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Topic: Mars in Gemini during intimacy
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virgolotus
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posted May 16, 2013 01:36 PM
  
Do your minds wander off and start thinking about other things or people while being 'intimate'?lolol IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 16, 2013 01:46 PM
My friend has Mercury and Venus in Gemini and yes she thinks of a million things during sex. Focusing on the sex makes her feel awkward, so she asks questions and talks throughout the whole thing LOL!IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted May 16, 2013 02:07 PM
Great question Ems. You ask the best questions  ------------------
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GemNymph
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posted May 16, 2013 03:08 PM
I have Sun, Merc and Venus in Gem.  From my experience, those with Mars in Gem have issues with intimacy quite similar to mine. We get bored easily. We can also be overstimulated easily. We also are very sensitive to lovers who "cramp" our Gem style one way or the other. In any of these cases, our mind will likely wander. I personally like to talk and laugh a lot in intimacy. My brain is going 150% and I need an outlet for all that mental energy. I need spontaneity too becuase I never know how my Gem energy will want to sparkle. Things that feel too "scripted" are deadly. It's only when I don't feel free to be my totally gemmy self that my brain needs to go off and play by itself. 
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virgolotus
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posted May 17, 2013 12:17 PM
Lol! Thanks for the input guys.My Mars in Gemini is in the 8th so I would think it would make me more passionate and focused. I am... when I'm doing the work but when I'm not I just stare at the ceiling and start thinking about my day and look around the room while my partner tries to get me feeling all good.
Does this happen to you Gemini people too? It happens especially with people that don't matter... which is pretty much everyone I've been with so far. Maybe they just suck so I get bored lol.
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freebrainstorms
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posted May 17, 2013 03:20 PM
ha! sagittarius mars here and i totally hear ya and agree with that, i need to be involved otherwise i mentally drift off hahahasounds like gemini and (sag mars) both need to be involved mentally and physically in sex at all times. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 17, 2013 03:52 PM
Idk this mars in gemini was really into it and kissing passionately, I couldn't even breath..
We did have venus conjunct mars synastry.
Mars person is always aggressive and passionate.Thou we both had our venus/mars placements in the hyades star cluster. Mars Hyades
“Abrupt, brave, aggressive, courageous, lacks self control.” [2] You can see the impatient, physical, aggressive and sexual energy Mars whipping up the stormy Hyades here. Venus Hyades: Many accomplishments, artistic, ability to write or paint, sensual, strong passions. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted May 17, 2013 04:25 PM
I have to work hard to stay focused...then i start to think i need to pay more attention to the other person and not just focus on my enjoyment, then i feel guilty, then i start thinking about the guilt and try to stop it because its making it hard to focus...then i realize ive lost all my excitement and i need to get refocus on the feeling good, then i realize i need to pay attention to my partner to not just me and start to feel guilty again....it goes on like that...then its over and i realize somehow i missed the whole thing....Darn it, LOL Retrograde Gemini mars in 9th IP: Logged |
themischievousone
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posted May 17, 2013 04:51 PM
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Originally posted by virgolotus:
Lol! Thanks for the input guys.My Mars in Gemini is in the 8th so I would think it would make me more passionate and focused. I am... when I'm doing the work but when I'm not I just stare at the ceiling and start thinking about my day and look around the room while my partner tries to get me feeling all good.
Does this happen to you Gemini people too? It happens especially with people that don't matter... which is pretty much everyone I've been with so far. Maybe they just suck so I get bored lol.
Don't judge me
HAHAHA! "but when I'm not I just stare at the ceiling and start thinking about my day and look around the room while my partner tries to get me feeling all good. Does this happen to you Gemini people too? " ^^This is me. But my mars is in cap. I have a gemini moon tho xD Interesting... IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted May 18, 2013 12:51 PM
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Originally posted by virgolotus:
Lol! Thanks for the input guys.My Mars in Gemini is in the 8th so I would think it would make me more passionate and focused. I am... when I'm doing the work but when I'm not I just stare at the ceiling and start thinking about my day and look around the room while my partner tries to get me feeling all good.
Does this happen to you Gemini people too? It happens especially with people that don't matter... which is pretty much everyone I've been with so far. Maybe they just suck so I get bored lol.
Don't judge me
Are we givers then? Because i need to be th one doing the work or i get bored to...i dont know what to do if im not the one whos working?
I can't even get a massage...i just sit there thinking about all the things i need to be doing....but i love to give massages...it turns me to do things for others and it keeps my mind focused! IP: Logged |
virgolotus
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posted May 20, 2013 04:27 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Are we givers then? Because i need to be th one doing the work or i get bored to...i dont know what to do if im not the one whos working?
I can't even get a massage...i just sit there thinking about all the things i need to be doing....but i love to give massages...it turns me to do things for others and it keeps my mind focused!
YESSS I'm the same way! But I think it's because of my Virgo Sun wanting to serve others. Do you have any Virgo? Maybe it's the Virgo/Gemini-Mercurial influence. IP: Logged |
7thGuardian
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From: Transylvania
Registered: May 2012
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posted May 20, 2013 05:41 PM
When he/she said "work it" - I don't think he/she meant it in a practical way.  Gosh, you Virgos turn even intimate moments in to work... You should learn to chill - ffs (literately)! ^^IP: Logged |
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