posted May 08, 2013 01:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Chirp:
(looks at you like you just wet-farted)

...Don't be stuck on stupid.

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I can out-Pollyanna, Pollyanna. At the same time though I'm not so far gone that I'm totally divorced from reality. Some people don't listen to anything anyone tells them and chooses to keep screwing up or doing stupid stuff, and yeah, until they realize for themselves that it might be time to change and listen to someone else, they actually are a lost cause.

So no after the first one thousand times I'm not going to keep wasting my breath, killing myself to try and make them understand something they aren't ready to hear yet.

Now you can call that thinking I'm the almighty all you want. Or not...I don't care, because I'm going to be totally honest here...I don't really care that much, what you think.

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Am going to tell you this.If you can't be nice, don't talk.If you can't be respectful,don't talk. If you can't be polite,don't talk.

No matter how right you think you are or how genuine you think you are,how much good ideas/thoughts/advice you think you have to give to others,generally normal folks don't like to interact with people who don't KNOW HOW to express themselves in a proper manner so that people are actually open to listening to what you have to say.

posted May 08, 2013 01:47 AM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
so then would venus in virgo like when people noticed the fact that they don't have lint on them?

you'd think i'd understand venus in virgo being a virgo moon and and pisces venus but it's just too opposite for me.

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posted May 08, 2013 01:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Am going to tell you this.If you can't be nice, don't talk.If you can't be respectful,don't talk. If you can't be polite,don't talk.

No matter how right you think you are or how genuine you think you are,how much good ideas/thoughts/advice you think you have to give to others,generally normal folks don't like to interact with people who don't KNOW HOW to express themselves in a proper manner so that people are actually open to listening to what you have to say.

If you can't interact civilly,kindly refrain from posting in my thread. Many thanks.

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I'm not gonna sit here and argue with you because you're on your period and feel fat and want to take it out on somebody. You aren't a mod, and as long as I abide by the rules of conduct I have every right to post in any thread I damned well please.

I don't know if you have some kinda shadow-Leo-narcissism issue going on but frankly this isn't your kingdom and I don't have to do a damned thing you say. If you don't like it, that's too bad. I also don't have to agree with you, and if my disagreeing bruises your ego that's something you need to work on and probably the last place you should be, is an online forum, if you can't handle people disagreeing with you. Period.

posted May 08, 2013 01:54 AM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
so then would venus in virgo like when people noticed the fact that they don't have lint on them?

you'd think i'd understand venus in virgo being a virgo moon and and pisces venus but it's just too opposite for me.

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posted May 08, 2013 02:10 AM            

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Originally posted by meissieri:
Mars in Virgo here (don't know anyone with said moon sign). The bigger knocks usually don't get me down, but they do build up and it's often something small, the infamous Virgo nitpicking, that sets me off. Which can make it look like I had a meltdown over forgetting to take my keys with me.

I put up with a lot. All of it being tiny stuff that I overlook for people I care about, deciding it's not that important as long as they're happy. But again, it all builds up inside of me.

With my Libra Rising, I'd never say something negative about someone's looks if I know they love it or are very insecure about it. Wouldn't want to ruin their good mood or rub something in even more. Maybe if they asked me for their opinion, but even then I'd do my best to be positive and helpful. The only thing I say immediately is something that can get awkward, such as someone's shoe laces being loose or a big stain on their shirt. Usually when we're alone too, to make sure it's not too embarrassing for them. It's up to them what they do with it, though.

I'm often one of the first who gets affected by a lot of negativity, but also likely the last to walk away because I want to work things out.

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I relate to what you said,and I also like the way you said it,very typical to my Virgoan Mars I believe

posted May 08, 2013 02:15 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Jessica2407:
[b] Yeah she is.

Gosh,sometimes it feels like a bucket full of ice cubes on my face! Yeah, being a Leo is basically fun.I'm very extroverted even if I don't appear to be ( I guess it's because of my Cappy ASC) but I don't care much about what other people is thinking of me if am laughing too loud or if I want to take hundred silly pictures of myself in public. I don't care as long as I'm having fun..but..not...for my sis..she is....well I don't know..difficult to understand at times...I give much more importance to people I love/like, people who are very close to me.I can do lots of things FOR them simply because they are important to me. whereas my sister she is all the opposite.She is so critical of people around her but softer towards people who are practically strangers to her.TBH I don't get this.

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posted May 08, 2013 02:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Gosh! It's true for my sister too!!! She gets cozy with sales rep,with random people on the road. I wouldn't say that she is contemptuous,you know. I have quite a temper too I'll get super mad and not talk to her for days,she'll finally come around though,trying to do things for me instead of apologising A very cappy way to tell me she was wrong.

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You're sister is a sun Capricorn, too? Maybe it's a Capricorn trait since the tenth house rules that sort of thing, getting out and talking to "the public" or people who aren't from your family. It's plausible and maybe this is why Capricorns feel most comfortable out in the world getting to know strangers. My Capricorn Aunt's favorite people to befriend were sellers of antiques, especially glassware, at flea markets.

posted May 08, 2013 02:38 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
You're sister is a sun Capricorn, too? Maybe it's a Capricorn trait since the tenth house rules that sort of thing, getting out and talking to "the public" or people who aren't from your family. It's plausible and maybe this is why Capricorns feel most comfortable out in the world getting to know strangers. My Capricorn Aunt's favorite people to befriend were sellers of antiques, especially glassware, at flea markets.

I can put this trait into context from a Capricorn perspective. I hadn't made the connection until just now.

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posted May 08, 2013 02:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I believe you have a point there. Her Virgo moon is in H10. Yes she is a cappy sun,mercury,mars. How do you think a Sag venus plays out for her? Cause at times I feel she is at cross with what she likes and with how she goes about getting what she likes. You get my meaning? I kinda think it's because of her saggie venus..

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I have a Virgo sun and a Sagittarius Mars and when I go on trips I do worry about stuff like flat tires and car trouble. This is my number one fear. It's sun in Virgo showing itself. I want to enjoy a nice trip camping in the mountains without worrying about anything but there's always that nagging concern on the way there and way back, "what is the plan for a flat?" Kinda takes away from it a little bit. Fortunately, so far, no flats though.

posted May 08, 2013 03:13 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Jessica2407:
[b] I believe you have a point there. Her Virgo moon is in H10. Yes she is a cappy sun,mercury,mars. How do you think a Sag venus plays out for her? Cause at times I feel she is at cross with what she likes and with how she goes about getting what she likes. You get my meaning? I kinda think it's because of her saggie venus..

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I have a Virgo sun and a Sagittarius Mars and when I go on trips I do worry about stuff like flat tires and car trouble. This is my number one fear. It's sun in Virgo showing itself. I want to enjoy a nice trip camping in the mountains without worrying about anything but there's always that nagging concern on the way there and way back, "what is the plan for a flat?" Kinda takes away from it a little bit. Fortunately, so far, no flats though.

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Exactly! I feel she doesn't understand what she really wants emotionally.But she is not as adept with words as I am,so she feels stuck.I believe that's why she becomes over critical at times, I don't know...Although she is nice to people she doesn't get the same response as I get from people when I talk to them.I think that's because of her Cappy sun?

If I was you, I would have had a foolproof plan to tackle a flat tire if am going away camping

posted May 08, 2013 03:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Exactly! I feel she doesn't understand what she really wants emotionally.But she is not as adept with words as I am,so she feels stuck.I believe that's why she becomes over critical at times, I don't know...Although she is nice to people she doesn't get the same response as I get from people when I talk to them.I think that's because of her Cappy sun?

If I was you, I would have had a foolproof plan to tackle a flat tire if am going away camping

Oh if only you knew all about my foolproof plans that are in place to tackle all kind of emergencies!! Once we went exploring the south part of the island,we had a car engine failure in the middle of the night.Everyone was panicking,thank god we (my sister and I) had a plan for that kind of emergency.
That's WHY I love my Virgo Mars and that's WHEN I love my sister's Virgo Moon!! We are unbeatable as a team, we know exactly what we have to do,it's like we are clued into each other's minds and we get things DONE!

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With sun in Capricorn, there could be more introspection when dealing with people, or awkwardness/seriousness, perhaps? My Leo neighbor/sister-like friend is really good at talking with people, much better than I. Leos are outgoing and extroverted, generally. They like to dominate socially, sometimes, and are skilled at figuring out how while earth signs like Virgo or Capricorn sit there wondering what to do next Leo and other socially adept signs will pounce on that moment to take over the conversation and social situation. It's just natural for a Leo sun. They are only fulfilling their destinies, so I don't get too aggravated. I usually just let them do all the talking, because then I don't have to. I can get really lazy about it, too, dependent on the more dynamic personality.

Maybe your sister does the same thing? Does she ever sort of use you as a social buffer? I find myself doing that with people I know, especially sun Leos because they love to be in the middle of things, but I have 12th house planets and they can be easily out shown by others.

I do have a plan for flats, call Triple A. What worries me is my pathetic spare and getting somwehere to get the flat tire replaced or repaired. I worry about how far I will be driving on that spare before I can find a place and how much will it cost, especially engine trouble. I can only go so far so fast on this spare, it's not a normal tire. A normal, heavier tire worsens mileage. Soooo, the plan is there, just implementing the fine details rattles me some since to the west of me is pretty much uninhabited land with very little going on (I have to drive through this to get to the good stuff - the canyons and mountains because I love to go hiking) so, I could be driving hours on the spare. But anyway...I shouldn't concern myself with it since whatever will be will be regardless of how much I worry.

posted May 08, 2013 03:58 AM            

Yes, I'm the only one in my family with Leo planets. My father is a cappy moon,mercury,and mars, my sis is cappy sun,mercury and mars, am cappy ASC. My mother is Cancer moon,Cancer ASC so her DSC is Cap.Gosh yeah, quite a capricorn influence..

However, I remember when we were small, my sister would get more attention that I did. I was the more reserved,taciturn one,with almost no friends while she was the popular one in her school.I was the nerdy one. NOW, when we are both adults,it's the opposite! I'm the more outgoing,extroverted one,that will laugh without being conscious of the sound of the laughter echoing in the silence of a room full of people while she will be more uptight at expression. Did I mention she is a Sag ASC? Do you think it was her ASC that was more dominant when she was small?Because I feel the capricorn influence ( Cappy ASC) less than when I was smaller,although it's still there in me but less as an inhibiting effect more like keeping in check my leo stellium.I feel the seriousness of saturn, the responsible,patient, and all the attributes of Saturn as much as I feel my leo planets.

''Maybe your sister does the same thing? Does she ever sort of use you as a social buffer? I find myself doing that with people I know, especially sun Leos because they love to be in the middle of things, but I have 12th house planets and they can be easily out shown by others. ''

Oh yes! LOL

When she goes out ''having fun'' she'll at some point feel inadequate,I'll get the drift and pick up when she suddenly (and for some obscure reason)finds herself out of her depth.Happens to her all the time.

posted May 08, 2013 04:31 AM            

The more positive plane of Virgo placements creates people who are some of the most helpful, efficient, productive, reasonably organized people around. With Mars in Virgo, the personal drive is expressed toward these things. I have a desire to be helpful and industrious and have all of my stuff together (without being OCD about it). A Moon in Virgo person, however, has a NEED for these things. They need organization and productivity to feel emotionally at ease and comfortable (Moon), while I do these things to feel strong, driven, and energized (Mars).

My best friend has his Moon in Virgo and you'd think we might clash because of it but we get along incredibly well (but our entire synastry chart is highly positive, as well). I think we get each other in a way that few people can.

posted May 08, 2013 10:27 AM            

In my pChart I have Sun (a few degrees left), Venus, Mercury, Mars, Juno conj Asc in Virgo and a Taurus Moon in 8H.

posted May 08, 2013 05:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I relate to what you said,and I also like the way you said it,very typical to my Virgoan Mars I believe

Yeah,true negativity does affect me when it comes from people I care OR when the negativity has a certain impact in my overall happiness,though like you said,I'll probably work out a plan to reduce the negativity as best as I can,IF I really care,otherwise it won't bother me much in the first place.

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Haha, the way I said it? I guess another Virgo Mars would understand

Yeah, there it is, the nitpicking is only because you care. Which is why I hate the "no-one cares!" reply to one of my many little remarks. Oh, the negativity from people close is the worst, especially when you're doing your best to make the most out of a bad situation. It's like... I get that it sucks, I think so too, but I do want to do more than just vent (which can feel good). If I join in, I'm going to get too down on myself. Bad for the productivity.

posted May 08, 2013 09:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
''I notice a Capricorn influence in your family, and Leo, maybe, or are you the only one with Leo planets? You also have Virgo in common with at least one family member. I have Virgo and Leo in common with my mother and Sagittarius with my father.''

Yes, I'm the only one in my family with Leo planets. My father is a cappy moon,mercury,and mars, my sis is cappy sun,mercury and mars, am cappy ASC. My mother is Cancer moon,Cancer ASC so her DSC is Cap.Gosh yeah, quite a capricorn influence..

However, I remember when we were small, my sister would get more attention that I did. I was the more reserved,taciturn one,with almost no friends while she was the popular one in her school.I was the nerdy one. NOW, when we are both adults,it's the opposite! I'm the more outgoing,extroverted one,that will laugh without being conscious of the sound of the laughter echoing in the silence of a room full of people while she will be more uptight at expression. Did I mention she is a Sag ASC? Do you think it was her ASC that was more dominant when she was small?Because I feel the capricorn influence ( Cappy ASC) less than when I was smaller,although it's still there in me but less as an inhibiting effect more like keeping in check my leo stellium.I feel the seriousness of saturn, the responsible,patient, and all the attributes of Saturn as much as I feel my leo planets.

''Maybe your sister does the same thing? Does she ever sort of use you as a social buffer? I find myself doing that with people I know, especially sun Leos because they love to be in the middle of things, but I have 12th house planets and they can be easily out shown by others. ''

Oh yes! LOL

When she goes out ''having fun'' she'll at some point feel inadequate,I'll get the drift and pick up when she suddenly (and for some obscure reason)finds herself out of her depth.Happens to her all the time.

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posted May 08, 2013 09:59 PM            

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MOON IN VIRGO, only criticize because I can see imperfections.

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