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Topic: Looking at your 3rd House, how would describe your relationship with your siblings ?
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SilverFeather
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From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted May 18, 2013 06:41 PM
  
I will start first.
I have a major tight Stellium in 3rd house with Sun,Venus,Mercury,Pluto and North Node all placed there in Sagittarius.
The ruler of my 3rd house is in its natural house, the 3rd.
I've always had this unbreakable and strong bond with both of my sisters.
They are not just my sisters but also my best friends. I never hide anything from them.They always see right through me and sometimes I feel that they know me even better than I know myself. They have such a great confidence in me and my abilities, they stood by me when I decided to peruse my dream and they've always been there for me during hard times.I feel blessed to have such supportive siblings. I know some people out there are not as fortunate when it comes to familial relations.
I know of siblings who are cold and unfeeling toward one another, the greatest example of all is the relationship between my father and his brothers. If you ever see the way they interact with each other, you will think them strangers more than anything else and I am just putting it nicely.
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PixieJane
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From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 18, 2013 06:50 PM
I have 3H Libra Sun, Mercury, Venus, Saturn, Pluto, some on the Scorpio cusp. I don't have any sibs, but when I lived with Granny (first 4 years, several months 13-14, and many summers, plus when I visited as an adult) I mixed with an older cousin who in some ways was like a best friend and big brother (we both lived with Granny for awhile, too, so we did live under the same roof at times), though we have a lot of differences. There's a bond I don't think anyone could break, even if we do get a little mean to each other at times (sometimes just for the laughs, curse his Aries sense of humor and the powerful Sag energy in my chart that inspires my own pranks & teasing with my Libra saying he started it so I'm just balancing the scales). We're just so relaxed together and loving to each other, and I neither of us would hesitate to give the other a kidney if it ever came to that.IP: Logged |
charlie
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From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 18, 2013 07:10 PM
My mom gave her son (my brother) away to her abusive ex husband before I was born so I have never met him nor his two children which, I guess, makes me an aunt....Thanks Mom :-/ My mom doesn't want me to find him because quote: "why? he doesn't know you exist anyway..". 3H Scorpio conj NN, Uranus, IC IP: Logged |
Jkitty
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted May 18, 2013 07:16 PM
God is watching us,
God is watching us,
God is watching us . . . from a distance!Sagitarrius on the 3rd house cusp, no planets residing, but you can definately feel the Jupiter influence of Saggy. We all reside in different states (New York, Florida, Texas and California), so we have to TRAVEL to see each other. Generally, we keep in touch by phone. I feel VERY fortunate in my relationship with my sisters. The way we've come together to face the crises of first our mom's then our dad's illnesses and deaths elicited favorable comments from many health care, hospice and mortuary workers and the way we handled the distribution of our parents' financial heritage impressed others. I think that was when the four of us first realized just how lucky we are! Before that we never really though about it. Perhaps that's because the four of us are VERY different individuals, with a 16-1/2 year age spread, belief systems, life situations, etc. But none of that seems to interfere. Yep, I definately feel blessed! I'd like to do a group composite on the four of us but you need accurate birthtimes for that and only the youngest and I have those. Don't have times on anyone else in my family thanks to war and it's aftermath. Has anyone tried to do a multi-person composite on their family? How did that work for you? IP: Logged |
magicspells
Knowflake Posts: 127
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 18, 2013 08:51 PM
Neptune conjunct uranus in Capricorn in the third houseI talk to my sister sometimes, my brother never so non existent relationship I guess IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 18, 2013 09:06 PM
I have Saturn in gem in h3, but also conjunct my IC.I'm an only child, no siblings, not even step siblings. So in my case Saturn has denied siblings IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 2452
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 18, 2013 09:09 PM
Same as Lioness only I have Sagittarius Mars in 3rd and no conjunction of IC. No siblings or step, but I had one friend who was very sister-like, her mother said we were twins and she told people she thought of me as her sister.IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon
Knowflake Posts: 138
From: Atlanta. Georgia, United States
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted May 18, 2013 10:43 PM
My third house is Gemini, with my Venus in Gemini there. My Venus is unaspected. The ruler of my third house is Mercury; mercury is in Cancer opposite Saturn/Uranus/Neptune, trine Pluto, and ASC and conjunct sun in cancer.I would describe my relationship with my older brother as superficial and at times, a little dysfunctional. Basically my brother is really childish and entitled, so, we tend to butt heads a lot. For example, as children he would tease and bully me physically, emotionally and mentally, talk down to me, and so on. He's also very deceptive, yet, he shows he cares by doing me favors and coming to my aid when necessary without even thinking twice about it. He's a double Aqua w/ Scorpio ASC, Mercury in Pisces, Cap Venus, and Aqua Mars IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
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posted May 18, 2013 11:02 PM
I have Jupiter in my 3rd house. I have a great relationship with all of my siblings. I have 3 sisters, two are older then me and the other is my twin sister. I'm the connector amongst us, bridging the gap between differences. We all live all over the country from Boston to California. Thus we spend most of our time, emailing, messaging and calling one another. We go through periods where we are very close or not speaking at all. It happens. We are children of divorce so there was a great deal of instability in our household growing up. But we all are very supportive of one another. Nice topic  IP: Logged |
themischievousone
Knowflake Posts: 164
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 18, 2013 11:08 PM
I have the sun in 3H Virgo.
I have 2 younger siblings. I used to be really close to my sister but due to work, kids, etc. we really don't hang out as much where it used to be every weekend. We still try to vacation if time allows. We do talk a lot. I'm not as close to my brother, but we still get along fine. He hangs out every now and then if time allows as well. Overall, I would say I am closer with my siblings than most people are.
I also have 2 older half siblings (20+ years older than me). One has passed. Both of them would always try/tried to keep in some form of contact with me even tho we haven't been close or in the same state. IP: Logged |
unforgiven_soul
Knowflake Posts: 114
From: Greece
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 19, 2013 05:07 AM
My 3rd House cusp is in Taurus and it's totally empty. I have normal relations with my siblings, nothing weird going on in there.------------------
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Doux Rêve
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posted May 19, 2013 07:18 AM
I have an older sister - we don't speak that much but our relationship is quite "normal". I also have 3 half siblings, from my father's side, but they're really young and we don't keep in touch - it's like they don't even exist, to be honest.In my case, Mercury represents my sister better than my 3rd house. It's in my 6th house in Scorpio, conjuncting the Sun. My sister is a Scorpio and quite Mercurial, she's a proud woman (Sun) and our relationship is pretty good (my Mercury is well-aspected). It used to be more representative of my 3rd house when we lived together - my 3rd and 4th houses are ruled by the Moon - it's afflicted and we would argue and fight a lot. Not anymore, though!
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Originally posted by Jkitty:
Has anyone tried to do a multi-person composite on their family? How did that work for you?
Yes, I did a composite for me, my mother and my sister.
It was quite eye-opening and accurate.
The dynamics were very clear, it all made so much sense.
We have a Sun-Venus-Mercury stellium on the DSC, all trine a Moon/Chiron conjunction. So far it looks good, but then there is a nasty T-square with Moon, Mars and Neptune - we can be very aggressive with each other, despite our strong bond. Anyway, it works! Everyone should try it out and see for themselves.
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depth
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted May 19, 2013 07:41 AM
My 3h is in aries, empty and i dont have siblings. I was born after 10 years of marriage.My mars in sagittarius in the 11th.
There is this guy who my granny adopted and he doesn't know he's an orphan. My parents tell me to see him as an elder brother and my maternal family expects me to call him bro atleast, which i don't because he means nothing to me. 11h is adoption.
Mars is male.
Sagittarius is different country.
Our relationship is quite martian and coincidentally, he's a solar arian. We fight like cats and dogs (a literal fight). He's too conservative in my opinion( mars sextile saturn) and controlling. I dont do well with such types.
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Sarahwood
Knowflake Posts: 186
From: London, united kingdom
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 19, 2013 07:50 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I have Saturn in gem in h3, but also conjunct my IC.I'm an only child, no siblings, not even step siblings. So in my case Saturn has denied siblings
I have saturn - neptune - moon - uranus in 3 house conjucnting all in capricorn. My relationship with my sister is BAD! she doesnt liek spending time with me and she is very distance from me. With my neighboor who is my cousin we were close then came I time in our life we seperated .... What I had in my childhood is gone.. So now am 23 and I feel alone like an only child.
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nove731
Knowflake Posts: 137
From: Washington, DC
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 19, 2013 08:49 AM
My parents divorced very shortly after I was born, so I don't have any siblings (that I know of). I've never been in contact with my father, so who knows? I might have a few half-siblings I don't know about, hahah.I always wanted them growing up, though. Scorpio on the 3rd House Cusp
Pluto in Scorpio (2nd)
Moon in Sagittarius in the 3rd
Moon Square Venus in Pisces (6th)
Moon Inconjuct Jupiter in Cancer (10th) ------------------
Sun -> Aries
Moon -> Sagittarius
Ascendant ->Virgo IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 325
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted May 19, 2013 08:51 AM
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Originally posted by Sarahwood:
I have saturn - neptune - moon - uranus in 3 house conjucnting all in capricorn. My relationship with my sister is BAD! she doesnt liek spending time with me and she is very distance from me. With my neighboor who is my cousin we were close then came I time in our life we seperated .... What I had in my childhood is gone.. So now am 23 and I feel alone like an only child.
I'm sorry to hear that Sarah. I wish you better luck with friends and lovers.
Saturn and Uranus on the 3rd are no fun !
I have a Mars-Uranus-Neptune conjunction in my 4th House and I never get to understand or get on well with my father. Our relationship is what you want call love-hate one 24/7.
Maybe that's why I feel very close to my sisters and male cousins. In way, their affection is a compensation for my father's. IP: Logged |
Lunae
Knowflake Posts: 1195
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Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 19, 2013 10:50 AM
I have Jupiter in 3H Leo. My siblings and I get along pretty well. We generally have a good relationship although among my siblings, my youngest brother and I often are at each other's throats. I have 3 siblings, 2 younger sisters and and only brother. I am the eldest child.IP: Logged |
visions
Knowflake Posts: 86
From: france
Registered: Feb 2010
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posted May 19, 2013 12:05 PM
erratic > uranus in the 3rd houseIP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 1685
From: Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 19, 2013 12:30 PM
Pluto in Scorpio. We're like strangers even though we live in the same house.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 1540
From: PA, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 19, 2013 09:49 PM
Saturn in the 3rd in Pisces. Alone...alone.......alone.... echo-echo-echo LOL. I'm an only child. Saturn being here doesn't get any clearer than that, right?  I really, really envy you guys who have siblings which is why I wanted to post. I just wanted to say that, even if you think they can be annoying sometimes, etc. you're all really lucky. I would like having a sister. IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted May 21, 2013 04:41 AM
My 3rd house cusp is in Virgo. It's completely empty, but upon further inspection..Uranus is almost exactly sextile my 3H cusp. I have 1 sister and 2 brothers, I'm the eldest of 4. We all have different fathers, and all of us except my youngest brother grew up with another family member besides our biological mother. I went with our great aunt and uncle who couldn't have their own children when I was 14 months old. My sister and middle brother moved across the country (from arizona to new york) to live with another great aunt and uncle of ours when they were about 8 and 5, respectively. I've met all three of these siblings from my mother's side of my family. We keep in weird contact, no relationship is really there, we're more like aquaintances than anything. I also have half-siblings from my father's side that I have never met. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 3236
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 21, 2013 04:50 AM
Leo.
I love my sisters!
They're so cool and glamorous, I always looked up to them.
We always have so much fun together, our parents probably stress out everyday.
3rd house ruler conjuncts my moon/mercury/venus.I'm the youngest so they use to take me around with them like a puppy. I've always been around more mature kids and would would flirt with their attractive senior friends when I was in the 7th grade, oh god.. Good times.. IP: Logged |
its_aqua
Knowflake Posts: 501
From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 21, 2013 04:55 AM
I have Jupiter in Leo in the 3rd house,
unfortunately I don't have any siblings because my parents are divorced,
but I would kill to have siblings!
Especially youngsters 
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bonadea33
Knowflake Posts: 1100
From: between mountains
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted May 21, 2013 05:20 AM
Ruler of my 3rd house is Jupiter in my 1st house. In the 3rd house is South Node. I love my siblings, as long as I don't have to live with them. ------------------
To fall down is easy, but to stand up is difficult.
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bluegreyeyes
Knowflake Posts: 166
From: NC
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 29, 2013 02:11 PM
Moon in Gem in House 3. "Comfort and security is sought through a sibling or a relative, or they may have had to be 'mother' to others around them during the growing-up years. The actual mother may be related to more like an older sister than a parent." I believe that growing up with 3 older brothers and a very "macho" father shaped me into being very tomboy-ish when i was young and then ultra feminine-domestic as an adult. Also - growing up with a mother than drank, forced me to become a caretaker at an early age. As I mentioned in an earlier post, I have taken on the "matriarch" role in my family.
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