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Topic: Older partners
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asclibrasagsun
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posted May 08, 2013 08:00 PM
  
I have realized that young men my age are never attracted to me...What is causing this??? IT IS WEIRD. I only get hit on by older men!
I know it must be a Saturn thing, I have North Node in Capricorn. Saturn is in my 4th house. Aquarius on the 5th house cusp, empty house. Aries on the 7th house cusp, empty house.
Moon square Mars, Virgo Moon, Mars is in Gemini
Mars in 8th house, Moon in 11th house...
Asc in Libra, Sag Sun  Please don't quote Anyone else have the same issue? What are your placements? IP: Logged |
Chirp
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posted May 08, 2013 08:15 PM
I have Mercury in the 7th conjunct my descendant so apparently I should like em young but most of the guys I've been really into were probably my father's age or slightly younger.
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Odette
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posted May 08, 2013 08:16 PM
They're all attracted but I usually have more in common with older men.
I have - Capricorn Moon/Mars and DC. I wasn't always like this. In my teens I was strongly adverse to dating anymore over 2 years older than me. It gave me the creeps.. Even when I was 18/19.
I never lied about my age to date older guys as I know some of my friends did. I was completely disinterested in anyone older. In my 20s - because I fell in love with a man who was much older - 19 years actually (although it never felt like it)... this altered my perspective completely.
Now I just think it's about personality rather than age.
I'm open to dating anyone younger or older... but I am generally more likely to end up with someone older (I think that's my Cappy placements). IP: Logged |
virgolotus
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posted May 08, 2013 08:20 PM
I like older guys... they're more experienced.The only thing you and I have in common is our Mars in Gemini 8th house. I have a Cap moon in the 3rd and Saturn in Aqua in the 3rd.
DSC ruler Venus in the 11th in Libra trine Saturn. That might be my cause.  IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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posted May 08, 2013 08:28 PM
I am in the same boat as you. If a guy born within the same year as I was becomes attracted to me, it doesn't last very long, and often I have had such guys pursue my friends instead.
I mostly get on with those within 3-8 years older, but I'm not complaining... I (sometimes) cannot stand guys under 24. Men who are old enough to be my dad don't flirt but are very pleasant towards me. No old perv experiences as of yet, lol.
I attribute this to Venus opp Saturn... I think. Saturn aspects my 7th house ruler. I can't think of any other aspect. I also am finding that older people in general are easier to understand, but it is more a generational thing probably...IP: Logged |
Chirp
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posted May 08, 2013 08:32 PM
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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
I am in the same boat as you. If a guy born within the same year as I was becomes attracted to me, it doesn't last very long, and often I have had such guys pursue my friends instead.
I mostly get on with those within 3-8 years older, but I'm not complaining... I (sometimes) cannot stand guys under 24. Men who are old enough to be my dad don't flirt but are very pleasant towards me. No old perv experiences as of yet, lol.
I attribute this to Venus opp Saturn... I think. Saturn aspects my 7th house ruler. I can't think of any other aspect. I also am finding that older people in general are easier to understand, but it is more a generational thing probably...
Get em older, they're more loving and less shallow and frankly by that point they're just so glad they can still get it up and that a young chick is interested in them, that they'll treat you wayyyyy better than a guy your age or younger.
Remember "Don't even mention, if he don't qualify for pension." IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 08, 2013 08:35 PM
I'm only interested in men 25 years older than me or more. But no more than 30 years older.IP: Logged |
Chirp
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posted May 08, 2013 08:44 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
I'm only interested in men 25 years older than me or more. But no more than 30 years older.
My true love is 23 years older than me! He probably qualifies for the discount at Old Country Buffet and I bet he has white and grey hairs around his nuts but I don't even care, I love him. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 08, 2013 09:18 PM
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Originally posted by Chirp:
My true love is 23 years older than me! He probably qualifies for the discount at Old Country Buffet and I bet he has white and grey hairs around his nuts but I don't even care, I love him.
Chirp, agreed with you completely. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted May 08, 2013 10:45 PM
Most of the ones in their 20s have a high sex drive so they seem *too* attracted if anything.
They seem attracted to everyone, left - right and centre.IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted May 08, 2013 10:46 PM
I'm not saying they're all like this... but sooooooo many of them are O_OIP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 09, 2013 12:02 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
I'm not saying they're all like this... but sooooooo many of them are O_O
The majority of them have a very "spread-out" energy meaning that they're ready to go after any lady at second's notice. They're not all like this, but I haven't met any that aren't like this! IP: Logged |
Debby4
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posted May 09, 2013 12:09 AM
It might be all that Saturn and Capricorn energy. -----------------------
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Kerosene
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posted May 09, 2013 12:31 AM
Hehe I LOVE older people so much. I definitely respect and I feel secure around them. I always see them as parental figures and I think they feel maternal/paternal towards me. Even people who are like 7 years older than me haha.
I think its because I have saturn on my MC/opp my IC
Not sexually attracted to them thou...Most of them time I've noticed romances with older people stems from saturn/cap energy effecting venus and 7th house/ruler. IP: Logged |
Chirp
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posted May 09, 2013 12:35 AM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
I have realized that young men my age are never attracted to me...What is causing this??? IT IS WEIRD. I only get hit on by older men!
Probably some kind of synastry issue with the outer planets. Guys my age or younger, very rarely show interest in me, in fact they usually act the exact opposite, like they all find me repulsive. It's different with older guys, and I think it's because my luminaries/inner planets/midpoints usually land on the older guy's Pluto. In particular, guys with Pluto in Virgo or Leo seem to go nuts, because my sun is in Leo, and my Venus, Vertex, and important planetary midpoints are in Virgo. Pluto in Scorp guys seem genuinely disgusted by me, and I pin that on my Uranus-Lilith conjunction in Scorpio. They just think I'm strange as all hell, in a bad (Lilith) way. As I said earlier though that usually works out because I'm typically more attracted to older men anyway, it's kind of a mutual fascination. Plus I think they're just in general, less cruel, they seem to have bigger hearts, plus they seem to have more manners and scruples...I think there's a marked difference between how men were raised back then as opposed to the younger generations, I think somewhere along the way, the ball was dropped on that one. Probably the youngest I'd go voluntarily, is mid-30s, unless I met some guy younger than that that just really caught me off guard and dazzled me somehow, but usually like I said, I find younger guys cruel, lacking in the character and manners that the older guys seem to have, and most younger men just seem...silly, to me. I should say here that I'm talking about the ones I've personally encountered; there may very well be some decent younger guys out there but I haven't really seen any. IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty
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posted May 09, 2013 03:14 AM
I have ....too.
Saturn conj. Ac and Sun , in 1st House
Saturn ruled my 5th. (Neptune ruled my 7th , in 3rd)My last long relationship were with the older , average 5-6years older than me. HTH IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted May 09, 2013 03:19 AM
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In fact they usually act the exact opposite
That's classic young/insecure behaviour though.. quote:
they all find me repulsive.
Immaturity:  IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 09, 2013 03:23 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
That's classic young/insecure behaviour when you're attracted to someone though...
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Odette
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posted May 09, 2013 03:26 AM
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it all depends
Well sexually - If we're talking heterosexual, healthy, teenager or 20-something male with average to high sex-drive.... and we are talking: Does he want to have sex? Then the answer to that is *yes* - with 99% of girls his age (unless they are incredibly - (like incredibly!!) - unattractive .... or.... ill). There are degrees of attraction of course.. like they might be more or less attracted to particular people, but they would still hit it with 99%, if given the opportunity (give or take a beer here and there!) Typically though, the guy who fits this profile would pursue romantically girls who are average looking.
If someone is particularly good looking he would be intimidated (because he is young & stupid.. as they say!) and act stand-offish. If he finds her particularly bad looking (which is unlikely, since their bar is not set very high for sex).. he would act in a way that is so evasive - that she would never even feel "hated". IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 09, 2013 04:09 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Well sexually - If we're talking heterosexual, healthy, teenager or 20-something male with average to high sex-drive.... and we are talking: Does he want to have sex?Then the answer to that is *yes* - with 99% of girls his age (unless they are incredibly - (like incredibly!!) - unattractive .... or.... ill). There are degrees of attraction of course.. like they might be more or less attracted to particular people, but they would still hit it with 99%, if given the opportunity (give or take a beer here and there!) Typically though, the guy who fits this profile would pursue romantically girls who are average looking.
If someone is particularly good looking he would be intimidated (because he is young & stupid.. as they say!) and act stand-offish. If he finds her particularly bad looking (which is unlikely, since their bar is not set very high for sex).. he would act in a way that is so evasive - that she would never even feel "hated".
sorry but how does this discussion tie in with the older men genre? who cares about young guys? we are not here to discuss them... IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 09, 2013 04:10 AM
Odette, were you quoting Chirp? Sorry I'm confused.
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joyrjw
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posted May 09, 2013 05:16 AM
I have a Saturn / Venus aspect and sun/Saturn aspect (wide angle for sun/saturn) and Venus Cap.
I always have attracted men much older than me(though the last 2 years I've been attracting men 10 years or less than me a lot (???)). I married a man who's 9 years older but he looks and acts MY age,mostly. IP: Logged |
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