posted April 30, 2013 12:08 PM
Hey!I've been thinking lately about these. I found out his True BT, so it changed whole lot. It's better now, though.
What i am thinking, is - as i understand, it matters not only if our planets fall in each others relationship houses, but also what the rulers of these houses are doing, right?
In usual synastry overlays, all of our significant houses are actually activated:
His Moon in my 5th
His Venus in my 7th (conjunct DSC)
His Sun&Mercury in my 8th
My Sun, Venus, Mercury, Pluto in his 5th
My Saturn, Neptune in his 7th (Neptune conjuncts DSC exact)
My NN in his 8th (conjunct his Moon) (don't know if that counts?)
Ok, so far so good.
But do i have to see now what are the aspects between these house rulers and in which houses do they fall?
For example, his 5th house Ruler is Venus. It's in my 7th house, conjunct DSC. So that makes for a link between these two houses. My 5th ruler is Saturn, it's in his 7th house. So that's mutual, i assume - it's pretty good as well? There is also an aspect between these two - my Saturn sextiles his Venus. So both of our 5th house rulers are mutually aspected.
Then - his 7th house ruler is Saturn, it sits in my 3rd house, exactly conjunct my 3rd house ruler Pluto. My 7th house ruler is Neptune and it is situated in his 7th house, exactly conjunct his DSC. These two are in a sextile as well. Also his Saturn (7th ruler) sextiles my Saturn (5th ruler). That gives a good vibe as well, i suppose, as they are mutually aspected too. Oh, and by accident, his Venus (5th ruler) also sextiles my Neptune (7th house ruler) - a link again!
Then comes 8th house. His 8th house ruler is Saturn again, mine is Mars. My Mars falls in his 12th house. Our 8th house rulers are in aspect with each other as well, my Mars quincunx his Saturn. But in this case i don't understand if that's good, because in general it's good to have rulers of this house mutually aspected, but Mars/Saturn?!
My 8th ruler squares his 5th ruler (Mars square Venus) - that gives quite a passion, right?
I'm totally lost in all these things! Am i going in the right direction? Are there more links i should take into account?
In general - how do you think, are these links enough to make a relationship work?