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Topic: No Moon contacts in synastry
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sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 1464 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 20, 2013 12:27 PM
How do you think this would affect the relationship? I'm certain it wouldn't be 'good'. It may not be horrible, but wouldn't the Moon person feel a little emotionally neglected at times?I have this with a friend. Her Moon touches my inner and outer luminaries but, my Moon does not make contact with a single planet of hers. It concerns me, making me wonder about how I really feel in our friendship... Any experiences with this are welcomed. I'm really curious about it. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 3207 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 20, 2013 12:36 PM
Hi SS, how have you been? I think you nailed it when you said "feel a little emotionally neglected at times". It doesn't have to be horrible, as you said, but still, the Moon person may feel like the other person can't quite "get" them on a basic level, like they can't touch them deeply or satisfy them emotionally. The other person may very well be very nurturing and caring, but the way they express these traits may not be effective on you. It can also mean that your friend may feel like she can't access your deeper emotions, that you're not opening up to her the way she opens up to you. If you guys have water house contacts, it may ease the situation, especially if some of her planets fall in your 4th.
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sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 1464 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 20, 2013 12:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Hi SS, how have you been? I think you nailed it when you said "feel a little emotionally neglected at times". It doesn't have to be horrible, as you said, but still, the Moon person may feel like the other person can't quite "get" them on a basic level, like they can't touch them deeply or satisfy them emotionally. The other person may very well be very nurturing and caring, but the way they express these traits may not be effective on you. It can also mean that your friend may feel like she can't access your deeper emotions, that you're not opening up to her the way she opens up to you. If you guys have water house contacts, it may ease the situation, especially if some of her planets fall in your 4th.
I've been all right...I was actually just thinking about sending you a message today asking you the same thing. We must be on the same wave length. We should start e-mailing again! Sometimes I get really caught up in my life and many personal problems and clam up. I hate that about myself. I have a hard time with it. Worries about college, etc. But yeah, we should start talking about things again...I miss doing that. You also hit the nail on the head - how the other person can be caring but, not always in the best way to make ME feel better and comforted. She is a nice friend though I usually feel I'm taking care of her. Even more than that, I would never be able to cry in front of her. It's almost like we have similar feelings and yet, mine are not understood! What gives...we share very intimate things together and she has always been a good friend. It's odd.... Also, you REALLY got it right when you said, she opens up her real feelings and I don't open up mine. I feel like I almost can't do that yet. The water houses comment was a keen insight. I feel we do have a lot of water house stuff going on - except her Sun and Mercury fall in my 8th house of Cancer which makes her very close to me despite the absence of emotional connection at times. My planets do not fall in her water houses but my Mars is in her 7th and her Mars squares my 12H Pluto. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 477 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted May 20, 2013 12:51 PM
my SO has his Moon unaspected by me. He is ultra emotional with me and I don't quite like that. There're moments when he would cry for certain reasons and I just get up and exit the room because I can't stand such display of emotions. His Moon is in Taurus, mine is in Gemini.It's not that the person with the unaspected Moon is not touched deeply, it's that most likely they simply don't receive much or at least they don't receive what they crave for. A "neglected Moon" sounds quite right to me. IP: Logged |
Jkitty Knowflake Posts: 373 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted May 20, 2013 01:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: the Moon person may feel like the other person can't quite "get" them on a basic level, like they can't touch them deeply or satisfy them emotionally. The other person may very well be very nurturing and caring, but the way they express these traits may not be effective on you. If you guys have water house contacts, it may ease the situation, especially if some of her planets fall in your 4th.
My unaspected moon in his 12th house: I feel like my emotions are "hidden" from him but still impact him deeply on a subconscious level - like he "gets" that something is going on but can't quite "put his finger on it".
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Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 6501 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 20, 2013 01:58 PM
also check for the ruler of IC.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 3207 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 21, 2013 05:28 PM
sweet-scorpion,my email address hasn't changed, feel free to message me anytime you want
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