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Topic: What is unresolved issues??
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Lioness
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posted May 19, 2013 11:20 PM
  
I was talking to fishy today, we are still discussing trying again, but it's only in discussion mode...
I asked why, why try, why do we keep doing this...
He said
We have unresolved business together!!!!!
(Like duh hello)
So it got me thinking, what exactly is unresolved issues.
What does that mean?
Also and more importantly, how can you resolve it?
What astrological aspects/planets show unresolved issues... I'm thinking maybe Saturn??? I'm also thinking if it is Saturn, maybe I can figure out what needs to be resolved, so maybeeeeee we can focus on that... It's just a thought..
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One thing that he told me long time ago, is he would never ever do the back and fourth thing with someone..
He said once its over, it's over and he walks away... Yet he is breaking several of his own personal rules for me..
Everything he told me, he would never do, he does for me..
I have been his exception to the rule...
I find that odd, because I know his personality, and he's very "rule" type of guy.. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted May 19, 2013 11:27 PM
Unresolved issues are things you need to work on that need to be fixed. So, it could mean the south node/north node in both your charts. Maybe they make aspects to each other, luminaries, planets, or sensitive parts of your charts.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 19, 2013 11:34 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Unresolved issues are things you need to work on that need to be fixed. So, it could mean the south node/north node in both your charts. Maybe they make aspects to each other, luminaries, planets, or sensitive parts of your charts.
Euhhh.. His NN/SN sq my Saturn and MC/IC Does that mean I'm stuck here?
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted May 19, 2013 11:35 PM
Ooooh so it's matter of a t square with Saturn and the nodes? That can be problematic. Any positive aspects?IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 19, 2013 11:45 PM
Yes
My Venus trine his sun
His moon conjunct my Neptune
Dw moon sextile plutoOr do u mean with Nn?
His nn conjunct my dsc/ but wide 5 orbs
( but so does his Saturn by 2 orbs)
My nn conjunct his Venus but even wider 9 orbs
(Prob too wide) His Jupiter is conjunct my sn but its out of sign Saturn sq Saturn 6 orbs IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 19, 2013 11:47 PM
How can I tell what unresolved issues we have?Maybe the houses of the nodes?
My nn in his h5
His nn in my h7 IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted May 19, 2013 11:51 PM
Do you not enjoy each other's company? No fun in the marriage? 5h is usually about having fun, romance, dating. H7 is the marriage house. So, maybe part of what is unresolved is needing to spend more quality time together? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 19, 2013 11:58 PM
Yes we enjoy each others company very much.. We have a great appreciation and respect between us..I'm just trying to understand everything going on..
I'm trying to figure out if I/ we should try again... It's my fear talking, I know but I'm trying to get through it. But it's causing me extreme caution, and I'm putting it off for now..
Plus there is something he wants me to do, but it just may not be possible for me. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted May 20, 2013 12:02 AM
What is it he wants? I am not trying to be nosey so if you don't want to say, that's alright. I just wonder if it's strange or just boring or what?IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 20, 2013 12:09 AM
I don't want to say publicly, it's nothing bad and we are both in agreement with it, it's just the "how" to accomplish this is the problem... I'm sorry I know that doesn't make much sense... I could say privately, just don't want it all out there publicly.
Cuz... Idk... It's just makes feel lousy. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted May 20, 2013 12:11 AM
Okay, I understand. Maybe it's the unresolved issue he is referring to? You shouldn't do anything you are uncomfortable doing.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 20, 2013 12:18 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Okay, I understand. Maybe it's the unresolved issue he is referring to? You shouldn't do anything you are uncomfortable doing.
Actually, I think you just nailed it... Wow how could I have not seen that. I think I know what he "really" wants now...
Your brilliant..
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted May 20, 2013 12:33 AM
Haha, well sometimes I do the same thing, Lioness, I can't see something that's obvious and others have to point it out and I am, like, wow I can't believe I didn't notice it! IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 20, 2013 12:42 AM
That's y I don't like Neptune aspects in synastry.Sometimes u just cant see, what's right in front of you.. Now I guess I have to figure out, if this is the only reason, he's coming back.. I'm kinda ****** off right now..
Oooo.. I'm so gonna throw him for a loop...
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Jessica2407
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From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 20, 2013 02:55 AM
I believe I need your help too starlight! I have a big unresolved issue myself that is getting more frustrating every day,am going in a loop trying to search for the real issue,and yes I think it might well be neptune that's acting up on me!IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted May 20, 2013 12:31 PM
What would the unresolved issue be, or has Neptune kept it unknown too?IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted May 21, 2013 04:54 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
What would the unresolved issue be, or has Neptune kept it unknown too?
Yea, I believe neptune is doing a good job at keeping it unknown. IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted May 21, 2013 06:29 AM
I think you should look at the major configurations (stelliums, oppositions, t-squares) in your individual charts, especially challening ones and see if they conjunct or aspect each other. (For ex someone´s Moon-Uranus opposition in fixed signs squares exactly my Venus-Saturn opposition in fixed signs, making it a fixed grand cross in our synastry. I think that is part of our attraction... we help each other to solve our natal issues).
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted May 21, 2013 09:52 PM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Yea, I believe neptune is doing a good job at keeping it unknown.
Good, because sometimes that's best  IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted May 22, 2013 05:14 AM
If you have Venus-Chiron in the mix with your Fish, you may want to try this:
http://www.mirrorspirits.com/your-true-love-can-see-you/ IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 22, 2013 05:10 PM
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Originally posted by jjj:
If you have Venus-Chiron in the mix with your Fish, you may want to try this:
http://www.mirrorspirits.com/your-true-love-can-see-you/
We do have venus/ Chiron but I'm not sure how that article relates to venus/ Chiron.
Is that the correct link?IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted May 22, 2013 06:30 PM
Reading your story I thought that you two might have it. I have Venus Chiron with someone who is a Pisces as well. Yes, the link is correct.
I found it very helpful... it s basically about how to activate the mutual healing and tame the ego Venus Chiron is all about.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 22, 2013 09:05 PM
Are you the Venus or Chiron person?IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted May 23, 2013 04:26 AM
Both. My Chiron conjuncts his Venus and my Venus squares his Chiron. We have a bunch of other Chiron aspects as well, also mutual Chiron conjunction to nodes. I think that Chiron is the one who is in bigger pain and Venus heals Chiron, depending on the aspect it can be more or less challenging.IP: Logged |
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