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Topic: Soooo much Earth! Capricorn sun and venus (im earth void so any earth is a lot to me)
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Gem-Gurl Knowflake Posts: 2011 From: Los Angeles, CA Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 22, 2013 10:23 PM
The man has both sun and venus in Cappy. Any tips? Whats a good flirty move here? I can tell that he is shyish, so nothing bold right? (As my venus in Aries hops from one foot to the other in its time-out corner)Just give me opionions/advice or whatever about this Cappyness that you feel like sharing! Thanks IP: Logged |
Jkitty Knowflake Posts: 390 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted May 22, 2013 10:55 PM
Be successful in your career. Read the Wall Street Journal and be able to talk about the Fortune 500 companies and what they're doing that makes them successful. Wear a nice business suit that makes you look like a no-nonsense career woman. Talk with him about his career aspirations and accomplishments.IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 778 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 23, 2013 02:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jkitty: Be successful in your career. Read the Wall Street Journal and be able to talk about the Fortune 500 companies and what they're doing that makes them successful. Wear a nice business suit that makes you look like a no-nonsense career woman. Talk with him about his career aspirations and accomplishments.
This post is insulting IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 778 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 23, 2013 02:48 AM
To be attractive to him, be on time, take him seriously when it's time to be serious. Be responsible. Responsibility is sooooo attractive. Stay ambitious. You can't go anywhere with a Capricorn if you're not going anywhere. And since you're a Gemini you probably know how to have fun. Be fun! Capricorns need someone to sweep them off of their feet and help them relax. I don't know if you're like the Gemini I dated but try to stay one way when you're with him because the way Geminis switch it up is annoying. Don't do anything to purposely impress him because he will know whether you set it up or not. Then again he's a guy so he might like that. Idk as a Capricorn I'm instantly turned off when people try too hard or force things. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 1128 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted May 23, 2013 04:10 AM
Be your ownself. Try different moves, you are a gemini, I am sure you would know plenty of them.IP: Logged |
Gem-Gurl Knowflake Posts: 2011 From: Los Angeles, CA Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 23, 2013 08:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: To be attractive to him, be on time, take him seriously when it's time to be serious. Be responsible. Responsibility is sooooo attractive. Stay ambitious. You can't go anywhere with a Capricorn if you're not going anywhere. And since you're a Gemini you probably know how to have fun. Be fun! Capricorns need someone to sweep them off of their feet and help them relax. I don't know if you're like the Gemini I dated but try to stay one way when you're with him because the way Geminis switch it up is annoying. Don't do anything to purposely impress him because he will know whether you set it up or not. Then again he's a guy so he might like that. Idk as a Capricorn I'm instantly turned off when people try too hard or force things.
Thank you very much! This is exactly what i was looking for its perfect. Ill try to remember it all IP: Logged |
Jkitty Knowflake Posts: 390 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted May 23, 2013 09:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: This post is insulting
Why is it insulting? How is it any different from what you suggested about being ambitious, staying ambitious and being responsible? IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5840 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted May 23, 2013 10:00 PM
For the cap Venus. (Not sure about the sun)I say showing that your independent, confident and strong will make him notice you. Also don't really be emotional. Or show ur emotions to much. IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 551 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 23, 2013 10:38 PM
a flirty/fun woman really won't attract his attention or, it might, but not for the right reasons. we need fun, but a more mundane type of fun... not the bold, outrageous sort. a more quiet, intellectual and confident/ambitious person will grab our attention. and nothing bold/over the top with the approach - keep everything very traditional. no bold colors/outfits/hairstyles, just a more traditional person, VERY responsible/reliable and opt for more quiet than outgoing in his company. a nonstop talker = quite a turnoff as they obviously cannot keep quiet long enough to think things through (which caps like to do)IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 778 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 23, 2013 10:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jkitty: Why is it insulting? How is it any different from what you suggested about being ambitious, staying ambitious and being responsible?
Wall street journal. Fortune 500.Business suit. No nonsense. Career. All of these things bore me to death and I'm a Capricorn. I hate when people think that Capricorns are career oriented tightasses IP: Logged |
Jkitty Knowflake Posts: 390 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted May 24, 2013 12:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: Wall street journal. Fortune 500.Business suit. No nonsense. Career. All of these things bore me to death and I'm a Capricorn.I hate when people think that Capricorns are career oriented tightasses
But are you a male Cappy Venus? And I neither stated nor implied anything about being a "tightass". Why so defensive? Men are much more visual than women and also more likely to be on top of their investments, which is a shame since women tend to outlive men and NEED to be better invested; THAT is being responsible in a manner a man can respect. Many men (not just Capricorns) actually enjoy talking about such things with someone who appears knowledgeable (male or female). I certainly wouldn't consider it an insult and my Cappy dad respected my mom's business sense; it's the reason they were able to thrive once they immigrated here (to America). Their relationship lasted for over 50 years. And I recall reading that arguements over money/spending are one of the top reasons that relationships fail. IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 778 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 24, 2013 02:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jkitty: But are you a male Cappy Venus? And I neither stated nor implied anything about being a "tightass". Why so defensive?
I'm defensive because there's more to Capricorn than what you mentioned. I can go anywhere on the internet and find a similar description of "Capricorn turn ons" as the ones you listed. Capricorn is so much more than that. And nononsense business and suit sounds tightass to me IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 778 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 24, 2013 02:20 AM
I want people to see Capricorn from a better light, apart from the typical descriptions you gave.IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 778 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 24, 2013 02:23 AM
Idk maybe I'm one of the wild onesIP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 1294 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 24, 2013 03:09 AM
I feel much the same way when I read descriptions of sun in Virgo. I can't relate to most of what I read. When I read about efficiency and order I laugh. In fact, I chuckle sarcastically at most of it. I must be one of those disorganized, chaotic Virgos. IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 778 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 24, 2013 07:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: I feel much the same way when I read descriptions of sun in Virgo. I can't relate to most of what I read. When I read about efficiency and order I laugh. In fact, I chuckle sarcastically at most of it. I must be one of those disorganized, chaotic Virgos.
I'm one of those disorganized, chaotic ascendant Virgos IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 5242 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted May 24, 2013 08:09 AM
I believe I'm one of the very few Capricorn men here.The high achievement, career focus may upset some but that's the reality. Let's see where my ex-girlfriends are today: a neuro surgeon, a pediatrician, a judge, a lawyer, a CEO and a banker. I married a fashion executive. I don't care for business suits because I like my women to be women, and I don't like women wearing what a woman thinks a man would wear if he was a woman. Having said that, I do like go-getters, and nothing turns me off more than a non-ambitious, non-achieving, non-Alpha, non-Type A woman. IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 553 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted May 24, 2013 08:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by Gem-Gurl: (As my venus in Aries hops from one foot to the other in its time-out corner)
I understand how this must feel, exactly lol IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 778 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 24, 2013 11:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: I believe I'm one of the very few Capricorn men here.
You are also 100% Capricorn let's add that as well IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 5242 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted May 24, 2013 03:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: You are also 100% Capricorn let's add that as well
And so there isn't a single uniform of personality or set of preferences for "Capricorn." Different people have different viewpoints and presentations. And no, I'm not 100% Capricorn. I have a fair bit of Aquarius and Virgo. IP: Logged |
Jkitty Knowflake Posts: 390 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted May 24, 2013 04:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I don't care for business suits because I like my women to be women, and I don't like women wearing what a woman thinks a man would wear if he was a woman.
This got me thinking about my mental image of a no-nonsense business suit. I guess I'm stuck in the 1940/1950s idea where a women wearing a well-tailored, fitted suit could still manage to look feminine/classy but it's also somehow combined with the more modern/liberated demeanor of a woman of education and confidence in her authority. IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 1308 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted May 24, 2013 06:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: I believe I'm one of the very few Capricorn men here.The high achievement, career focus may upset some but that's the reality. Let's see where my ex-girlfriends are today: a neuro surgeon, a pediatrician, a judge, a lawyer, a CEO and a banker. I married a fashion executive. I don't care for business suits because I like my women to be women, and I don't like women wearing what a woman thinks a man would wear if he was a woman. Having said that, I do like go-getters, and nothing turns me off more than a non-ambitious, non-achieving, non-Alpha, non-Type A woman.
I sure do like the way your life sounds. You really play it up on here and it always catches my interest.
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 5242 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted May 24, 2013 11:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by L0veLess: I sure do like the way your life sounds. You really play it up on here and it always catches my interest.
Not playing it up here. This isn't about shock factor. I'm just representing my true viewpoints and telling how my life is. There are many disappointments and mistakes that I've made too, but I like to keep a logical mind based on practical reality and a focused life. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2476 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 01:36 AM
Hmmmm YTA sounds nothing like my boyfriend. He's diligent but not particularly ambitious. He's a bit of a dreamer and an intellectual, really. When he's not drifting off in his own little world reading in solitude or listening to music, he's doing the dishes or trying to do some little useful task around the house. It's almost like he exists on the Pisces-Virgo axis.He himself admits his romantic relationships have always been more important to him than his career. My boyfriend has 4 planets in Capricorn (also his sun, Venus and Mercury in the 6th house). Perhaps that makes a big difference. Also, he hasn't had his Saturn Return yet. I know when my ex hit his he suddenly turned fully Sagittarius on me.
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Swathi Knowflake Posts: 38 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted May 25, 2013 03:34 AM
I am a Cap sun and Venus girl. I would say, maintain quality! In ur tastes, language and personality,.. p.s: i am currently dating an Aries Venus guy. We should exchange tips. LOL! IP: Logged |