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eyes_like_pisces
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posted April 23, 2013 09:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for eyes_like_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've seen a lot of just for fun questions on here and thought of this one. Which moon or Venus would have the hardest time falling OUT of love?

My list from easiest to hardest

1. Gemini (the twin overruled the other twin's opinion)
2. Virgo (once they learn they're partners flaw(s)
3. Pisces (after the illusion wears off)
4. Sagittarius (once they find a stronger Passion)
5. Aries (likely to stick to a decision once made)
6. Capricorn (when the practicality hits)
7. Libra (after a difference of opinion and illusion fails)
8. Cancer (after they did everything they could without improvement)
9. Aquarius (when the realize the passion's gone and its only commitment holding them down)
10. Leo (once they stopped being admired)
11. Taurus (when they're tolerance wears off)
12. Scorpio (after they hit rock bottom or were betrayed)

*remember its just for fun

Feel free to add your experiences

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asclibrasagsun
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posted April 23, 2013 11:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with 7 and 4 - well look at my nickname.

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posted April 23, 2013 11:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1. Scorpio or Taurus moon (because they love very intensely)
2. Pisces moons - Again they're similar to Capricorns (I put this in after I made my list, so of course move each one down, also Pisces moons will move on with their lives but they will NEVER forget the person that really captured their hearts.)
2. Aquarius moon
3. Cancer Moon (Notice the pattern of fixed or Cardinal signs being put ahead of the others...)
4. Capricorn moons (they might move on because it's sensible but if they loved someone the remnants and hope remains there for a very long time, longer than people expect I think. But Capricorn is modest and doesn't talk about their "guts" very much.)
5. Leo moon (I think they get over it better because Leos tend to lack empathy, so they focus on their own wounds and move on to the next person easier.)
6. Virgo moon (I don't really know how they function, so I just put them here.)
7. Aries moon (yeah it hurts for a little bit but they get right back up and go find another one)
8. Gemini moon (well, they were talking to a bunch of different people anyway, so... not that I hate Gemini moons but I don't think I'd like dating one very much.)

12. Sagittarius or Libra moon

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1) Gem
2) Cap
3) Sag
4)cancer
5) Aries
6) Aqua
7) Leo
8)virgo
9) cancer
10) Pisces
11) Scorpio
12) Libra

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posted April 24, 2013 01:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
''8. Cancer (after they did everything they could without improvement)''

So true.

And even after they did everything, they'll doubt if they did enough.Sucks to be a cancer moon.Duh.

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posted April 24, 2013 01:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
easiest to hardest falling out of love Venus or Moon sign:

1. Virgo
2. Aries
3. Scorpio
4. Capricorn
5. Gemini
6. Sagittarius
7. Aquarius
8. Leo
9. Cancer
10.Libra
11.Pisces
12.Taurus

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posted April 24, 2013 01:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving on for me is terribly hard (even after I may have fallen out of love; I am often not ready to admit that I am not in love anymore, and tend to cling to the memories of love and joy, more than love in the present in these instances).

You wouldn´t think this was the case though.
Stellium in Sag, Moon in Aqua, Venus in Cap

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posted April 24, 2013 02:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GirlinSeattle     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm, for me, falling OUT of love is fairly easy, but moving on is very difficult. I'm a Scorpio moon. Once a person slights me in any way that I find is a betrayal or just does not treat me the way I want to be treated, I am immediately not hooked anymore.

I can't say for many Moon signs, but my experience with Pisces Moons is that they have the most difficult falling out of love. Despite their partner's flaws, they're able to see through it and continue to only look on the good side. There are pros and cons to that.

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posted April 24, 2013 02:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for depth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My partner has a Gemini Moon/Cancer Venus and he took two years to get over his ex. Got into alcohol, depression, used to sit infront of her house all night and cry, kept her photos hoping she'd return some day, bribed her building security guard for information, self-harm...

I've a Virgo Moon/Sag Venus and I get over a relationship within a day or two..Just give me company and I'll be happy. I was into flaws and warts as a kid. My mom would point out mistakes and I'd fall out then and there.
My 3 Virgo Moon friends:
- Virgo Moon/Aqua Venus - took about a year to get over her ex. Not painful but not very easy either.
- Virgo Moon/Aries Venus - Heart pains a little but she'll be fine as soon as she finds a replacement.
- Virgo Moon/Scorpio Venus - Takes a prospective partner and some sex to forget the previous one.

My aqua moon/Scorpio Venus friend took around 4 years to get over her Leo ex. I guess she still thinks of him and keeps in touch. She dated many guys within the 4 year period but never fell in love with any of them. Attempted suicide, was depressed....

Aries Moon/Libra Venus ex - If you can't change your girlfriend, CHANGE your girlfriend.

Capricorn Moon/Scorpio Venus ex - Love many but marry the one who would keep the family happy and intact even if you don't like her.

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posted April 24, 2013 03:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Moving on for me is terribly hard (even after I may have fallen out of love; I am often not ready to admit that I am not in love anymore, and tend to cling to the memories of love and joy, more than love in the present in these instances).

You wouldn´t think this was the case though.
Stellium in Sag, Moon in Aqua, Venus in Cap



When I created my list, I used a certain logic. The signs where Venus and Moon are weakest, I reasoned, are the signs that have the easiest time falling out of love, since Venus is not as strong. My reasoning is the love nature might not be felt as much and people with these placements might have a harder time feeling and sustaining that emotion while those with exalted Moon and Venus, or, in the signs they rule would feel love much more strongly and would not be able to fall out of love easily at all. This is the formula I went by.

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posted April 24, 2013 06:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Ręve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ Interesting reasoning.

Generally speaking, fixed signs have the hardest time letting go.

I would say:
- Scorpio/Taurus (Sun or Venus btw, not Moon..)
- Leo/Cancer (Suns & Moons)
- Pisces/Virgo (Suns and maybe Venus)
- Libra (okay they can be flighty also)/Aquarius
- Capricorn

And after these all the others

Usually when a fixed planet - especially Venus or Moon - is afflicted by Pluto or Saturn.. these people can take ages to move on. It's because they cling to the past. It doesn't have to be in a fixed sign, but it's even more powerful when it is.

**my observations.

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posted April 24, 2013 07:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think in my case it is because my Aquarius Moon is in fixed 2nd house and rules the 8th house, and Venus in Capricorn, ruler of 5th house, is squared by Pluto on the MC.

Too much Pluto/8th house influence to let go easily

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posted April 24, 2013 12:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Londongirl8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm Aqua and when I'm done I'm done. I don't find it hard to move on when I know it's over. Maybe that's because my head rules my heart

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posted April 24, 2013 02:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anno_lucis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yep what ceri said.

aries sun/moon/venus/merc

AND that venus/merc trines uranus..lol

i'm pathetically sentimental even if it long since died...even if i ended it, LOL. messed upppp. don't underestimate moon aspects. break ups have ranged from bad to severe, at worst inducing a self destruct rampage.

well that was the past. it actually taught me to hold back and not fall so totally and completely anymore, unfortunate but no choice, self preservation...and to think, i'm a draco aqua sun and moon. SMH.

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posted April 24, 2013 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for eyes_like_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good insights and observations from everyone. Now I sounder who would have an easy time falling into love.
I would guess mutuable first, cardinals second, and fixed last.

By element maybe fire first, water, air than earth.

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posted April 24, 2013 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer.

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posted March 08, 2016 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for diamondbaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my opinion Scorpio.

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posted March 08, 2016 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Capricorn

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