intellectualizing the sex act would only serve to baffle Taurus.(Cafeastrology) The bolded selections are dead on! IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted April 23, 2013 01:03 AM
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
Just because he doesn't talk in bed doesn't mean his Mars in Gemini isn't coming through. Gemini is very cerebral so he may have a wild fantasy world going on in his head that keeps him going in bed. I think that Mars is how EVERYONE tends to act in the physical act of sex. Venus tends to be how everyone attracts, seduces, and reacts to the emotional parts of sex.
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goatcat
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posted April 23, 2013 01:04 AM
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Mars in Gemini doesn't necessarily show through only talking or vocalisations. Does he like to move around lots? Does he perform at/prefer a faster pace? Different positions? Basically anything involving movement and change could also be Geminese...
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goatcat
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posted April 23, 2013 01:09 AM
Sex is strictly physical and sensual for this boy with emphasis on how it feels and how it looks.He can go with one position all night as long as it feels good. His favorite/go-to position is man-on-top. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted April 23, 2013 01:16 AM
I have a gemini mars, i dont talk much but i do like to be active and changing positions trying new things and such, either during sex or foreplay i want more activity and less sentimental stuff...i dont really see the point of being mushy...just get to it!
Im a libra venus, still...not into the mushy stuff when it comes to sex! I am romantic i just never relate that to sex?
I dated a taurus venus with gemini mars and it was awesome, he was just as agile as me and needed it to be a cool to cold temperature so we didnt get to hot...i swear thats a major thing is we get too(physically)hot, i guess maybe a fast metabolism that comes with that placement unless its afflicted or tightly aspecting jupiter maybe?
I dont think ive never known a gemini mars that was really over weight!!
I do think gemini mars like to be talked to during sex because our minds can wander no matter how much fun we are having and if you talk to us it helps keep us focused, i think if we talk during sex we lose a our focus some and takes away from the experience!
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goatcat
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posted April 23, 2013 01:16 AM
The bolded parts are totally me:When Venus or Mars is in Cancer, you'll get one of the most sensitive and sweet lovers. When they're not pouting, they are romantic and gooey with you. They are turned on by slave scenarios, and they may like it when you're a little mean and aggressive in bed, as long as they know you love them. Some of them are turned on by the idea of making a baby , and others just love the idea of being all yours in bed. They are known as the sign most attracted to breasts, and they generally like their men rather masculine and their women feminine, at least in fantasy. They don't always let you know what turns them on, and expect you to intuit their sexual needs. Their style in bed is protective and soothing. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted April 23, 2013 01:21 AM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I have a gemini mars, i dont talk much but i do like to be active and changing positions trying new things and such, either during sex or foreplay i want more activity and less sentimental stuff...i dont really see the point of being mushy...just get to it!
Im a libra venus, still...not into the mushy stuff when it comes to sex! I am romantic i just never relate that to sex?
I dated a taurus venus with gemini mars and it was awesome, he was just as agile as me and needed it to be a cool to cold temperature so we didnt get to hot...i swear thats a major thing is we get too(physically)hot, i guess maybe a fast metabolism that comes with that placement unless its afflicted or tightly aspecting jupiter maybe?
I dont think ive never known a gemini mars that was really over weight!!
I do think gemini mars like to be talked to during sex because our minds can wander no matter how much fun we are having and if you talk to us it helps keep us focused, i think if we talk during sex we lose a our focus some and takes away from the experience!
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goatcat
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posted April 23, 2013 01:24 AM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
i dont really see the point of being mushy...just get to it!I do think gemini mars like to be talked to during sex because our minds can wander no matter how much fun we are having and if you talk to us it helps keep us focused, i think if we talk during sex we lose a our focus some and takes away from the experience!
My boyfriend is a "get to it" guy but I thought that was cuz he's Aries! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted April 23, 2013 01:32 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
My boyfriend is a "get to it" guy but I thought that was cuz he's Aries!
Oh...its probably the gemini mars...once we get going its like lightening...everything around us just vanishes and we are beyond ready to go! We can go forever to!
When i dated the taurus venus gemini mars...we could lose touch with reality and be half naked before we realize their were others around! Ugh! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted April 23, 2013 01:35 AM
I think a gemini mars with a gemini mars is tough because neither of the people are going to be moving slow enough to think before acting!IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted April 23, 2013 01:44 AM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I think a gemini mars with a gemini mars is tough because neither of the people are going to be moving slow enough to think before acting!
What's Venus in Libra like? IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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posted April 23, 2013 01:52 AM
Omg Gabby is breezing through again! Hi Gabby! Hi!It's me RedScorp reinvented,  IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted April 23, 2013 02:02 AM
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What's Venus in Libra like?
Hmmm, im not sure if i can give an accurate description because mine is conjunct pluto on ASC, but i know before the darkside of pluto gets a hold of me, im very romantic and want to make everything beautiful, cook, clean, dress him...make him proud to be with me.
But once i question something or something youve said doesnt quite add up, you wake up the devil, pluto!
Then, i get quiet and won't lift a finger for you until ive thoroughly investigated and firmly believe you werent lying so i can trust you again.
Most of the time they dont realize im watching to make sure of their honesty, i try not to make it obvious that i think they are liars...lol
But if ive seen enough and proved to myself they are being good, ill put my trust back in them and go right back to being the lil sweet adoring partner they had before! Haha! I had an ex who's pet name for me was, sweet, petite, freak. I think that guy caught onto me and my lack of trust in men...he was a scorpio moon so im sure he knew exactly what i was doing when i was watching for clues to see if he was lying to me!
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Gabby
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posted April 23, 2013 02:03 AM
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Omg Gabby is breezing through again! Hi Gabby! Hi!It's me RedScorp reinvented,
Hey..how are you doing?? I wondered where you were!! IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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posted April 23, 2013 02:40 AM
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Gabby: I wondered where you were!!
Did you really or are you just saying that because you're a sweet Libra rising?  I've been fine fine...fine...it's been slow tbh god damn!!!! My Moon is almost progressed into Libra so the slow life of introspection and refining the unnecessary parts of life inherent of pVirgo Moon is almost over! Good thing too. I was wondering if I should just up and live on a mountain like a true hermit.  And you madame? How's your wonderful crazy life?
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Gabby
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posted April 23, 2013 02:50 AM
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Did you really or are you just saying that because you're a sweet Libra rising? I've been fine fine...fine...it's been slow tbh god damn!!!! My Moon is almost progressed into Libra so the slow life of introspection and refining the unnecessary parts of life inherent of pVirgo Moon is almost over! Good thing too. I was wondering if I should just up and live on a mountain like a true hermit. And you madame? How's your wonderful crazy life?
No, i did actually wonder why i never saw you on!!
My Asc has progressed into scorp now...so ive left my libra nice nice behind! My virgo moon is in aqua, and saggy sun in cap...
so pretty much i feel the same...cap is to mucg like virgo...responsible and picky.
Aqua is to much like saggy crazy and independant, and scorp asc? well pluto always been on Ac, so its not that diff!
Life just keeps going and going and going...but its all good! IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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posted April 23, 2013 07:08 AM
What do you think about the Aqua Venus and Taurus Mars combination? Do you have any experience with it? I've never had sex but sometimes I wonder what kind of lover I would be ------------------
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goatcat
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posted April 23, 2013 11:32 AM
I'm so cappy does this fit you might you think,When Venus or Mars is in Aquarius, there is a "take it or leave it" style that can be sexy or maddening, depending on the audience. They don't have a reputation for warmth in sex, although they may think the other way around because, at least in theory, they are open-minded. They give off an air of being savvy and cool in bed. Sex from a distance (when you are not actually there physically), or in theory, is often where they shine. That is why cyber or phone sex, or affairs that don't break up marriages, can be especially attractive to these folks. They are most turned on when you are not, as detachment can be a real turn-on for them. And, again, the idea of sex is generally more exciting to these lovers than the actual act. Their fantasies often involve getting caught having sex, and they are attracted to people who are a little offbeat or odd. (Cafeastrology) IP: Logged |
TaurusInParticles
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posted April 23, 2013 11:39 AM
Venus in Aries Mars in Cancer?IP: Logged |
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