posted May 19, 2013 05:01 PM            

When showing interest:

.how do you let the woman you want know you like her?

.Do you like to chase or be chased?

.Do you investigate this woman before approaching> i.e. check her social media-ask friends about her, watch her intently

posted May 19, 2013 05:13 PM            

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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
When a Scorpio intents to flirt with you, you will understand it pretty good lol! Plus, they usually get turned on with light denials haha

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Hehe interesting. Doing research on a blog post. I am trying to get an astrology blog off the ground this month, and this topic will be my 1st post!

posted May 19, 2013 05:17 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
They don't.

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posted May 19, 2013 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Layla84:
Could you elaborate-doing research for my blog post-am jotting down notes. thanks

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posted May 19, 2013 05:26 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
They are usually quite "forward" with what they want and thus pursue it. I have found that there is not much "flirting/hinting" involved.

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posted May 19, 2013 05:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Layla84:
any idea how they approach and pursue their interest, in what way or form?

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posted May 19, 2013 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
There will be questions along the lines of "want to go out/have sex/date/have a drink/eat dinner" etc and if they really like you the deal is pretty much "sealed" from then on. At least in their heads...

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posted May 19, 2013 10:17 PM            

In short, following the typical advice I've seen in Cosmo for getting a guy to flirt with you doesn't seem likely to work on a Scorpio who hates those kind of shallow head games, and would probably only earn his disdain (though he might still use & lose you, just with a well hidden disdain, and may even do it just for revenge at the insult you tried something so "transparent" and petty on him rather than he wanted a quick lay).

So if you must catch his attention then my guess (with the general idea in mind, unable to catch the nuances of a specific individual) would be to be upfront, or at least suggest going somewhere together (but if an excuse is thrown in like "continue to work on this project after getting some carbs/good coffee" then make sure that's at least close enough to true and see it as creating an opportunity for him to make the next move, like asking to go somewhere more intimate after, rather than trying to reel him in yourself).

posted May 20, 2013 12:33 AM            

Think:

"Hello what's your name?"

"My name is, what do you do for a living or what brings you here, what do you like to do"

In about oh, 3 minutes, and they will give as scant information back as possible b/c they want to keep the interrogatio err..flirting about whomever they are interested in

posted May 20, 2013 01:09 AM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
I had a Scorpio guy approach me last night when I was out. He was pretty straightforward. He told me I was beautiful and noticed me all night. He let me look up his birth chart on his phone because mine was dead (hahaha) He bought drinks for my friend and I for the rest of the time we were there, stayed with me after his friends had left, walked us to our car, and texted me in the morning apologizing for drunk calling me last night when I was asleep. He told me a couple times he was happy he met me. He was/is sweet. He doesn't seem creepy or TOO forward. Like I'm enjoying not knowing when he's gona ask me to hang out again. But I know he will. He reminded me more of a Taurus with the classic gentleman stuff.

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Yep...:lol:

Sounds right.

posted May 20, 2013 04:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:

I'm a Saggie sun but all of the sensual placements are in Scorpio, so at least I smile while asking.

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posted May 20, 2013 08:44 AM            

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Originally posted by geea:
thats why i fear sag with scorpio placements, sneaky, tricky!

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Whatever do you mean?

Difference is, the gentlemen peachbeigeblue met told her straight away that she was pretty and noticed her all night etc

With the Saggie placement, we talk to EVERYONE, if Scorpio was meant to brood Saggie was meant to schmooze. We read and study so many different things chances are good we know enough to hold a conversation with nearly anyone.

posted May 20, 2013 08:58 AM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
I had a Scorpio guy approach me last night when I was out. He was pretty straightforward. He told me I was beautiful and noticed me all night. He let me look up his birth chart on his phone because mine was dead (hahaha) He bought drinks for my friend and I for the rest of the time we were there, stayed with me after his friends had left, walked us to our car, and texted me in the morning apologizing for drunk calling me last night when I was asleep. He told me a couple times he was happy he met me. He was/is sweet. He doesn't seem creepy or TOO forward. Like I'm enjoying not knowing when he's gona ask me to hang out again. But I know he will. He reminded me more of a Taurus with the classic gentleman stuff.

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Nice. Sounds just like a SCorpio :-)

after the full force forward, his next move would be to suddenly disappear and leave you hanging and questioning your own life existence. The infamous Scorpio game is on, then.

posted May 20, 2013 12:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Nice. Sounds just like a SCorpio :-)

after the full force forward, his next move would be to suddenly disappear and leave you hanging and questioning your own life existence. The infamous Scorpio game is on, then.

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Hahahaha, my thoughts exactly. Any suggestions for me? He's....so.....tall.

posted May 20, 2013 01:43 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Hahahaha, my thoughts exactly. Any suggestions for me? He's....so.....tall.

It's funny because I usually like to chase but for whatever reason, I feel like he should make the next move and I want him to (aka I care) I'm Leo/Taurus/Scorpio so usually I only like guys when I think it's my idea. The synastry is nice. I'm dying inside

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I don't know, sweetie. He may call you right after, but usually Scorpios operate like this - they come and chase full force, which means they really like you. They just can't contain themselves. Bursting with emotions and desire to posses you and claim you. They will say and do just the right things because they had you scanned with their penetrating mind from the beginning.
Once you are hooked and he's well aware of it, they vanish off the face of Earth. The victim is perplexed and doesn't know which way to go. The victim had tasted the goods and they want more of this elexir. The waiting game is excrusiating. The victim can't stand it any longer, not knowing why and where did the elxir provider disappear and they start beating themselves with a myriad of unanswered questions - "Why? Didn't he like me enough? has he found another one? Was he lying? What happened? Is he dead and that's why he hasn't called?( you start checking obituaries online with his name) Maybe he is confined in a hospital and can't call me? Maybe he is not into me, oh well. Heck, what a lier, he lied to me this whole time. He loves, he loves me not.,... Ahhhhh!"
The victim usually comes here on an astrology forum and asks the usual question - "My Scorpio disappeared, why?"

The thing is, The Scorpios had displayed too much of emotions in the beginning and they need to retreat to regain the control. They know very well that you are dying inside and this is how they take the control back - the moment they finally have mercy for you and call you, you are willing to do just about anyhting for them. Anything and Anywhere. And anytime. Game's over. He is in control.

posted May 20, 2013 04:25 PM            

But yeah, this guy called me the night I met him when I was asleep, texted me in the morning apologizing for calling in the middle of the night and then we were talking yesterday until I took a nap. I have read receipts on so you can see when I read something. I was falling asleep and read it and then didnt answer for a while. Then it was just kinda the end of the convo. I think I'm just gona be myself and text him joking around about something. We have some intense synastry so I want to lighten the mood.

posted May 20, 2013 05:22 PM            

.Scorpio's do you "research" your interest before asking out or approaching?

posted May 20, 2013 07:44 PM            

Pretty much, yes.

posted May 21, 2013 01:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
Whatever do you mean?

Difference is, the gentlemen peachbeigeblue met told her straight away that she was pretty and noticed her all night etc

With the Saggie placement, we talk to EVERYONE, if Scorpio was meant to brood Saggie was meant to schmooze. We read and study so many different things chances are good we know enough to hold a conversation with nearly anyone.

Which is quite fun, but it also sends mixed signals to the person we really are interested in.

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exactly. I personally know where i stand with a scorpio, more than with a mutable like sag.
I know two sag with scorpio placements, a guy and a girl. They seem so harmless, good with people, how you described it. But in their ”moments” they stings worse than a scorpio sign ouch!