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ayujegeg
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posted April 23, 2013 08:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ayujegeg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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somethingexcellent
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posted April 23, 2013 08:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WEEEELL I've been pretty 'at home' of the past few years. I'm socially inclined and generally sort of talented in that arena I guess, but I just haven't had the desire to be out there. At first it was kinda hard and I felt like I was withering away at home (one summer my family and I moved to a cabin out of town and many of my friend groups were partying it up while I didn't have regular contact - practically sleep all day, awake all night with no company). I felt static, out of touch with reality.

As of the past few (6?) months, I've accepted it though, I think. I'm okay just socialising with like three people regularly. I kinda feel like it's gonna change soon and I'll grow out of this hermit phase, and even if not, I can always make it.

I've always been a soaring eagle above other Scorpio manifests: chivalrous, proud, beautiful.

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posted April 23, 2013 08:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ayujegeg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 23, 2013 09:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awe boo, every Scorpio manifest is present in you, and any Scorpio. Some just show more than others.

I've had my aggressive and reckless scorpion phases. Same with the depressive and self-destructive lizard. I even know many Scorpio-influenced people who are either, but have their eagle moments!

It's all a journey in learning to function as best you want. And believe me, if you're a Scorpio, you will have the tenacity.

(somethingexcellent, the life coach lmfao!)

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posted April 23, 2013 09:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't worry, I think we all go through hard times, especially us Scorpios.

You know, if you feel apathetic or depressed, maybe it's because you are not living out your potential and your "calling" in life. Maybe you are frustrated because it seems like you can't find that one thing that would make you motivated and energetic.

With Saturn in Scorpio right now, it may make things a bit more difficult, but eventually you'll feel much better about yourself and your life.

Also, generally speaking Scorpio folks tend to take things very seriously and make mountains out of molehills. It's just that we are very sensitive people who feel things on a deeper level than usual.

You may find channeling your aspirations/ideals/emotions very helpful.
Like, try music or writing, or dancing.. whatever. Something that awakens your creativity and allows free expression of your inner world.


I am sure you will rise above the negativity very soon. ~

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posted April 23, 2013 09:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ayujegeg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 23, 2013 09:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha you're so cute.

I'm telling ya, when there's a will, there is a way.


Good luck and see you soon, in the sky

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posted April 23, 2013 09:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ayujegeg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 23, 2013 09:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Yeah, soon we'll all be together flying in the sky, being all supreme and wonderful

Oh and don't worry about it, it'll come naturally once you let yourself go!

Just r e l a x ~

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posted April 23, 2013 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rhia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Don't worry, I think we all go through hard times, especially us Scorpios.

You know, if you feel apathetic or depressed, maybe it's because you are not living out your potential and your "calling" in life. Maybe you are frustrated because it seems like you can't find that one thing that would make you motivated and energetic.


This is absolutely spot on for me. I've felt similar to the OP for about three years but I for ages I couldn't put my finger on it, but this is exactly it. On paper I am exceptionally fortunate (lucky old me!) but I just don't feel like it makes me as happy as it should, and then I feel really ungrateful. I got my dream job around the time it started but I just couldn't appreciate it, it was just a job. Things came to a head last year over the course of about two weeks (I tried to pinpoint it astrologically but I'm not experienced enough) and I couldn't stand carrying on that way, so I handed in my notice and have had a serious career 'diversion'. I want to feel passionate about something and I'm still searching via this change in path, but I haven't quite found it yet.

I feel the same way about relationships and I guess it's the Scorp desire for things to be meaningful and to 'matter', but sometimes that's just not realistic! 'Good enough' isn't good enough!

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Saturn has been transiting my Scorpio Moon for a while now. It is exactly conjunct now, to the degree.

It has been a hard time, emotionally, in many ways. I think I've been forced lately to completely come to terms with the 'hard stuff' (Saturn) about my family, childhood, upbringing (Moon), once and for all. I'm basically estranged from my family at this point. It's gotten to where I've reached my breaking point with them.

I realize how my emotionally stunted mother will NEVER change and how I'll never be able to establish a healthy relationship with her. I realize that I've never had healthy relationships with any of my parental figures (mom, dad, stepdad) and never will because they're incapable of having good relationships. I know now that I can't rely on them anymore for anything, emotionally or materially. And I can't talk to my siblings about it, because they're too brainwashed. I'm the total Black Sheep. That's my destiny.

HOWEVER, I'm not trying to have a pity party. I say all of that because, actually, this Moon-Saturn transit has been a real breakthrough. Add on top of that the fact that transiting Pluto is exactly conjunct my Neptune in the 12th, which is all about the destruction of past illusions. It has been far from pleasant. I've had some terrible confrontations with my parents. But, I no longer have the luxury of deluding myself about my family situation, either. I know now that I can and should never, ever depend on my parents again. And that has been really freeing, actually. They can never hurt me again.

So, yeah, the Moon-Saturn transit has actually led to some serious healing for me. I'm truly and completely letting go, of all the pain, for the first time in my life. And I never knew it could feel so good.

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posted October 24, 2014 11:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When is Saturn leaving Scorpio? I feel you. My Sun is in Libra and Saturn has transitted from Libra to Scorpio.

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posted October 25, 2014 12:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini30     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I need to know more about these "transits."

Scorpio moon myself, i really had it rough last year, actually i'm still having it rough this year.

Is there a site where i can study Transits better?

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posted October 25, 2014 01:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Eh, I'm seeing Taurus peeps going through worse.

Scorpios look...remote. Hard to reach, on their off days. They're pretty strong though, they're pulling through.
I'm sure there's a lot going on internally though.

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posted October 25, 2014 05:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by the89freespirit:
Saturn has been transiting my Scorpio Moon for a while now. It is exactly conjunct now, to the degree.

It has been a hard time, emotionally, in many ways. I think I've been forced lately to completely come to terms with the 'hard stuff' (Saturn) about my family, childhood, upbringing (Moon), once and for all. I'm basically estranged from my family at this point. It's gotten to where I've reached my breaking point with them.

I realize how my emotionally stunted mother will NEVER change and how I'll never be able to establish a healthy relationship with her. I realize that I've never had healthy relationships with any of my parental figures (mom, dad, stepdad) and never will because they're incapable of having good relationships. I know now that I can't rely on them anymore for anything, emotionally or materially. And I can't talk to my siblings about it, because they're too brainwashed. I'm the total Black Sheep. That's my destiny.

HOWEVER, I'm not trying to have a pity party. I say all of that because, actually, this Moon-Saturn transit has been a real breakthrough. Add on top of that the fact that transiting Pluto is exactly conjunct my Neptune in the 12th, which is all about the destruction of past illusions. It has been far from pleasant. I've had some terrible confrontations with my parents. But, I no longer have the luxury of deluding myself about my family situation, either. I know now that I can and should never, ever depend on my parents again. And that has been really freeing, actually. They can never hurt me again.

So, yeah, the Moon-Saturn transit has actually led to some serious healing for me. I'm truly and completely letting go, of all the pain, for the first time in my life. And I never knew it could feel so good.


I had the transit hit my Venus and is now going to oppose my Ascendant.

Saturn is "contraction".So its like having to go through the whole week with 1 loaf of bread and water. You can make it, but it's not a desirable sate of existence in one's life.

Saturn doesn't really get to work IMO until it goes retrograde. This is like a wrecking ball swinging back and forth; making sure that all that is left is debris.

So when Saturn hit retrograde earlier this year(Jan),I felt an intense isolation from others months afterwards.

I have always been a loner, but this was ridiculously painful:I would spend days on the computer-months even- with no-one to talk to or visit.

Venus also rules my 1st house and 6th house so yes,Saturn also affected my immediate environment and I felt like it was compressing(1st)and my external view of the world became ever more cynical.

I also should go for a checkup just to make sure there are not any diseases creeping in in my body(6th).

I think what I wanted to say to you is that sometimes the conjunction to a planet has us "projecting" the qualities of that conjunct Planet to other people.

So with me, the conjunction of Venus to Saturn made me feel that other people(Venus) were just unsympathetic,rigid and unavailable(conjunct Saturn).So it compounded the loneliness.

In your case,the Moon-Saturn conjunction could have you feeling that people in your interpersonal relationships(Moon) are the same; rigid, unfeeling, unsympathetic and unreachable(Saturn conjunct).

I hear that the transit opposite to my Asc will have me losing weight??? The possible loss of appetite,the onset of a more linear way of thinking etc. Often very pessimistic.

I am already not that hefty, so I guess "Mr Bones" will be my new pet name

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posted October 27, 2014 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Think of losing weight as a good thing. Better than losing something else..

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Saturn has been challenging, but the fruits of my hard work are going to be worth it.

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posted October 28, 2014 09:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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