posted May 20, 2013 11:59 PM            

These people don't even notice they're mysterious. In some of the descriptions I've read online, apparently they won't open up to a person for a long time. And I've always wondered what kind of "sides" would these individuals show if he opened up.

Please answers my questions. ;-;

1. Do they just flirt unconsciously? Their kindness is unlimited, without knowing they overdid it(making a girl fall in love with him).

2.What if a Libra man and you had a fight or broke up. Then after a year or so, he wants to renew his contact again, by being friends. Does this man still have feelings for her? Or he just wants to be friends again?

3. Occasionally teasing people. By saying "I love you" & "I miss you" saying they we're just joking. Is it really?

4. Look "love" or "like" in Libra men, we'd have to look for actions?

5. Suddenly asking you, how's you and your boyfriend. Or asking about your crush. Suddenly the conversation is about it. Is it normal ask about your personal life?

6. Are Libras as straightforward as Sagittarius, there are no deep meanings to his words? They're absolute as it is?

7. Does he talk about his problems to just anyone? Is it rare to know what his problems are?

8. What sides do these men never show to anyone?

9. If they are mean to a friend(teasing, insulting, but joking around), do they usually do this to most of his friends or they just put up a "socialite" face.

posted May 21, 2013 12:07 AM            

Mystery is always romantic quality in men.
Being and air signs they know how to play it cool and being ruled by Venus know that being thirsty is not attractive.
For libra man is about using your charm to attract women.
They've probably studied what women want and what they respond positively to. They're very strategic.

I've also noticed Libra men deny their feelings to others unless that person comes to them. Alternatively they can be very fragile and afraid of being heartbroken. For a libra's a relationship is a big deal and like some people its hard for them to pick themselves up move one. So I think they wait for girl to confess.

posted May 21, 2013 12:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Thinking of libra men I know.
They're extremely good at being romantic, I think they PLAY the part well.

Mystery is always romantic quality in men.
Being and air signs they know how to play it cool and being ruled by Venus know that being thirsty and overly clingy is not attractive.
For libra man is about using your charm to attract women.
They've probably studied what women want and what they respond positively to. They're very strategic.

I've also noticed Libra men deny their feelings to others unless that person comes to them. Alternatively they can be very fragile and afraid of being heartbroken. For a libra relationship are a people deal and like some people its hard for them to pick themselves up move one. So I think they wait for girl to confess.

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posted May 21, 2013 02:21 AM            

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Originally posted by suireen:

Please answers my questions. ;-;

1. Do they just flirt unconsciously? Their kindness is unlimited, without knowing they overdid it(making a girl fall in love with him).

2.What if a Libra man and you had a fight or broke up. Then after a year or so, he wants to renew his contact again, by being friends. Does this man still have feelings for her? Or he just wants to be friends again?

3. Occasionally teasing people. By saying "I love you" & "I miss you" saying they we're just joking. Is it really?

4. Look "love" or "like" in Libra men, we'd have to look for actions?

5. Suddenly asking you, how's you and your boyfriend. Or asking about your crush. Suddenly the conversation is about it. Is it normal ask about your personal life?

6. Are Libras as straightforward as Sagittarius, there are no deep meanings to his words? They're absolute as it is?

7. Does he talk about his problems to just anyone? Is it rare to know what his problems are?

8. What sides do these men never show to anyone?

9. If they are mean to a friend(teasing, insulting, but joking around), do they usually do this to most of his friends or they just put up a "socialite" face.

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from the viewpoint of a libra

1.yes i do sometimes flirt unconsciously

2.depends on the libra...ive seen both....but most just wanted to be friends.

3.joke most of the time...but can have hidden meaning if they feel something for you and so they hint you.

4.didnt understand the question

5.normal (i ask people about their relationships all the time oh intrusive little me :P)

6.idk about others but i usually have more meaning to what i say.

7.i share different problems with different people....the stuff thats really important is kept secret or maybe told to a bestie.

8.the deeper, more fragile sides (and more sides depending on libra)

9.im mean to my friends a lot of times but not an insulting way (i believe) and its funny ^^

i do that to most people.

posted May 21, 2013 02:55 AM            

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Originally posted by suireen:
Do they just flirt unconsciously? Their kindness is unlimited, without knowing they overdid it(making a girl fall in love with him).

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I don't think so. However, Libra is likely to be more friendly (assuming his scales aren't out of whack, in which case it's best for everyone if he's left alone), and some people mistake basic politeness, or even a smile, with "flirting." That's NOT "unconscious flirting," that's just being polite.

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Originally posted by suireen:
What if a Libra man and you had a fight or broke up. Then after a year or so, he wants to renew his contact again, by being friends. Does this man still have feelings for her? Or he just wants to be friends again?

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Friends, at least at first. However, Libra can be very fickle and if she moves in on him then it's certainly possible she can seduce him, though unless there's been growth on both sides then it's probably going to end up like it did last time...and then there won't be another chance (unless Libra feels he's being very unfair).

Some people think men & women can't be nice to each other unless they "want" something (like romance/sex). That's not true for Libra, they want to be liked and they want harmony, and they are perhaps the most likely sign to overlook gender or get hung up on it (that is a typical Libra male can be "just friends" with women just as he is with men). That said, some are quite the hedonist, but it takes Libra a long time to make up his mind, especially if he feels there's any unfairness in what he does (or is doing).

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Originally posted by suireen:
Occasionally teasing people. By saying "I love you" & "I miss you" saying they we're just joking. Is it really?

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This doesn't strike me as typical Libra behavior so I'd have to wonder about other placements (and perhaps on the Scorpio cusp?) and why he would say he was "just joking" about "I miss you." And Libra isn't likely to say "I love you...just kidding." That's mean.

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Originally posted by suireen:
Look "love" or "like" in Libra men, we'd have to look for actions?

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I'm not sure what you mean, but I'm guessing will a Libra show affection, etc. Generally, yes, but Libra can be indecisive about how to do so and take a long time making up his mind sometimes (as always, other placements matter on this).

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Suddenly asking you, how's you and your boyfriend. Or asking about your crush. Suddenly the conversation is about it. Is it normal ask about your personal life?

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Yes, absolutely. Libra loves info and talking, including gossip of any kind.

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Originally posted by suireen:
Are Libras as straightforward as Sagittarius, there are no deep meanings to his words? They're absolute as it is?

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No. Not unless they have a lot of Sag (or Aries) in his chart. Libra is a diplomat and will typically cushion his words and say what seems to induce the most harmony (with the exception of a mentally stimulating debate, which they sometimes forget just how personally others take that). They're also likely to make their commands seem more like suggestions and polite requests. This assumes his scales are balanced, he can be very grumpy & temperamental otherwise.

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Does he talk about his problems to just anyone? Is it rare to know what his problems are?

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Libra is a talker and he loves (some would say even has a neurotic need for) the advice and opinions of others to help make up his own mind (and ultimately blame someone else if it goes bad). However, he's likely to keep secrets of things that would harm his social life. Libra fears not having anyone to talk to.

Be real careful about assuming that just because he told you something personal that he's therefore especially close to you. That's often not the case for Libra (unless particularly insecure for some reason).

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Originally posted by suireen:
What sides do these men never show to anyone?

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They generally don't want to show boorishness (though arrogant disdain is a possibility with those he considers social inferiors). Linda Goodman once said that Libra was the type that if enraged would calmly say, "I'm going to punch you in the nose" before doing it rather than a bunch of expletives.

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Originally posted by suireen:
If they are mean to a friend(teasing, insulting, but joking around), do they usually do this to most of his friends or they just put up a "socialite" face.

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Libra wants to be fair and isn't likely to be mean to friends save in a teasing way. They do sometimes come up with creative insults, but they're actually more interested in showing off their cleverness & entertaining others than hitting the mark (one Libra male I knew used any excuse to say, "I don't know what makes you tick, but I hope it's a time bomb" until it began to interfere with his social life). If Libra does this to a friend then he'll do it to all his friends (unless he learns s/he doesn't take it well so that harmony is threatened) as to do otherwise would be unfair.

posted May 21, 2013 04:40 AM            

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Originally posted by suireen:

1. Do they just flirt unconsciously? Their kindness is unlimited, without knowing they overdid it(making a girl fall in love with him).

The Libra men I know are extremely attractive and charming, so my answer to this is yes. My closest Libra friend has tons of girls messaging him etc, and he doesnt like any of them, but obviously what you mentioned of Libras being kind etc must be true.

2.What if a Libra man and you had a fight or broke up. Then after a year or so, he wants to renew his contact again, by being friends. Does this man still have feelings for her? Or he just wants to be friends again?

I can't answer that specifically for Libras, but regarding Air signs, it could be the case that he just wants to be friends, especially if the relationship was important. Regarding men in general, I think it is also quite possible that he has second thoughts and feelings.

3. Occasionally teasing people. By saying "I love you" & "I miss you" saying they we're just joking. Is it really?

Not exactly joking, but they don't mean it they way you want them to mean it.

4. Look "love" or "like" in Libra men, we'd have to look for actions?

Definitely

5. Suddenly asking you, how's you and your boyfriend. Or asking about your crush. Suddenly the conversation is about it. Is it normal ask about your personal life?

Yeap

6. Are Libras as straightforward as Sagittarius, there are no deep meanings to his words? They're absolute as it is?

7. Does he talk about his problems to just anyone? Is it rare to know what his problems are?

8. What sides do these men never show to anyone?

9. If they are mean to a friend(teasing, insulting, but joking around), do they usually do this to most of his friends or they just put up a "socialite" face.

I have more, but I just forgot them. Advance thank you for the replies.

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I'm not sure about the other questions, so I'm not answering them, I don't want to misguide you!

posted May 21, 2013 08:35 AM            

Thanks for answering btw and can I ask a few more questions?

For question 3, How do you hint people when you like them?

posted May 21, 2013 09:00 AM            

I like how some of your answers contrast to doomlord's.

In regards to #3, my friend does that.

#7: Things that would harm his social life; Umm, let's say this Libra man told you about something that's related to his love life; how much he gets hurt a lot, how much he has to give up on something but no one does the same thing to him. Since he had to give up his love, because his other friend likes his bestie but he is unable to speak his thoughts out. Is it normal for them to talk about this to anyone?

#8: Oh my friend is like that, this guy is really rude at times. I remember once he talked about his bestie for being dumb, he talks about her as if they weren't best friends at all. He only talked to me about it.

posted May 21, 2013 10:19 AM            

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Originally posted by suireen:
Hi doomlord! Good to see you again. (:

Thanks for answering btw and can I ask a few more questions?

For question 3, How do you hint people when you like them?

And for question 8, could you explain what those deeper, fragile Libras are like?

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The hint is usually in showing flirty behaviour while also sharing deeper sides and creating an air of more "heavy" communication than most.

Most libras i met always tried to keep themselves from getting judged for certain part of themselves people not always seem to like.... my personal opinion is that they keep those sides away from others to seem more pleasing and open up different parts of themselves at different times.

posted May 21, 2013 07:37 PM            

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Originally posted by suireen:
#7: Things that would harm his social life; Umm, let's say this Libra man told you about something that's related to his love life; how much he gets hurt a lot, how much he has to give up on something but no one does the same thing to him. Since he had to give up his love, because his other friend likes his bestie but he is unable to speak his thoughts out. Is it normal for them to talk about this to anyone?

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Yes. that is anyone he knows well (or even fairly well, some Libra will even talk to random strangers about their personal lives). But it sounds like he has a lot of Cancer (ETA: and/or a "grey lizard" manifestation of Scorpio) in his chart. (But Libra gets a lot of flak for "disloyalty" because he tries to be fair to all sides, too.)

Either that or he's a player. A common trick players use is to get a girl alone to "confide" how unhappy he is or badly mistreated while trying to get her to feel special compare to her (masterful players will make the "rival" seem socially superior so as to make himself appear all the more desirable). However, I don't believe Libra men are prone to this horrid tactic...but it's worth keeping in mind (especially as other placements also matter).

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Originally posted by suireen:
#8: Oh my friend is like that, this guy is really rude at times. I remember once he talked about his bestie for being dumb, he talks about her as if they weren't best friends at all. He only talked to me about it

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I seriously doubt he only talked to you about it. That's not Libra's style at all. Libras are social and they like a lot of different viewpoints to put on their scales for weighing against each other, confiding in just one person would drive Libra nuts with the lack of balance that would create.

Really, this guy talks so much crap about everyone I wouldn't have anything to do with him. If you get involved with this guy then be aware it's only a matter of time before he's talking crap about you and blaming you behind your back (if he's not already), too.