posted April 28, 2013 02:10 PM            

example 1.
both venus-venus trine and mars-mars trine.

versus,

example 2.
venus-mars trine DW

2. venus in gemini-mars in scorpio male versus, mars in gemini-venus in cancer male, which one is more loyal/stable? what are the differences?

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4. i read that mars in gemini does not take sex seriously, is this true?

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posted April 28, 2013 06:08 PM            

I have Mars in Gemini and I have a low drive, but also consider my Mars is in the 12th.

It would make sense for Gemini men to have that fixation since they are ruled by Mercury, Mercury handles communication, the mouth, etc.

posted April 28, 2013 06:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Questions 3 and 4 are inappropriate. Please, edit those out.

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with all due respect,
but, ive been in this board for many years, even had another nick before this one.
i have seen plenty of posts that discussed sex-related matters.....even in a very vulgar manner and no mod came to the rescue.
im not asking for information or descriptions but at least, a general consensus...

im baffled by your response, i mean...the countless of threads on scorpios and sex drives and sex, but, i cant ask about gemini sun men and sex drives?

posted April 28, 2013 06:44 PM            

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It would make sense for Gemini men to have that fixation since they are ruled by Mercury, Mercury handles communication, the mouth, etc.

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that was my line of thinking too.

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I would prefer Mars trine Mars I think? Doesn't that mean you can fight with them? My Mars is trine with nearly all my friend's Mars'. We don't fight. Maybe that's why I like it, lol. Venus trine Venus just sounds boring to me.

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i completely agree with mars-mars trine, it is very nice.

ive never had venus trine mars...but yes, it may not seem exciting enough.
it is just that a general consensus, going by astro descriptions is that venus-trine venus adds a nice comfortable feeling, that can either be very nice, or boring.
now, if you have venus-mars double whammy...it adds passion, desire, however...not necessarily that 'love'.....that feeling of 'union, at ease'

that is, venus-venus/mars-mars trine is more 'falling in love'
venus-mars conjunction/square trine dw = falling in lust

posted April 28, 2013 06:57 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Well it's probably just inappropriate for this forum since some people in here are under 18. There's a forum in here called Sweet Peas in the Rain where those topics are welcome.

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posted April 28, 2013 10:27 PM            

we all know what sex is now lets not pretend that were 5

idk about the oral fixation but ive noticed with all air mars signs, they all seem to have low sex drive cause theyre more mentally stimulated than down undaaaa stimulated and theyre less likely to initiate sex..they need a nice fire mars to get them into action

posted April 29, 2013 06:45 AM            

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Originally posted by foxxyxo:

i think gems in general see sex as just experimenting, nothing deep and merging. its just another hobby or something for them, atleast thats what it seems like to me. (not a gem)[/B]

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posted April 29, 2013 06:47 AM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
4 is false, I have Mars in Gemini and an extremely high sex drive so I have no idea where you heard this from.

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ive removed the sex drive implication, too simplistic.

posted April 29, 2013 06:49 AM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
i always thought that that was because they just viewed it in a detatched outward way.

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posted April 29, 2013 07:39 AM            

2. I'm really not sure about this one.
I think both can be loyal, especially if they have something in Cancer or Water influences, and of course with the right partner.

3. It may be true, but it's even more plausible if the idividual has Cancer placements - they're usually the ones described as having an oral fixation.

4. If they have strong Scorpio placements, for example, they'll probably view it more seriously than one would expect. But it's true that there can be a tendency to take it lightly - my mother is a good example, even though she's a woman.

posted April 29, 2013 08:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
1. Venus/Mars trine, especially double whammy, is more passionate.

2. I'm really not sure about this one.
I think both can be loyal, especially if they have something in Cancer or Water influences, and of course with the right partner.

3. It may be true, but it's even more plausible if the idividual has Cancer placements - they're usually the ones described as having an oral fixation.

4. If they have strong Scorpio placements, for example, they'll probably view it more seriously than one would expect. But it's true that there can be a tendency to take it lightly - my mother is a good example, even though she's a woman.

5. Cancer placements.

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doux...thank you...as always.
ill take note of cancer...as much as i have a love-hate relationship with the sign.
as to question #2.
it is venus in cancer-mars in gemini vs. venus in gemini-mars in scorpio....

posted April 29, 2013 08:18 AM            

Mars trine Mars is similar sex/work style.

Mars/Venus is better...sexual attraction, passion...

2. I've a friend with Venus in Gemini and he's very loyal and loving. A childhood crush has Venus/Mars in Gemini and he could be interested in anyone, anywhere. My friend's brother has Mars in Gemini and he's the silent **** in the house.

3. My partner has Gemini Moon/Mercury and he seems to have oral fixation. I read above that cancer placements make it plausible and he has Venus in Cancer. That makes him go overboard with it I guess. However, my ex had Mars in Cancer and he wasn't much into oral...

4. The only guy with Gemini Mars I know does take sex lightly. He's scorpionic though. And his scorpio Sun/Mars/Pluto/Mercury sister too does take it very lightly. Strangely.

posted April 29, 2013 10:06 AM            

2. Either can be loyal their both influenced by water. Speaking as a Venus/Moon in Gemini woman, I am very loyal person. As well as most of the Gemini Venus men I know even the one with the mars in Aries. With Venus/Mars in Gemini there is a bit more balance within the context of what he likes romantically and sexually. Fixed Scorpio energy usually doesn't stray too easily despite the hearsay. Cancer men don't stray unless they feel emotionally threatened overall very loyal.

3.Gemini men with a oral fixation yes but it depends on which direction your talking about

4. I don't think Gemini in Mars people don't take sex seriously. I believe they just have the ability to detach a bit more easily that could come off as not caring.

posted April 29, 2013 10:59 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Why is question 3 and 4 inappropriate but #5 isn't?

I have Mars in Gemini and I have a low drive, but also consider my Mars is in the 12th.

It would make sense for Gemini men to have that fixation since they are ruled by Mercury, Mercury handles communication, the mouth, etc.

I would prefer Mars trine Mars I think? Doesn't that mean you can fight with them? My Mars is trine with nearly all my friend's Mars'. We don't fight. Maybe that's why I like it, lol. Venus trine Venus just sounds boring to me.

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posted April 29, 2013 11:11 AM            

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Originally posted by hikoro:
ive removed the sex drive implication, too simplistic.

you have mars in gem...
have you met any mars in gem men? or, do you have any ideas as to gem venus vs. gem mars in men?

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posted April 29, 2013 11:37 AM            

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Mars trine Mars is similar sex/work style.

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and def. better than mars square mars, yes, it can be interesting at the beginning but...at the end, it gets ugly. the battle of the mars.

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3. My partner has Gemini Moon/Mercury and he seems to have oral fixation. I read above that cancer placements make it plausible and he has Venus in Cancer. That makes him go overboard with it I guess. However, my ex had Mars in Cancer and he wasn't much into oral...

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so, it is safe to say that a combination of cancer and gemini in the natal chart in men (particularly inner planets?) may mean oral fixation. good to know.

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The only guy with Gemini Mars I know does take sex lightly. He's scorpionic though. And his scorpio Sun/Mars/Pluto/Mercury sister too does take it very lightly. Strangely.

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that is very bizarre....very. i mean, in spite of all that scorpio?

posted April 29, 2013 11:43 AM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
1. It depends on your preference the venus-venus trine and mars-mars trine= harmony in both of your romance and sexual preferences.
Double whammies bring intensity and passion depending on the aspect and sign. Venus/Mars in harsh aspects seems so be more ahemm "fun"

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agree. and that is precisely my opinion too. the horizontal trines are more harmonious, nice comfy feeling, whereas the crossed aspects are more lustful. one is no better than the other, depends on what the ind. prefers.

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Gemini men with a oral fixation yes but it depends on which direction your talking about

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lol

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Cancer and Scorpio influence people just like using their mouth, but that can range from just a lot of wet kissing/licking to the other side of the spectrum. Taurus/Libra influence is a possibility too, Taurus does rule the throat and many Libra influenced are into pleasing other people but they expect equal reciprocation.

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yes...i think that it varies among the genders too...imo. like, i can see taurus-scorpionic women to be more into pleasing the other, as in, 'giving pleasure gives me pleasure'...vs. taurus-scorpionic men being far more self-centered. dunno.