posted May 08, 2013 06:23 PM            

My answers

1) I clean
2) I worry
3) I hide
4) I run
ha ha ! Bit generic but I am sure there are better answers.

posted May 09, 2013 01:52 AM            

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Originally posted by 4lifephrases:
How do you deal with
1) new changes
2) keep yourself motivated day to day
3) when you are in charge
4) when there are conflicts

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1) new changes

New changes at work? or new job? Moving to a new house? what do you mean by new changes?

2) keep yourself motivated day to day

My paycheck is a good motivation

3) when you are in charge

Am at my bestest when I'm in charge.That is the biggest motivation for me.

4) when there are conflicts

Conflicts on a personal level bring me down,like really down.It's hard for me to deal with them emotionally, but I would deal with them. Conflicts at work are challenges that push me to be better at what I do.

posted May 09, 2013 09:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
1) new changes

New changes at work? or new job? Moving to a new house? what do you mean by new changes?

2) keep yourself motivated day to day

My paycheck is a good motivation

3) when you are in charge

Am at my bestest when I'm in charge.That is the biggest motivation for me.

4) when there are conflicts

Conflicts on a personal level bring me down,like really down.It's hard for me to deal with them emotionally, but I would deal with them. Conflicts at work are challenges that push me to be better at what I do.

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posted May 09, 2013 09:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:

2) keep yourself motivated day to day

My paycheck is a good motivation

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I have really work my ass off for I don't know 3 years and I have to still see a dime.
I guess it is just a different route.

4) when there are conflicts

Conflicts on a personal level bring me down,like really down.It's hard for me to deal with them emotionally, but I would deal with them. Conflicts at work are challenges that push me to be better at what I do.

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I like what you say about Conflicts which are challenges that push me to be better at what I do. I love that attitude! I hope I can see the same.

posted May 09, 2013 09:56 AM            

I also have scorp sun,aries moon and virgo mars

posted May 09, 2013 10:53 AM            

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Originally posted by 4lifephrases:
New changes like being in an uncomfortable and uncertain situation.

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Uncomfortable situation

I would leave,or I would try to break free of what's causing me discomfort.

Uncertain situation

posted May 09, 2013 10:55 AM            

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Originally posted by 4lifephrases:
I like what you say about Conflicts which are challenges that push me to be better at what I do. I love that attitude! I hope I can see the same.

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posted May 09, 2013 03:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Taineberry:
Generally, I am like anyone else - I only like changes that work to my advantage, feel motivated when there is a task I enjoy doing, like being in charge of co-operative people and like to win my arguments without opposition. When these conditions are in place, unsurprisingly, I have no problem jumping in with enthusiasm in true virgo-mars style with an eye for detail and a yearning for perfection.

However, life is rarely without challenge and when that happens my style is more or less the same in all 4 areas you mentioned :
- keep quiet initially and have a good think.
-analyse whatever needs to be done with a fine tooth comb.
- work out a detailed plan of action, using logic to make it watertight, with a few surprise elements just in case. Worry that I have missed something and it is not perfect. Criticize myself and blame myself for being the author of my own misfortune regarding whatever problems I am facing. Beat myself up a bit. Get over it after I finally realize that all this procrastination is getting nowhere, finalize the plan even if it is not perfect ... and finally ...
- strike or take action in an understated way, making sure any possible opposition knows I have done my homework.
- if opposed, make veiled threats that tells the opposition to go to hell (usually) in such a way as they enjoy the ride.
- if they don't back off, I keep cool and act indifferent like I am inspecting an ant from a distance while they rant and rave. Then quietly carry out the veiled threat that I worked out in the planning stage.. and hope that it works.
- if it doesn't work, I withdraw to rethink. If it is not worth pursuing any more I simply drop the whole business and wipe it out my brain.If I realize I can't win the battle I really wanted to win, I will admit defeat, go and huddle somewhere while I lick my wounds and drown in self pity about how unfair life is. If it is worth pursuing, I concoct plan B and start all over again.

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HAHA!! *golf claps*

posted May 09, 2013 07:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Taineberry:
Generally, I am like anyone else - I only like changes that work to my advantage, feel motivated when there is a task I enjoy doing, like being in charge of co-operative people and like to win my arguments without opposition. When these conditions are in place, unsurprisingly, I have no problem jumping in with enthusiasm in true virgo-mars style with an eye for detail and a yearning for perfection.

However, life is rarely without challenge and when that happens my style is more or less the same in all 4 areas you mentioned :
- keep quiet initially and have a good think.
-analyse whatever needs to be done with a fine tooth comb.
- work out a detailed plan of action, using logic to make it watertight, with a few surprise elements just in case. Worry that I have missed something and it is not perfect. Criticize myself and blame myself for being the author of my own misfortune regarding whatever problems I am facing. Beat myself up a bit. Get over it after I finally realize that all this procrastination is getting nowhere, finalize the plan even if it is not perfect ... and finally ...
- strike or take action in an understated way, making sure any possible opposition knows I have done my homework.
- if opposed, make veiled threats that tells the opposition to go to hell (usually) in such a way as they enjoy the ride.
- if they don't back off, I keep cool and act indifferent like I am inspecting an ant from a distance while they rant and rave. Then quietly carry out the veiled threat that I worked out in the planning stage.. and hope that it works.
- if it doesn't work, I withdraw to rethink. If it is not worth pursuing any more I simply drop the whole business and wipe it out my brain.If I realize I can't win the battle I really wanted to win, I will admit defeat, go and huddle somewhere while I lick my wounds and drown in self pity about how unfair life is. If it is worth pursuing, I concoct plan B and start all over again.

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Wonderful answer. Thank you for helping me understand Mars in Virgo. Someone I care about but don't know well (yet) has this placement.

posted May 09, 2013 09:30 PM            

1) new changes - depends on what it is. If it's something that I chose to change, then I'm totally into it - like a new job, new house, etc. But, if it's change that wasn't my idea, like the ending of a relationship, death of a pet, friend moving away...I have a VERY hard time with that. I become so attached to things and people, that I don't like to be forced to let go.

2) keep yourself motivated day to day - depends on the motivation. If it's fitness, I do it because I love how it makes me feel, and I love the results. If it's work, I do it because I like to be good at what I do, and I need to be good to support myself.

3) when you are in charge - this is extremely natural for me. I am NOT a good follower at all, but I've been working on being better at that the older I get. I realize sometimes it's OK to not drive the truck and just be a passenger. But, most of the time, I prefer to call the shots. For myself, and yes, for other people (yikes). lol