posted May 10, 2013 03:31 AM
The 7th house is the “area” of relationships and the planets therein describe the nature of those relationships.So, for instance, if have your Moon in the 7th house, you probably have to deal with a lot of emotional drama in your relationships: It's either you are drawn to people who respond emotionally (Moon in Cancer/Mars in Cancer/Moon in 1st types) or illicit these responses in others.
Mars/Uranus transiting this house usually escalates such occurrences. Suddenly, people want to let you know how they feel and want to express their emotions to you (either positive or negative). There is a definite feeling that people around you are not indifferent to you.
But this is not to say that you loathe such drama because some dramas (especially within closer, more intimate relationships) assure you that the reason that these people react so strongly, is because they care. And this is affirming to you.
If you have Mercury and Pluto in the 7th house, you probably have to deal with “detective types” in your relationships; they always want detailed explanations and you feel like you are always being interrogated.
What you say is dissected and analyzed for its alternative meaning and sometimes words you say can be cutting (or the words you say to them can make them feel “ruffled”).
Mars/Uranus transits probably complicates things and the bases of every disagreement in the relationship is brought on by what you said (or didn’t say).
You may need to heed your words as they are likely to have a destructive effect (even if that was not intended) and know that words can also heal much tension in your relationships.
I have Venus and Uranus in my 7th house and my relationships are agreeable and rarely have any drama (ever).But they are also erratic and prone to suddenly change(either one friend disappears or I make another friend quickly)
I deal a lot with the “maverick” types; concerned with humanity, the world and “out of the box” ideas.
Many have philosophies that tend to go against society or intellectual conformance (group think) and are indifferent to mainstream opinion.
But they are not just “airy fairy” idealists, but have refined and convincing opinions. They are able to express themselves eloquently (though being stifled when expressing affections).
Jupiter tansits to Venus revolutionizes things in my relationships and results in even bigger concepts being mulled over.
Mars transits to Venus tend to bring out arguments and quarrels with regards to philosophical incompatibility.