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goatcat
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posted April 29, 2013 02:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How can I fulfill the emotional needs of my Libra moon boyfriend?

It's hard, especially with him being an Aries.

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posted April 29, 2013 03:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for foxxyxo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have a libra moon and aries rising

basically we love to be talked to, to be flirted with, if you guys can have really good flirty entertaining convos that should do the trick ...also definately having a good sense of humor, be able to make him laugh sometimes....sometimes libra moons don't realize their worth so compliments are good but don't overdo it or seem desperate. really be able to talk to him about anything and everything. just be comfortable with eachother, even with my aries rising, i still love to have that certain somebody to do everything with...go out to the club and get drunk!!!!!!!!!! lol go bar hopping. anything to be around music, people, and fun nightlife scene...people people people. this is known as the "superficial" moon but were really not superficial at all, people is what makes us happy and having good relationships. i guess you can describe it as it doesn't take much to make us happy, we just want to feel connected, o yes and we love to be in really cool atmosphere rooms like take him to places that have really good interior decorating/atmosphere where its fun. that always instantly puts me in a good mood!! communication is key, they like to talk a lot, deep and light stuff.

most libras loveeeee to kiss ass but me..hell no, his prob that same way too with aries, not liking to kiss ass....i think with aries and libra placements he prob has a good balance of being nice but still keepin it real

why does it seem like a struggle? whats your moon?

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posted April 29, 2013 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 29, 2013 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's a difficult case since he has an Aries sun and we don't know which side dominates but this is my advice:

Don't argue - discuss instead. Don't be a drama queen. Don't create conflicts for the sake of it. Don't get overly jealous. Don't yell nor get abusive physically or verbally! Don't mock him if he cries! It might be his natural reaction to extreme tension and extreme emotions.

Give him a lot of affection and be happy to receive it. Apprieciate his gentleness and care. He wants you to feel as good as possible and soothe your pain if you're hurting. You're his rose he wants to nurture. Be willing to talk about everything under the sun. Contribute to the relationship at least as much as he does. Be honest, calm, fair and reasonable. Tell him how much you love him, once a day should be enough. It would be great if you had at least one same hobby which you could develope together. If you both appreciate art, don't hesitate to express your delight or initiate outings to artistic events. Give him a small, personal gift once in a while. Be his best friend.

Just make sure things go smooth and the balance is kept and enjoy the peace in your relationship.

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posted April 29, 2013 10:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemNymph     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Heh.

One good (former) friend of mine was a Pisces Sun with Libra Moon. All she wanted to do was talk about things. She was a total waffle. But when she got angry at me over a misunderstanding, I wasn't able to ever get her to talk about it. I was pretty hurt by that. I thought we had more trust between us. But she shut me out completely without even letting me tell my side, and it ended our friendship. She was a Cap Mars, though.

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posted April 29, 2013 10:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Alright, but what does it have to do with the topic?

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posted April 29, 2013 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hikoro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by goatcat:
How can I fulfill the emotional needs of my Libra moon boyfriend?

It's hard, especially with him being an Aries.


phew....
i dont think it is the libra moon but that moon-opposing sun...and if he has other aspects that square his moon and sun...
he will be a ball of contradictions. his mind wants this, his emotions want that.
and you feel you are going crazy because nothing you do...is ever right, never satisfies him?
it is tough...very tough.
and, i will say...that is one of the most difficult oppositions in a man's natal chart, imo.
i dont know why....scorpio-taurus,...ok..., cap-cancer...ok
but, aries-libra man...ive always found it a pain in the arse.

wish you the best.

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posted April 29, 2013 01:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by foxxyxo:
why does it seem like a struggle? whats your moon?

Moon in Scorpiooooooooooooo

That's why!

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posted April 29, 2013 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I basically do all of these things but I like to get to the bottom of things when we have a conflict. My boyfriend will tell me what I want to hear just to end the conflict and that drives me mad! So my boyfriend just hopes that I get frustrated with him enough to give up on the conflict and move on. Moving on and pretending like we don't have a problem just makes things worse. I tell him this all the time.

I think I've come to notice that he's only willing to sit thru my fussing if I make him laugh while doing it. This is hard because I'm a Capricorn so when I think something is serious, I don't want people laughing.

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posted April 29, 2013 01:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's problematic. But not impossible to make it work. I think you can be a great couple if you control your temper. You can bring him passion and he can bring you serenity.

I just read your post. Hmmm...he really needs to understand it's better not to pretend there is no problem. Keep on explaining it to him and try not to get visibly angry in the process.


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posted April 29, 2013 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
That's problematic. But not impossible to make it work. I think you can be a great couple if you control your temper. You can bring him passion and he can bring you serenity.

I just read your post. Hmmm...he really needs to understand it's better not to pretend there is no problem. Keep on explaining it to him and try not to get visibly angry in the process.


I've gotten a much better hold on my temper since I last posted about it.

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posted April 29, 2013 01:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His sun opposes his moon in his chart.

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posted April 29, 2013 01:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Did I mention he's Libra Rising as well?

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posted April 29, 2013 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL he has no idea that I'm talking about him on an Astrology forum hehehe

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posted April 29, 2013 01:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So you had anger issues? I didn't know that, I was just following typical Scorpio descritpions

I think staying calm is the key. Does he tend to freeze when you don't manage to control yourself?

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Did I mention he's Libra Rising as well?

This is getting even more interesting

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LOL he has no idea that I'm talking about him on an Astrology forum hehehe

Don't worry, we won't tell him
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posted April 29, 2013 01:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 29, 2013 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And he hates you too I guess
You look cute together But if you want to keep your investigation a secret, I recommend you to delete this pic, just in case

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posted April 29, 2013 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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So you had anger issues? I didn't know that, I was just following typical Scorpio descritpions

I think staying calm is the key. Does he tend to freeze when you don't manage to control yourself?


I did/do have anger issues. I'm the kicking, screaming, hitting type when I don't properly get my feelings out. I think this my moon trining my retrograde Mars.
But since being with him I've learned how to get my feelings out so I don't get violent.

Does he freeze up? Yes ma'am he does! And my Scorpio moon expects him to act upon my showing out when it only pushes him further away! It's too much for his peaceloving moon.

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posted April 29, 2013 01:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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And he hates you too I guess
You look cute together But if you want to keep your investigation a secret, I recommend you to delete this pic, just in case


I will eventually

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Ouch, bad girl! Hmm, now I have a feeling I've read your story though, I just forgot it.

He freezes up because he feels overwhelmed and probably he subconsciously tries to balance things out. You explode, he implodes (if that makes any sense). Don't torture his poor moon.

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posted April 29, 2013 02:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He also has moon opposite Mars

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posted April 29, 2013 02:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aries-Libra-Aries-Libra-Aries-Libra...Is he combative at times?

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posted April 29, 2013 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ouch, bad girl! Hmm, now I have a feeling I've read your story though, I just forgot it.

He freezes up because he feels overwhelmed and probably he subconsciously tries to balance things out. You explode, he implodes (if that makes any sense). Don't torture his poor moon.


If it weren't for astrology, I don't know where we would be...

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posted April 29, 2013 02:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Aries-Libra-Aries-Libra-Aries-Libra...Is he combative at times?


At times, yes. His Aries half will say or do something that he knows irritates me or hurts my feelings and his Libra half will try to cover it up with a sweet voice or with "innocence".
"I didn't know that would hurt your feelings!", or"I was just playing around!"

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posted April 29, 2013 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by goatcat:
If it weren't for astrology, I don't know where we would be...


Probably at the police station Ahh, it's good to have a manual to someone, isn't it?

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his Libra half will try to cover it up with a sweet voice or with "innocence".

I can imagine he's quite good at it.

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