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Topic: Are scorpios going through a hard time
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ayujegeg Knowflake Posts: 264 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 23, 2013 08:45 AM
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somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 4122 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 23, 2013 08:55 AM
WEEEELL I've been pretty 'at home' of the past few years. I'm socially inclined and generally sort of talented in that arena I guess, but I just haven't had the desire to be out there. At first it was kinda hard and I felt like I was withering away at home (one summer my family and I moved to a cabin out of town and many of my friend groups were partying it up while I didn't have regular contact - practically sleep all day, awake all night with no company). I felt static, out of touch with reality.As of the past few (6?) months, I've accepted it though, I think. I'm okay just socialising with like three people regularly. I kinda feel like it's gonna change soon and I'll grow out of this hermit phase, and even if not, I can always make it. I've always been a soaring eagle above other Scorpio manifests: chivalrous, proud, beautiful. IP: Logged |
ayujegeg Knowflake Posts: 264 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 23, 2013 08:58 AM
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somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 4122 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 23, 2013 09:07 AM
Awe boo, every Scorpio manifest is present in you, and any Scorpio. Some just show more than others.I've had my aggressive and reckless scorpion phases. Same with the depressive and self-destructive lizard. I even know many Scorpio-influenced people who are either, but have their eagle moments! It's all a journey in learning to function as best you want. And believe me, if you're a Scorpio, you will have the tenacity. (somethingexcellent, the life coach lmfao!) IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 23, 2013 09:11 AM
Don't worry, I think we all go through hard times, especially us Scorpios.You know, if you feel apathetic or depressed, maybe it's because you are not living out your potential and your "calling" in life. Maybe you are frustrated because it seems like you can't find that one thing that would make you motivated and energetic. With Saturn in Scorpio right now, it may make things a bit more difficult, but eventually you'll feel much better about yourself and your life. Also, generally speaking Scorpio folks tend to take things very seriously and make mountains out of molehills. It's just that we are very sensitive people who feel things on a deeper level than usual. You may find channeling your aspirations/ideals/emotions very helpful. Like, try music or writing, or dancing.. whatever. Something that awakens your creativity and allows free expression of your inner world. I am sure you will rise above the negativity very soon. ~
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ayujegeg Knowflake Posts: 264 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 23, 2013 09:18 AM
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Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 23, 2013 09:21 AM
Haha you're so cute.I'm telling ya, when there's a will, there is a way. Good luck and see you soon, in the sky
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ayujegeg Knowflake Posts: 264 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 23, 2013 09:26 AM
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Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 23, 2013 09:30 AM
Yeah, soon we'll all be together flying in the sky, being all supreme and wonderful Oh and don't worry about it, it'll come naturally once you let yourself go! Just r e l a x ~ IP: Logged |
ayujegeg Knowflake Posts: 264 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 23, 2013 09:35 AM
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rhia Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 23, 2013 11:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Don't worry, I think we all go through hard times, especially us Scorpios.You know, if you feel apathetic or depressed, maybe it's because you are not living out your potential and your "calling" in life. Maybe you are frustrated because it seems like you can't find that one thing that would make you motivated and energetic.
This is absolutely spot on for me. I've felt similar to the OP for about three years but I for ages I couldn't put my finger on it, but this is exactly it. On paper I am exceptionally fortunate (lucky old me!) but I just don't feel like it makes me as happy as it should, and then I feel really ungrateful. I got my dream job around the time it started but I just couldn't appreciate it, it was just a job. Things came to a head last year over the course of about two weeks (I tried to pinpoint it astrologically but I'm not experienced enough) and I couldn't stand carrying on that way, so I handed in my notice and have had a serious career 'diversion'. I want to feel passionate about something and I'm still searching via this change in path, but I haven't quite found it yet. I feel the same way about relationships and I guess it's the Scorp desire for things to be meaningful and to 'matter', but sometimes that's just not realistic! 'Good enough' isn't good enough! IP: Logged |
the89freespirit unregistered
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posted April 24, 2013 05:09 AM
Saturn has been transiting my Scorpio Moon for a while now. It is exactly conjunct now, to the degree. It has been a hard time, emotionally, in many ways. I think I've been forced lately to completely come to terms with the 'hard stuff' (Saturn) about my family, childhood, upbringing (Moon), once and for all. I'm basically estranged from my family at this point. It's gotten to where I've reached my breaking point with them. I realize how my emotionally stunted mother will NEVER change and how I'll never be able to establish a healthy relationship with her. I realize that I've never had healthy relationships with any of my parental figures (mom, dad, stepdad) and never will because they're incapable of having good relationships. I know now that I can't rely on them anymore for anything, emotionally or materially. And I can't talk to my siblings about it, because they're too brainwashed. I'm the total Black Sheep. That's my destiny. HOWEVER, I'm not trying to have a pity party. I say all of that because, actually, this Moon-Saturn transit has been a real breakthrough. Add on top of that the fact that transiting Pluto is exactly conjunct my Neptune in the 12th, which is all about the destruction of past illusions. It has been far from pleasant. I've had some terrible confrontations with my parents. But, I no longer have the luxury of deluding myself about my family situation, either. I know now that I can and should never, ever depend on my parents again. And that has been really freeing, actually. They can never hurt me again. So, yeah, the Moon-Saturn transit has actually led to some serious healing for me. I'm truly and completely letting go, of all the pain, for the first time in my life. And I never knew it could feel so good. ------------------ Check out My Astrology Blog: http://astroarena12.blogspot.com IP: Logged |
FruitTreeFresh Knowflake Posts: 480 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 24, 2014 11:43 PM
When is Saturn leaving Scorpio? I feel you. My Sun is in Libra and Saturn has transitted from Libra to Scorpio.IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 738 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 25, 2014 12:53 AM
I need to know more about these "transits." Scorpio moon myself, i really had it rough last year, actually i'm still having it rough this year. Is there a site where i can study Transits better? IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 25, 2014 01:51 AM
Eh, I'm seeing Taurus peeps going through worse. Scorpios look...remote. Hard to reach, on their off days. They're pretty strong though, they're pulling through. I'm sure there's a lot going on internally though. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 8906 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 25, 2014 05:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by the89freespirit: Saturn has been transiting my Scorpio Moon for a while now. It is exactly conjunct now, to the degree. It has been a hard time, emotionally, in many ways. I think I've been forced lately to completely come to terms with the 'hard stuff' (Saturn) about my family, childhood, upbringing (Moon), once and for all. I'm basically estranged from my family at this point. It's gotten to where I've reached my breaking point with them. I realize how my emotionally stunted mother will NEVER change and how I'll never be able to establish a healthy relationship with her. I realize that I've never had healthy relationships with any of my parental figures (mom, dad, stepdad) and never will because they're incapable of having good relationships. I know now that I can't rely on them anymore for anything, emotionally or materially. And I can't talk to my siblings about it, because they're too brainwashed. I'm the total Black Sheep. That's my destiny. HOWEVER, I'm not trying to have a pity party. I say all of that because, actually, this Moon-Saturn transit has been a real breakthrough. Add on top of that the fact that transiting Pluto is exactly conjunct my Neptune in the 12th, which is all about the destruction of past illusions. It has been far from pleasant. I've had some terrible confrontations with my parents. But, I no longer have the luxury of deluding myself about my family situation, either. I know now that I can and should never, ever depend on my parents again. And that has been really freeing, actually. They can never hurt me again. So, yeah, the Moon-Saturn transit has actually led to some serious healing for me. I'm truly and completely letting go, of all the pain, for the first time in my life. And I never knew it could feel so good.
I had the transit hit my Venus and is now going to oppose my Ascendant. Saturn is "contraction".So its like having to go through the whole week with 1 loaf of bread and water. You can make it, but it's not a desirable sate of existence in one's life. Saturn doesn't really get to work IMO until it goes retrograde. This is like a wrecking ball swinging back and forth; making sure that all that is left is debris. So when Saturn hit retrograde earlier this year(Jan),I felt an intense isolation from others months afterwards. I have always been a loner, but this was ridiculously painful:I would spend days on the computer-months even- with no-one to talk to or visit. Venus also rules my 1st house and 6th house so yes,Saturn also affected my immediate environment and I felt like it was compressing(1st)and my external view of the world became ever more cynical. I also should go for a checkup just to make sure there are not any diseases creeping in in my body(6th). I think what I wanted to say to you is that sometimes the conjunction to a planet has us "projecting" the qualities of that conjunct Planet to other people. So with me, the conjunction of Venus to Saturn made me feel that other people(Venus) were just unsympathetic,rigid and unavailable(conjunct Saturn).So it compounded the loneliness. In your case,the Moon-Saturn conjunction could have you feeling that people in your interpersonal relationships(Moon) are the same; rigid, unfeeling, unsympathetic and unreachable(Saturn conjunct). I hear that the transit opposite to my Asc will have me losing weight??? The possible loss of appetite,the onset of a more linear way of thinking etc. Often very pessimistic. I am already not that hefty, so I guess "Mr Bones" will be my new pet name IP: Logged |
FruitTreeFresh Knowflake Posts: 480 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 27, 2014 09:40 PM
Think of losing weight as a good thing. Better than losing something else..IP: Logged |
Reincarnation unregistered
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posted October 27, 2014 10:58 PM
Saturn has been challenging, but the fruits of my hard work are going to be worth it.------------------ Scorpio Sun, Mercury, Mars, and Pluto, Lilith Taurus Moon 11-12-1989 IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 3182 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted October 28, 2014 09:46 AM
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