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Topic: I am curious....how life changing is it to give birth to a child??
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charlie
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From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 08, 2013 09:57 PM
  
This question is directed more towards the ones that felt they were "stuck" in a rut at the time but all is welcome to reply of course!  Becoming pregnant is the ONLY thing that has eluded me since I had a miscarriage at age 16. Might this be due to my Cap Moon in 5th?? Maybe I'll be blessed in a few years or so....bloody Saturn... IP: Logged |
florence
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posted May 09, 2013 08:37 AM
it's like moving to another country and it can be as happily transforming or as difficult as circumstances around that. sometimes long for the old country but the old country is never the same, the things you longed for like a social life or a bit of free time ever a bit de-saturated. eta i don't know if is saturn but am sure will be worth the wait if it is. i know some people trying who had to listen to lots of tapes to mentally visualise having a baby (and paid a lot for that too) and it worked so maybe it's to do with that too
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Ami Anne
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posted May 09, 2013 12:37 PM
It really changes your level of selfishness. We are all selfish, as humans, but when you have a child your perspective enlarges to include others in a way that it had not previously, in my experience.------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted May 09, 2013 12:38 PM
I wish for you to find your dreams, Charlie and I am sorry you have gone through this  ------------------
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Maelstrom
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From: Rule Britannia
Registered: Oct 2012
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posted May 09, 2013 01:04 PM
Charlie, I once heard it said that having a child is like taking your heart out of your body, giving it legs and watching it run free. That's the best analogy I've heard, the love you feel for your child is so overwhelming that you become almost vulnerable.IP: Logged |
hikoro
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posted May 09, 2013 01:11 PM
ive no idea...and, i dont know if i ever will.
but, just wanted say sorry that you went through a miscarriage...
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mirage29
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From: us
Registered: May 2012
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posted May 09, 2013 08:15 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
It really changes your level of selfishness. We are all selfish, as humans, but when you have a child your perspective enlarges to include others in a way that it had not previously, in my experience.
Well said, Ami Anne! Charlie! I didn't realize that you're female. Wow!! Having your mother recently tell you she loves you?... That means even MORE to me now... With 'Mother's Day' on Sunday, and this eclipse today tonight (Thurs) adding extra tugs on the feelings of needing to "Let go" of things, I can understand your feelings about Children-- having and losing one, having been one and being one inwardly, being someone's child (your mom's) and feeling like she didn't recognize you... until just a few days ago!! I don't know if you felt like a disappointment to your mom for teen-pregnancy?.... Wow, as I said. Today, your wounds could be felt very deeply,... I'm so sorry. And I'm GLAD for that incredible feeling of "breakthrough" you had with your own mother the other day! The dynamics of eclipses are amazing.... I'm so glad you're thinking 'forward' with your life, too!-- if that's what you sorta imply with the topic of this thread... 'how life changing is it to give birth to a child??' For me, it was the most INCREDIBLE dream come true to hold my own child! Gave birth twice. I LOVED my daughters so deeply... They were, as Maelstrom so aptly put it, 'your heart with legs'... and a Smile! My daughters were a wonder to me... truly, so marvelous that they chose to come into this world, threaded through my own womb. Even when people adopt into their life, the 'miracle' of children is mystical and mystery. We look into their faces and see the past and future at the same time.... I had miscarried between my two girls' births. The midwife suspected when I felt 'better' from morning sickness way too soon. She suspected the fetus had stopped growing near end of 1st trimester. If a woman is going to miscarry it happens about that time... a couple weeks into 4th month I miscarried. Almost 'lost' the second child... I bled until 5 months, but she came 'early' ... Was DUE-- "MAY 10TH" -- but born end of April.... my little CEO-Taurus, cappy-moon was 'determined' and just couldn't wait to be born. The first child came ON her due date, but she did it breech!... She "mooned the world" with her buttox before she finally made her way out. ... my little Aries, with her sensitive last degrees Pisces Moon. They both had same 3rd deconate Aries-Rising! First lights of the day... A couple of feisty go-getters. No whimps here...  I had wished they'd be more 'cuddly' but they chose to be born with independent ARIES-flavorings! My little genius world-changers... One poet-dreamer, and the other out to conquer the world. I've been estranged by my children for maybe 16 years now... I miss them terribly, and respect the plans their Souls made for this lifetime. Yes, they both changed AND fulfilled my Destiny... I was, and still am, their 'mother'.... in this life. Tonight, in about 20 minutes from now, is the [-] SOLAR Eclipse in Taurus... in my 5th House---- The House of Creativity... My Children. It is an eclipse designed by the love in this universe to help us grow... to "Let Go".... I work tonight, on letting go of mourning the loss of my children... Heaven Bless their sojourns, May they be well and be prospering... in body, mind, soul, and spirit. (music) If I could (CelineDion) [4:51] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UOcpMWIvYbk (music) Sure On This Shining Night (SamuelBarber) [2:29] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAXf3gNArP8
http://allpoetry.com/poem/8559535-Sure_On_This_Shining_Night-by-James_Agee IP: Logged |
its_aqua
Knowflake Posts: 336
From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 10, 2013 05:42 AM
quote:
Originally posted by charlie:
This question is directed more towards the ones that felt they were "stuck" in a rut at the time but all is welcome to reply of course! Becoming pregnant is the ONLY thing that has eluded me since I had a miscarriage at age 16. Might this be due to my Cap Moon in 5th?? Maybe I'll be blessed in a few years or so....bloody Saturn...
I'm sure you'll have a baby sometime
My mother is a Cappy and she had me when she was 36, so maybe you get to have a child when you are older.  I have heard that you cant really describe what having a child feels like, unless you experience it yourself. They say that it feels like your life begins to have meaning that very moment when you give birth to your child. Hopefully we will experience it
I guess it's just that you have to think of someone else before you think of yourself. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 517
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 10, 2013 08:02 AM
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Originally posted by mirage29:
Well said, Ami Anne!Charlie! I didn't realize that you're female. Wow!! Having your mother recently tell you she loves you?... That means even MORE to me now... With 'Mother's Day' on Sunday, and this eclipse today tonight (Thurs) adding extra tugs on the feelings of needing to "Let go" of things, I can understand your feelings about Children-- having and losing one, having been one and being one inwardly, being someone's child (your mom's) and feeling like she didn't recognize you... until just a few days ago!! I don't know if you felt like a disappointment to your mom for teen-pregnancy?.... Wow, as I said. Today, your wounds could be felt very deeply,... I'm so sorry. And I'm GLAD for that incredible feeling of "breakthrough" you had with your own mother the other day! The dynamics of eclipses are amazing.... I'm so glad you're thinking 'forward' with your life, too!-- if that's what you sorta imply with the topic of this thread... 'how life changing is it to give birth to a child??' For me, it was the most INCREDIBLE dream come true to hold my own child! Gave birth twice. I LOVED my daughters so deeply... They were, as Maelstrom so aptly put it, 'your heart with legs'... and a Smile! My daughters were a wonder to me... truly, so marvelous that they chose to come into this world, threaded through my own womb. Even when people adopt into their life, the 'miracle' of children is mystical and mystery. We look into their faces and see the past and future at the same time.... I had miscarried between my two girls' births. The midwife suspected when I felt 'better' from morning sickness way too soon. She suspected the fetus had stopped growing near end of 1st trimester. If a woman is going to miscarry it happens about that time... a couple weeks into 4th month I miscarried. Almost 'lost' the second child... I bled until 5 months, but she came 'early' ... Was DUE-- "MAY 10TH" -- but born end of April.... my little CEO-Taurus, cappy-moon was 'determined' and just couldn't wait to be born. The first child came ON her due date, but she did it breech!... She "mooned the world" with her buttox before she finally made her way out. ... my little Aries, with her sensitive last degrees Pisces Moon. They both had same 3rd deconate Aries-Rising! First lights of the day... A couple of feisty go-getters. No whimps here... I had wished they'd be more 'cuddly' but they chose to be born with independent ARIES-flavorings! My little genius world-changers... One poet-dreamer, and the other out to conquer the world. I've been estranged by my children for maybe 16 years now... I miss them terribly, and respect the plans their Souls made for this lifetime. Yes, they both changed AND fulfilled my Destiny... I was, and still am, their 'mother'.... in this life. Tonight, in about 20 minutes from now, is the Lunar Eclipse in Taurus... in my 5th House---- The House of Creativity... My Children. It is an eclipse designed by the love in this universe to help us grow... to "Let Go".... I work tonight, on letting go of mourning the loss of my children... Heaven Bless their sojourns, May they be well and be prospering... in body, mind, soul, and spirit. (music) If I could (CelineDion) [4:51] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UOcpMWIvYbk (music) Sure On This Shining Night (SamuelBarber) [2:29] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAXf3gNArP8
http://allpoetry.com/poem/8559535-Sure_On_This_Shining_Night-by-James_Agee
Thank you! I read your response yesterday but couldn't and still can't, find the proper words so I'll leave it at that.
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mirage29
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: us
Registered: May 2012
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posted May 12, 2013 07:35 PM
awww Charlie.... you just said it all!BTW--- Eclipse edit 5/12: correction, it was SOLAR ECLIPSE in TAURUS 19.31', not lunar Love to you! IP: Logged | |
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