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Topic: Pisces and Love
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StelliumH6
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posted May 17, 2013 05:33 PM
  
Hi. Would a Pisces male tend to marry a woman he did Not truly, madly, deeply love? Being in Love to them is a magical, ethereal feeling that I do not think they really know. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 17, 2013 08:51 PM
Yes, if its the right thing to do,
Like maybe an unexpected pregnancy..
Scenarios like that.IP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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posted May 17, 2013 09:22 PM
He can't tell me he loves me, but tells me he would ask me to marry him! Your advice?IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 17, 2013 09:37 PM
My advice?Honestly if your with him, and he shows you he loves you, and treats you with respect and dignity.
Then give him that extra space and the time he needs to say it on his own.. No pressure.. Just be with him, and be happy.
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anonymidarkness
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posted May 17, 2013 10:32 PM
Pisces can easily fall in love with love rather than the person.IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted May 17, 2013 10:33 PM
Pisces can easily fall in love with love rather than the person.IP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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posted May 17, 2013 10:34 PM
Lioness! I needed to hear that! It has been 4 1/2 years and I do this to myself every few months. He even said, "Why are you doing this to yourself?" When you have something this great you do not want it to go away.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 17, 2013 10:54 PM
I will share a true story with, it's a little different, but I'm sure you will understand the concept..My uncle was with this gf for about 15 yrs, they lived together and for the most part were happy..
She had a very deep desire and need to get married, he was completely against marriage.. This "marriage battle stood between them" One day she said, marry me, or I'm leaving..
He loved her dearly and didn't want to be with out her..
So he married her.. I'm not sure what happen, maybe resentment..
But after only 1 week of marriage, he was consumed with it... It bothered him so much that he went against his will, that after a week of marriage, he walked out on her and left her forever...
He was "missing" for years..
He owould only call his mom, once a year to say he's ok.. Then hang up.. I'm not totally sure what happen, but he became a drunk, and homeless.
His life went down hill... One day, my grand ma got the call that a John Doe body was identified as my uncle, and someone needs to claim the body...
Now he had a very strange death..
He drowned in a cementary.
No that's not a typo.. He was homeless and sleeping in a cementary close to a pond, and either rolled into the pond while he was asleep, or fell in and was to drunk to pull himself out.
The pound was about knee high.
His blood alcohol level was through the roof.
It's unknown how long his body was in the pond..
He was found, when the cementary drained the pond for cleaning, due to the smell..
I'm sure even though its a cementary it shocked the people that drained it... I always thought why didn't they compromise and have the ceremony, but not have it legal.. Maybe you can find a middle ground, but pressure will cause resentment..
If you have a good thing, what more do you really need?
Are your needs being meet? Are you happy?
If theses answers are yes..
Then just have patience, some people need a lot longer than others.
Maybe he can't say it, but in my opinion feeling it and showing is more important. But of course, you have to figure out if works for you.. Best wishes IP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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posted May 17, 2013 10:59 PM
Dear Lioness,
Thank you from the bottom of my heart!!! IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 17, 2013 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by StelliumH6:
Dear Lioness,
Thank you from the bottom of my heart!!!
Your welcome hon...
Just make sure u don't have/ get any resentment.. True acceptance.. IP: Logged |
Little Doe
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posted May 18, 2013 05:02 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Your welcome hon...
Just make sure u don't have/ get any resentment.. True acceptance..
Thank you so much for sharing that story Lioness. To me it seems like your uncle gave 15 years of his life to a woman he loved, and finally he realised that it wasnīt enough, she would leave him if he didnīt do more. Thatīs why he felt so sad. He realised that her love was not unconditional. Maybe it was, but she did the mistake of not realising it while they were together. True love, unconditional love. Thatīs the only way to go. Thanks again. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted May 18, 2013 06:46 PM
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Originally posted by StelliumH6:
He can't tell me he loves me, but tells me he would ask me to marry him! Your advice?
depends how long it's been imo. actions are fine, but they are a form of denial for both people ... emotional denial. you cannot love someone if you cannot express it with words too. you want kids raised by someone who cannot say i love you? if he cannot tell you then it's doubtful he'd tell his kids, so think forward w/this guy. my pisces is the same way ... he's absorbed by emotions yet cannot get his own out, and he also talks about marriage and kids with me, but those, i believe are dreams and fanasties he has... not reality... they dream a lot. i just nod and say nothing because i know it's not going to really happen. it's like lioness said - they might marry in the case of a 'mistake' but i think they'd want to be madly in love, or least madly in love by their definition IP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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posted May 19, 2013 12:46 PM
Hi starmoon. My Pisces is also absorbed by everybody else's emotions; however, has a difficult time getting his own intimate, deep feelings out.I have read older Posts on LL about Pisces and have learned after my own 4 years that I will not push and pressure him. It is *my issue with the actions rathers than the words. I tell with words, he tells through his behaviors. IP: Logged |
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