posted May 22, 2013 09:07 PM
Hello everybody This is a thread dedicated to everyone with North Node in Aries.
Discuss anythig that will help you move forward with your Aries North Node.
Here are my two cents:
Your biggest challange is realizing that you dont need to please anybody but yourself.
Yes, you, dear Libra South Node, to whom saying no is sometimes a problem, expressing anything you dont like is sometimes a problem. You always want to be helpful, friendly and charming. Relationships you hold are your shrine and you want to MAKE SURE you are not being unjust to them.
I am not saying you dont or cant have healthy relationships with people, you do, that is what your best at but your care for others around you and the relationship should not dissolve what YOU really want. In close relationships with family and friends you are likely to drain yourself if the other person is not putting equally into the relationship. The need to help others and maintain ties should not overwrite YOUR needs.
You have strong faith in bonds that bring people closer together which is a wonderful trait but learning not to feel bad about what others want and feeling better about what you want is a must.
You need to learn Self-awareness
Take a new veiwpoint. Keep in mind that you will only do what you feel like doing and not change that for anybody. Keep in mind that saying "NO" to people is totally acceptable. When you dont want to do something, dont. When you feel you are keeping up with someone who you just dont agree with or like, cut off all ties with them without thinking twice. Keep in mind that you DO NOT NEED to do anything you dont desire to.
Your North Node in Aries is asking you to do what ever it is you like, the way you like it. Break free from things that tie you down, learn to be independant and aggressive with yourself and your lifestyle. The more you loose and leave behind your set backs and embrace only what you want you will be moving forward with your life path lesson.
http://raginguniverse.blogspot.ca/2007/04/north-node-in-aries-or-first-house.html
^some good points here.