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Topic: Is this Aries' reaction?
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hannaramaa
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posted May 16, 2013 12:49 PM
  
Do you feel uncomfortable (like in your gut) when you realize someone likes you? I immediately want to distance myself from the person and forget they even exist. Especially if it feels like they are emoting something different than I'm used to. Basically...do men's emotions make you uncomfortable, or no?IP: Logged |
4lifephrases
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posted May 16, 2013 12:51 PM
This is what I have hear from other Aries friend and she told me she would get bored at times with relationship. Are you disappointed that chase is over since you are an Aries? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 16, 2013 01:24 PM
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Originally posted by 4lifephrases:
This is what I have hear from other Aries friend and she told me she would get bored at times with relationship. Are you disappointed that chase is over since you are an Aries?
I'm bored now that the chase is over, but I wouldn't say disappointed. There wasn't really a "chase" but I liked flirting in a friendly way, now I feel like I can't because he's getting attached or like making a friendship out of it vs. something light and casual. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted May 16, 2013 01:35 PM
I can relate but I have no Aries placements.But you may be onto something.. I have SN sitting on my ASC which is a bit like having an Aries SN. I know it often makes people quite commtiment-phobic (which I am). I wonder how many people react that way - is it just a fear of closeness/intimacy or is it natural and everyone feels that way? I can't tell if it's "normal" or not 
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hannaramaa
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posted May 16, 2013 01:44 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I can relate but I have no Aries placements.But you may be onto something.. I have SN sitting on my ASC which is a bit like having an Aries SN. I know it often makes people quite commtiment-phobic (which I am). I wonder how many people react that way - is it just a fear of closeness/intimacy or is it natural and everyone feels that way? I can't tell if it's "normal" or not
And it's nothing they even say about feelings directly. I think a guy could tell me he likes me, or like me, etc. and I would be fine as long as I didn't feel his nurturing side come out too soon. I know that's awful of me not to appreciate that because it's what a lot of girls want, deserve (whatever you want to fill in) but I have a knee jerk reaction to jump back at that point. I don't mind guys having big hearts, at all, but I like to see it more in general rather than towards ME. You know? Unless it moves slow, I think if I got comfortable with them as a friend first (and not just a co-worker I joke around with or someone I occasionally see) I wouldn't have that same response. IP: Logged |
soulstress
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posted May 16, 2013 01:48 PM
Hmm..I think so..
As for me, I get uncomfortable when a guy I DON'T LIKE makes a move on me or tries to pursue me. Especially if the guy is my friend, I always wish he won't confess or things will get really awkward between us. Sometimes I intentionally do things to "friend-zoned" him and hopefully by that he'll get the message.I won't go as far as forgetting he doesn't exist; that would be harsh. I guess I'd only do that if he dares to push himself on me. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 16, 2013 01:53 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Do you feel uncomfortable (like in your gut) when you realize someone likes you? I immediately want to distance myself from the person and forget they even exist. Especially if it feels like they are emoting something different than I'm used to. Basically...do men's emotions make you uncomfortable, or no?
Depends. If I'm not into him,I'll avoid him.If my heart beats are louder than my voice when I talk to him then I'll be over the moon just knowing that he likes me  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted May 16, 2013 01:59 PM
When someone starts acting romantic or tells me their feelings out of the blue, I literally freak out and just want to run away, but only if I like them back, that's the weird thing! Otherwise I'm pretty cool about it.
Maybe I just need a lot of time to feel safe and comfortable with that kind of thing.IP: Logged |
yaygirlthecat
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posted May 16, 2013 02:41 PM
I knew someone with a ton of Aries and he would shamelessly chase girls and profess his feelings. I would think an Aries would like the attention but maybe they like to be the one doing the chasing. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted May 16, 2013 02:44 PM
We share Nodal signs, 12th house planets and moon sign, Hanna, and I am the first to admit I am incredibly shy around people I really like or who I know like me, to the point they get the impression I don't like them, though, I try to overcome it and be somewhat social with them just to hide the fact I am having an emotional reaction. Not sure if it's an Aries thing though this sign is one of the major ones in my chart because it's one the cusp of house 7. Maybe it is the Aries descendant, or it has a hand in this shyness? It is like being shy, I guess. *shrugs* Probably more fear of the unknown which might have something to do with 12? IP: Logged |
CatMote
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From: New Britain, CT, United States
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posted May 16, 2013 06:29 PM
haha, i agree with you hannaramaa. it happens to me! i actually lose out on a lot of opportunities because of it. not sure what it is though. i think it might be the thrill of the hunt. i love love love to chase my women.
but because of all my pisces placements i want to be close and attached, sometimes its a battle going on in between myself what to do, and by the time the battle is over i lose the girl!  ------------------
Sun Aries Moon Pisces
Mars Pisces Venus Pisces
Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo
Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio
Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn
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Lazyscarecrow
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posted May 16, 2013 08:10 PM
I don't think this is unique to Arians because I have observed that Sagittarius people, both men and women, do the exact. same. thing.If you open up to them or come on too strong, or even hint at some kind of emotional based fondness, they will fly away at last minute's notice and no matter how much you try to press them for an answer, you will be met with less than a voice mail. I wish I could say that this is a fire sign trait of loving the chase but Leos do not do this at all. If anything, we might be surprised that someone might like us or be forward, but we don't suddenly get turned off. We are either indifferent or the opposite, interested. Then again fixed energy is magnetic. This sounds like a Saturn/Uranus mixed with Venus thing. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 16, 2013 08:33 PM
I do have Venus square Saturn, but actually more and more I have been feeling VERY Sagittarian, and it's my DSC! I know transit Jupiter is about to hit my n.Jupiter in the 12th. Could this be why (I feel Saggy)?IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted May 16, 2013 10:11 PM
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do men's emotions make you uncomfortable, or no?
I like being liked. It could be partially cultural. I'm eastern/central EU, and we're pretty romantic, as they say  I don't like men who are overly detached. I'm often not that into guys from an Eng speaking background for that reason - but it really depends on the person. My initial gut reaction when someone likes me - is happiness.. my next reaction if I think I might like them back is to get to know them.
Aries usually like new things - so they get excited about it.
If things turn sour - I'm out the door very fast, which is also Aries-like.
What is Capricorn-ish about me though - is that I am pretty skeptical and mentally assess a lot about the person. I don't instantly believe the things they say. They'd have to *show* me they like me for me to really believe it. quote:
I would be fine as long as I didn't feel his nurturing side come out too soon.
Ok.. I see what you mean.
I don't like nurturing either.
That's a Cancerian kind of love.
Aries-love is more exciting and upbeat and sexual.
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Aries Eagle
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Registered: Jan 2013
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posted May 16, 2013 11:55 PM
nobut if someone like me materialistically even the slightest feel i will slam the door on their face by the aries way it means the bad aggressive way, this crap don't go with my dominant fire and water placements, i'm starting to hate to be rich inside a poor society in the middle east. this driving me nuts ------------------
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Odette
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posted May 17, 2013 01:20 AM
Actually I don't like that either ^Taurus Moon men are always after money from me. It really sh*ts me. Like make your own money dude! IP: Logged |
nove731
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From: Washington, DC
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 18, 2013 08:32 AM
I will concur with the others on this.When someone comes on too strong, I run the other way. My Sag moon probably doesn't help this either, haha...I really just prefer that things happen slowly and naturally. Even if it seems sort of silly because each of us knows what we want. It just gives it a better vibe for me. When someone comes on too strong, I feel rushed. Which is a big turn off. As I type this, I'm actually feeling my Mercury popping out (Mercury is my chart ruler...in Taurus/8th House). It's funny, though, because I always attributed this to my Moon square Venus. I wouldn't generally consider having an Aries Sun as explaining the reason I act this way, but maybe the whole "fun of the chase" thing is a part of this, too. ------------------
Sun -> Aries
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