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Topic: Synastry Aspects That Point To A LTR But No Marriage
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Ann7
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From: united states
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 15, 2013 09:06 PM
  
I'm curious if there are certain synastry aspects that point to a relationship being long term but never resulting in marriage.
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Aquacheeka
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 16, 2013 09:33 AM
I personally think Pluto with no Saturn. It creates obsession that can keep it going for quite awhile but with no glue it will eventually fall apart.IP: Logged |
Ann7
Knowflake Posts: 223
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posted May 16, 2013 09:39 AM
Thanks for the feedback! That's interesting - My guys Pluto is Quincunx my Saturn @ 1.94, would that have something to do with it?IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 16, 2013 09:54 AM
I would look for sextile aspects....sextiles like to keep the status quo. Saturn aspects are longevity but look to aspects to the 1st and 7th house ruler to see the willingness to form a relationship. I would think that aspects to jupiter (it rules legal matters) and then planets in the third quadrant (7,8,9,10)would make marriage necessary. IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted May 16, 2013 09:54 AM
My thought would also be saturn. For instance say you have have a ton of saturn aspects in synastry, but maybe only about 5 or so saturn aspects in the composite...couldn't that be a factor? You could also check the marriage asteroids and see where they fall in the synastry: Briede, Groom, Boda....maybe Union.IP: Logged |
Ann7
Knowflake Posts: 223
From: united states
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 16, 2013 10:14 AM
Okay, I hope this works... I've studied a lot of astrology but I am clueless when it comes to the astroids and I'm not sure what I'm looking at here  IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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From: philadelphia,pa
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posted May 16, 2013 10:25 AM
the jupiter opposite saturn show a cultural, ethnic or lifestyle differences. with your ascendants conjunct, you all are highly compatible. Oppositions are separative aspects meaning that you all come together to be apart somehow. I could see you wanting to make it "official" with your jupiter conjunct his midheaven. IP: Logged |
page one
Knowflake Posts: 48
From: USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 16, 2013 10:27 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Ann7:
I'm curious if there are certain synastry aspects that point to a relationship being long term but never resulting in marriage.
I don't really think you can tell. How could you? The dynamics of an LTR and a marriage would be very similar, and so would the aspects that indicate this type of relationship. Perhaps a strong Uranus, but even that's no fool-proof marker, because some marriages have a strong Uranus. IP: Logged |
Ann7
Knowflake Posts: 223
From: united states
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 16, 2013 10:33 AM
As you can see, we are not spring chickens, also I'm pretty sure that my chart shows an aversion to marriage. I can honestly say that in all my years he is the first man I've ever truly wanted to marry... Not for the dress, not for the big fancy wedding but just so that I can share his name. Somehow it makes it complete. And, I refuse to pressure him... I keep hoping it will happen in time but - it's been FOREVER, lol. Anyhow, thank you for the input it's appreciated! IP: Logged |
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