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andstuff
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posted May 05, 2013 02:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, horror story first. I used to have a female friend in my teens, a very calm girl she was too. Anyway, at some point idiotic things started happening. She would watch me at gigs instead of watching the gigs, develop a liking to things I liked etc. at some point I found her journal and (withhold your opinions please) it was all about me. What I said, how moved she was by my reaction to what music etc. also resentment re: why I was closer to others, she seemed to compete with everyone to be the closest to me, to understand me best... And she had had other female friends before with whom it invariably ended in a scandal/ ugly falling out. So it did with me when I refused to spend time with her. Or rather I wanted to meet at 5pm and she threw a hysterical fit over wanting to meet at 11am. Being an empath of sorts I couldn't help feeling she wanted a merging of souls and I am a believer that this could take place with lovers, not female friends

Ok, her aspects are coming, but purely speculatively, what could be causing such behavior? Both in natal and in synastry?

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Doux Rêve
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posted May 05, 2013 06:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon/Venus hard aspects
Moon/Pluto or Venus/Pluto
Maybe some Saturn thrown in
and Cancer (okay this one is so stereotypical but seriously).

Both in natal and in synastry.

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sharpei
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posted May 06, 2013 06:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sharpei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
no idea- its quite sweet though of her really!

ive never had a girl be like that with me but i have had girls have a love hate relationship with me where i know they kind of idolise and adore me but resent and am jealous of me.

my main focus of life will be men though- i need the yin/yang and to feel completed - i like men who are very different to me and feel foreign like im being taken over by something completely different to myself and losing myself in something OTHER or invaded in some way hahaha- i dont think you can get that with another woman

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Belage
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posted May 06, 2013 11:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The way you describe her that doesn't sound like dependency, more like obsession.

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Lioness
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posted May 07, 2013 12:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Belage:
The way you describe her that doesn't sound like dependency, more like obsession.

I was thinking that also.. Sounds like Pluto... Also with the control, trying to make you meet at her time..

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Chirp
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posted May 07, 2013 03:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chirp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She probably just latched on to you so tight because you were the only one around - you said she had a high turnover rate with friends, so...

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