posted May 02, 2013 12:05 PM            

Has anyone else noticed a moon conjunction in their father's and husband's charts?

BTW, by husband and father never got on well, which is odd ... considering that their emotional responses are identical.

posted May 02, 2013 02:13 PM            

Sabian :PHASE 21 (ARIES 21°): A PUGILIST ENTERS THE RING.

KEYNOTE: The release and glorification of social aggressiveness.

Here we find potency glorified as muscular strength and will-to-power. Because it is potency operating at a harshly competitive level, it can and often does imply the possibility of defeat or disfiguration. In one sense the symbol translates into social terms the primordial struggle for survival of the fittest, adding to it an eagerness for social fame and social power (i.e. money). In another sense, the ring with two fighters in it can be referred to the Tai Chi symbol and the interplay between Yang and Yin. Each of the two types of energy wins in turn. Victory is always temporary in a dualistic world.

This is the first stage of the fifth five-fold sequence of cyclic phases. Potency and the two-fold possibilities inherent in any release of power are seen operating at the socio-cultural and emotional level. The symbol reveals man's deeply rooted feeling of admiration and envy for whoever can generate OVERWHELMING POWER.

Seriously this is a shocking personal revelation for me. It is so horribly predictable.

Also: with my dad I have
His sun conjunct my moon (exact)
His moon inconjunct my moon
His moon sextile my sun
His sun inconjunct my sun

With my husband
His sun quintile my moon
His moon inconjunct my moon
His moon sextile my sun
His sun square my sun.

posted May 02, 2013 02:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Taineberry:
As I grew up I developed strong negative feelings towards my dad, although my mother hero-worshipped him. With my husband, at first I idolised him, but as time goes on I feel hard pressed to cope with his emotional nature. Both men are very emotionally reactive... Husbands moon at 20Aries11; fathers at 20Aries29

Sabian :PHASE 21 (ARIES 21°): A PUGILIST ENTERS THE RING.

KEYNOTE: The release and glorification of social aggressiveness.

Here we find potency glorified as muscular strength and will-to-power. Because it is potency operating at a harshly competitive level, it can and often does imply the possibility of defeat or disfiguration. In one sense the symbol translates into social terms the primordial struggle for survival of the fittest, adding to it an eagerness for social fame and social power (i.e. money). In another sense, the ring with two fighters in it can be referred to the Tai Chi symbol and the interplay between Yang and Yin. Each of the two types of energy wins in turn. Victory is always temporary in a dualistic world.

This is the first stage of the fifth five-fold sequence of cyclic phases. Potency and the two-fold possibilities inherent in any release of power are seen operating at the socio-cultural and emotional level. The symbol reveals man's deeply rooted feeling of admiration and envy for whoever can generate OVERWHELMING POWER.

Seriously this is a shocking personal revelation for me. It is so horribly predictable.

Also: with my dad I have
His sun conjunct my moon (exact)
His moon inconjunct my moon
His moon sextile my sun
His sun inconjunct my sun

With my husband
His sun quintile my moon
His moon inconjunct my moon
His moon sextile my sun
His sun square my sun.

A bit too close for comfort, wouldn't you say?

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posted May 02, 2013 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Taineberry:
It..is...very...difficult!

I can't believe I did this to myself.

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did you ever made peace with your dad, or did those negative feelings lingered
up to the time you met your husband?

posted May 02, 2013 02:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Taineberry:
No, through most of my married life I could hardly bear to be in the same room as my father. I was respectful to him always, but inside I was screaming. It is only in the last few years when he has become chronically sick that I have found it in my heart to forgive him and treat him with compassion.

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posted May 02, 2013 03:13 PM            

Another thing - all 3 of us... Dad, husband and me share the same sun/moon aspect in our individual charts... Sun Inconjunct Moon.

posted May 02, 2013 03:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Taineberry:
No, my brother seems to have escaped the pattern, mercifully.

Another thing - all 3 of us... Dad, husband and me share the same sun/moon aspect in our individual charts... Sun Inconjunct Moon.

Thanks for the hugs; I'm feeling a bit shattered.

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posted May 02, 2013 04:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Taineberry:
I just noticed something really strange. My father's moon is conjunct my husband's moon. Orb 0.18 (VERY close conjunction). Did I marry my daddy? Eeek. I find this quite creepy.

Has anyone else noticed a moon conjunction in their father's and husband's charts?

BTW, by husband and father never got on well, which is odd ... considering that their emotional responses are identical.

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My Dad
Sun Aqu
Mercury Aqua
Venus Pis

MY husband
Sun Pisces
Mercury Aqua
Venus Aqua

MY MIL
Sag Moon
Venus Aries

Me
Aries Rising
Sag moon

posted May 03, 2013 05:04 AM            

My partner -
Gem moon
Gem mercury
Taurus sun
Taurus jupiter
Cancer venus
Capricorn saturn
Scorpio pluto
Pluto in the 7th
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Aquarius mars

My partner should've been born to my dad, in my place They're so much like each other. Even things that he says reminds me of my dad.

I think this is common. The sun and mars in a woman's chart show the kind of partner she attracts and is attracted to. Houses and planetary aspects add a second and a third layer and make the attraction theory a bit complicated. But the base still remains. And in astrology, the sun and mars also represent the father.

posted May 03, 2013 06:21 AM            

I guess it helps if you and dad had a great relationship to start with. It seems really important for all dad's with daughters to bear in mind that their legacy might repeat on their daughter in their choice of marriage partners.

posted May 04, 2013 02:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Taineberry:
I just noticed something really strange. My father's moon is conjunct my husband's moon. Orb 0.18 (VERY close conjunction). Did I marry my daddy? Eeek. I find this quite creepy.

Has anyone else noticed a moon conjunction in their father's and husband's charts?

BTW, by husband and father never got on well, which is odd ... considering that their emotional responses are identical.

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Holy Potato!! Same for me! They both have Taurus Moons... What??! I have never realised that until i read this thread.