posted May 19, 2013 02:00 AM            

I have this aspect in my natal chart and I always find myself falling for men that live far away. For some crazy reason, long distance actually kind of appeals to me. Am I just a masochist? I've yet to actually be in a long distance relationship but am considering one now. Am I actually more suited to this kind of relationship than most?

posted May 19, 2013 06:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Oh yeah. Internet relationships too.

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posted May 19, 2013 08:18 AM            

But even then it is one possible expression or manifestation, but not the only one.
Sometimes it can manifest as having relationships with people very different from you. Different races. Different religions. different social circles or ages. Sometimes just very different in personality.

posted May 19, 2013 08:24 AM            

Am atm involved (getting in deeper) with someone from a different nationality,different background etc. A closer look of his chart,I noticed the same aspects, his DSC ruler and his venus in aspect with Uranus.

posted May 19, 2013 08:48 AM            

WEll, i know some peeps do not like Uranus. I love him! (in small portions at least).

Greatest times of my life are usually when Tr Uranus is in dynamic aspect to my natal Venus.
And when I first fell in lvoe or infatuation, really love at first sight or sound, magnetic, exciting, delicious, my Uranus was opposite his Venus, which was conjunct my 5th house cusp.
I like having my world turned on its head now and then.

posted May 19, 2013 11:27 AM            

Uranus and Neptune are in my 7th house. Uranus is semi-square my Venus conjunct Pluto in my 5th house.

posted May 19, 2013 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Semisquare is quite significant though.

However, one aspect between Venus and Uranus alone doesn`t make for a liking for ldr.

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Sun, venus, mars, mercury in same sign.
sun, ruler of 7th, in the 11h.
Mars, ruler of men in general, in 11h
Moon trine uranus
Venus semi-square uranus and trine desc.
Mars semi-sextile uranus
Juno square uranus
Neptune conjunct uranus
Aqua rising
Singleton saturn in aqua

posted May 19, 2013 02:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Twitterbird05:
Here's my Natal chart:
http://s1306.photobucket.com/user/twitterbird05/media/ScreenShot2013- 05-19at111939AM_zpse2da3866.png.html

Uranus and Neptune are in my 7th house. Uranus is semi-square my Venus conjunct Pluto in my 5th house.

I'm thinking that my 7th house Uranus could be a huge part of it.

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I see a conflict in your chart (nothing bad in conflicts per se, and actually I come across that often; on the one hand Uranus-patterns, and simultaneously Pluto or even Saturn).

The Uranus pattern predominantly is because of:
- URanus in 7th house of course

and this is interconnected (by semisquare) with
- Venus as ruler of 5th house in Scorpio conjunct Pluto exactly

and for the Saturn-pattern, we have a Sun-Saturn-conjunction on DESC.

Sometimes when there are seemingly contradicting patterns the individual "meets" one of those patterns through external influences.

With the Sun-Saturn on DESC, there is a need for very committed, stable, serious relationships.
With Pluto/Scorpio in relation to 5th house, love is needed to be intense, passionate and also very committed (Pluto/SCorpio/8th house is about principles, too).

But then there is also Uranus in 7th house - a need for a bit of freedom and independence in relationships. It doesn`t mean that you don`t want close relationships or intimacy, just that people need to stay indidividuals, even if in a relationship.
No losing oneself in a relationship.

However, with Pluto/Scorpio, there is also a need or instinctive draw to very intense, sometimes consuming relationships. A love that consumes you. (though of course Uranus sais: A love that consumes me? I don`t think so. Loving is fine, but I am staying myself, no consumption needed. No thank you.)

Actually a long distance relationship is ideal for solving that dilemma. You can have the merging, and intense attachment on an emotional level, but at the same time the geographical distance makes sure that you can still be yourself, do what you want WHEN you want to, do not have to make too many compromises in your daily life.

BTW it can also work in day-to-day relationships. My parents both have natally strong Uranus, Pluto and Saturn patterns as well.
My Dad is an Aquarius, my Mom a Scorpio, too.
They made it work superbly. They are as closely connected as I ever seen two people, but still maintain their own personality, which is quite different actually. But complementing.

Of course there is something different about them too. Not only do they have a son with the Down syndrome - my middle brother-, but they took my aunt in shortly after my birth and my aunt has been growing up with me in their household (she is only 8 years older than me).

posted May 19, 2013 02:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:

Actually a long distance relationship is ideal for solving that dilemma. You can have the merging, and intense attachment on an emotional level, but at the same time the geographical distance makes sure that you can still be yourself, do what you want WHEN you want to, do not have to make too many compromises in your daily life.

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