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Topic: Too much pluto in synastry bad or good?
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 333
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 27, 2013 12:59 AM
  
Me and my boyfriend have these pluto aspects in synastry.Sun square pluto
Moon trine pluto
Mercury trine pluto
Mars conjunct pluto
Uranus sextile pluto
Neptune square pluto
Pluto trine sun
Pluto trine saturn
Pluto conjunct uranus
Pluto sextile lilith
Pluto opposition chiron
Pluto conjunct pallas
Lilith square pluto
Chiron trine pluto
Juno square pluto
Pluto semisquare Asc
Do you think too much pluto is bad to have in synastry?
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asclibrasagsun
Knowflake Posts: 1334
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 27, 2013 01:21 AM
I would say bad. Only because I came out of a pluto heavy relationship myself. As exciting the intense feelings are, cleaning up the heartbreak that may come down the road will be difficult. I am not saying that you will break up, rather, I am saying that if such a relationship ever ends, it will be difficult to get over.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 1947
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 27, 2013 01:23 AM
whats your relationship like?
For me I noticed transits effect the outcome of a relationship.
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 333
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 27, 2013 01:33 AM
Very intense.------------------
Gemini sun 12th
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 333
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 27, 2013 01:35 AM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
I would say bad. Only because I came out of a pluto heavy relationship myself. As exciting the intense feelings are, cleaning up the heartbreak that may come down the road will be difficult. I am not saying that you will break up, rather, I am saying that if such a relationship ever ends, it will be difficult to get over.
I can see what you mean. This is the most intense relationship i have ever been in. He is 39 iand i am 30. I dont think he has ever felt this way either.
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 333
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 27, 2013 01:36 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
whats your relationship like?
For me I noticed transits effect the outcome of a relationship.
Saturn returns too. They suck. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 333
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 27, 2013 01:38 AM
I wonder if both people have pluto in their natal maybe it can help them cope?IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
Knowflake Posts: 1334
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 27, 2013 01:38 AM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
I can see what you mean. This is the most intense relationship i have ever been in. He is 39 iand i am 30. I dont think he has ever felt this way either.
Mine was almost 40 years older than me. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 333
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 27, 2013 01:48 AM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Mine was almost 40 years older than me.
What pluto aspects did you have? IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 333
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 27, 2013 01:49 AM
Its crazy i never thought id find myself in such a passionate affair with a fellow gemini.IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
Knowflake Posts: 1334
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 27, 2013 01:56 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
What pluto aspects did you have?
His pluto squared my sun. He was the nastiest most manipulative person I know. I think he loved me but he enjoyed making me jump through hoops. It was really bad. IP: Logged |
MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 603
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 27, 2013 01:56 AM
Honestly, it doesn't look bad to me. The Pluto aspects you both have with each other are trines, which are softer aspects. Trines make things smoother & bring on the positive qualities of a planet, while squares & oppositions bring on challenges. I see mostly trines in your sinastry, So I'm guessing that this relationship will 'transform' both of you, romantically in a good way. Venus or mars in hard aspects to pluto though...Now those are synastry aspects to me that screams :'Run'. I had Pluto square venus with a guy before & there was plenty of manipulation & mind games going on. Definitely unhealthy & addictive but I was smart enough to wake up & cut ties. Would not recommend for a long term relationship, but when you're young & want a bad boy for a short while, why not. A trip to the wild & dangerous side. But real love is not dangerous & obsessive  But yeah, I don't see anything negative in your synastry. Trines are pretty good IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 333
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 27, 2013 03:33 AM
quote:
Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
His pluto squared my sun. He was the nastiest most manipulative person I know. I think he loved me but he enjoyed making me jump through hoops. It was really bad.
I see exactly what you mean. We have this aspect. I am the sun. I am very plutonian and so is he. When i try to manipulate he reads right through me. I start laughing. IP: Logged |
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