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Topic: How to know when a Capricorn man likes you?
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*Golden_Wing*
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From: South Africa
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 11:38 AM
  
Scorpio woman here...
Before I get on with what I want to ask, which is quite straight forward, I would like for only Capricorns to answer it, because I find that information coming from others, never really make sense to me or it's just too mixed up.Okay, now, my main question is, what are the signs, or anything a Cappy gives off when he likes you? I met one about five months ago. He was around earlier, but I didn't really notice him, since I was interested in someone else at the time. When I approached him, I had shown him something on my BlackBerry, & when I wanted to walk away, he asked me why I'm not inviting him on bbm, if I have one. So I told him no, he can invite me. So he did. After a while he was quiet, he didn't initiate first, I did, but after that, he had contacted me very often & we talked for about three days endlessly. Then he was quite reserved, but now that we know each other longer, he has opened up to me about his personal life. I've gathered that he didn't have it easy growing up, hence contributing to his maturity. (which I love by the way). I had asked him what his first impression was when he first laid his eyes on me, so he told me what he thought ("Wow, this girl is beautiful"). He told me that I was unapproachable and domineering, which is why sometimes he will seem drawn back or shy around me, but he will playfully bump his shoulder against me. He always makes jokes with me and acts all silly. He always makes me laugh. He's even given me a cute pet name now too, which I think is a good thing? Since he is a Cappy, I've approached him about maybe going for a coffee or something, since movies don't really allow you to converse or bond.. He said he's down with it, but he never really talks about dates, but it might be because he's unsure? Don't really know why. I'm always telling him that he acts distant and cold, but really he's not, because I'm able to see right through him. He told me that usually he's cold with other people he never sees or whatever, but we don't even see each other that often? Lol. Anyway, I thanked him for opening up to me & being warmer towards me. I've even told him I love who he his, I love how he is different, he must never change, and also I respect him for how strong a person he is. Where we used to talk for three days, has now expanded to four or five. He keeps texting me, it's like we don't get bored of each other. The only problem is, I have a lot of guy friends. I have him on Facebook and I have noticed that if I give my friends any form of attention, he would draw back a bit. Is it best to leave Facebook matters private with my guy friends? Could he be a bit jealous? Are Cappy men normally jealous when it comes to someone they like? The other day I have asked him if he is scared to fall in love, so he told me he just doesn't draw out his feelings to that extent. In other words, yes, obviously he is scared of getting hurt, but what I cannot seem to fathom is, he's scared of falling in love, but he shows me differently in very subtle ways. I would love to know what you guys think. My Birth Chart: Sun - Scorpio
Moon - Sagittarius
Merc - Sagittarius
Venus - Virgo
Mars - Scorpio
Jupiter - Virgo
Saturn - Aquarius
Uranus - Capricorn
Nept - Capricorn
Pluto - Scorpio
Lilith - Capricorn
Asc node - Capricorn His Birth Chart: Sun - Capricorn
Moon - Aquarius
Mercury - Sagittarius
Venus - Sagittarius
Mars - Sagittarius
Jupiter - Virgo
Saturn - Aquarius
Uranus - Capricorn
Neptune - Capricorn
Pluto - Scorpio
Lilith - Capricorn
Asc node - Capricorn Thank you!* :] IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted May 25, 2013 01:11 PM
i'm a cap (moon) ... my advice is ... do not focus so much on his sun sign and the fact he's a Capricorn. when a man (or woman) falls in love it is (generally) because their moon and/or venus sign has been touched by the partner and is in close conjunction. the sun sign, at least imo, is quite generic in nature and it's those inner planets that help you connect with someone. his aqua moon is going to very tough to combat in terms of a relationship - aqua moons like to be alone and not settle down, and coupled with a lot of Sagittarius, you've got a guy who really likes his freedom. your moon in sag should blend very well with his venus/mars in sag, so there would be attraction, even without seeing a chart we would know that. best advice is be who you are.. with your moon sign matching his mars/venus he will be drawn to you for YOU, really, that sounds lame, but is honest. by being exactly who you are he'll be drawn to you. if you post a chart (synastry) it would help people see the relationship. but in general a Capricorn sun would be interested in ambitious women, smart women, and women who are reliable and honest. we really value reliability in a partner and someone stable. good luckIP: Logged |
*Golden_Wing*
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: South Africa
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 01:23 PM
Thank you for replying.. :]Uhmmm, well, I do have Aquarius rising, and I've read that Saturn's your ruling planet. Also, Sagittarius is a lot like Aquarius, also freedom-loving & I am a lot like that as well, but I don't mind relationships. As long as I'm not being smothered in it. Even though I have these signs in different planets, I do still feel overruled by my sun sign in most cases, except for the jealousy factor. I've learned to control it & for that I'm very happy. Though, he might have his moon in Aquarius, he just doesn't seem like one at all. He's such a philosopher, his every aspect matches that of Capricorn. I can probably post a birth chart, but I really don't know what time he was born? I also don't want to ask him, just now he thinks something. Lol! Do you maybe have a website in mind that I can use to post a chart? Thanks again! :] IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 25, 2013 02:03 PM
Trust is very important to Capricorn influenced people (as I've learned recently, ahem, Jessica2407 where are you in this conversation?!) and I feel like he trusts you and has set you apart from other people. This is a really good sign. In my experience with my Aquarian moon friend, she comes off aloof but she is watching and observing without a lot of people noticing it. I don't know how but Aquarius (the sign, no matter where it's placed) picks up even the smallest details with no effort. As an Aries I'm jealous, lol! Anyway, my advice is don't hide anything. If he's jealous then that's his problem and he's an adult who can address it with you, or not. You're not dating - so why change your social habits? Plus, Capricorns want to know everything anyway. If you want to reassure him of your interest, maybe throw in somehow how you could never date your guy friends because of x, y, z. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted May 25, 2013 02:07 PM
This Capricorn man is very vocal and will tell you. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 02:08 PM
@ hanna LOLI'm here  but since the OP requested that only cappies answer, I took a pass..being such a leo you see... anyways...Very vocal indeed...for a cappy... I don't trust vocal cappies much...may be that's just me.. Besides Sag Mercury is kinda glib.. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 25, 2013 02:18 PM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
@ hanna LOLI'm here but since the OP requested that only cappies answer, I took a pass..being such a leo you see... anyways...Very vocal indeed...for a cappy... I don't trust vocal cappies much...may be that's just me.. Besides Sag Mercury is kinda glib..
Haha, and me being such an Aries just skipped right over that request. Oops... IP: Logged |
*Golden_Wing*
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From: South Africa
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 02:24 PM
Well, I guess if he is jealous then it is his problem, I just don't want to come off as being the type who is too flirty or bubbly for his liking, but I'll just be myself.Like I said, he shows me in very subtle ways that he does like me... Even at the gym he keeps staring at me. My girl friends make fun of that, which is quite hilarious though. I've even told him that, but he said nothing, because I think he was embarrassed. Many times I would tell him that I miss him, & he'd tell me that he misses me too. (I don't thiiiink he'll say it just to make me feel better?) He also calls me monkey veeeeery often, which is quite cute. Also, he sends me kissing emoticons sometimes. He told me he was hungry one morning and cold, so I even offered to take him food or something, because I was off at college. He thought it was very sweet? But really, it's just because I do care a lot for him. So, as you can see, I am at least trying to initiate and push him just a little bit. He is a very fatherly figure towards me as well. I could go to him with advice and he would help me. He's very affectionate with me and would "awwww" when I'm just being nice or sweet, which tells me that he does have a soft heart. He told me not to tell anyone as well, because obviously Cappy's are too proud to be known as softies...* lol IP: Logged |
*Golden_Wing*
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posted May 25, 2013 02:26 PM
Hahahahaha! Vocal? No, he's too drawn back... I do most of the vocal work.  IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 02:30 PM
You seem to have the answer to your own question already.IP: Logged |
*Golden_Wing*
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posted May 25, 2013 02:31 PM
He's never been in a relationship. The other night him & I talked about players, games people play in relationships, he admitted that he wouldn't be able to teach his nephew how to be a little player, because he isn't one himself. So that did tell me a lot. IP: Logged |
*Golden_Wing*
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posted May 25, 2013 02:32 PM
Sometimes it's just better hearing it from others I guess...IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 1966
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 02:33 PM
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Originally posted by *Golden_Wing*:
Hahahahaha! Vocal? No, he's too drawn back... I do most of the vocal work.
From what I could glean from your posts, he is vocal. I have yet to meet a capricorn man who uses emoticons or AWWW me. If my cappy does that, I would know for sure he fell down on his head or something! IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 1966
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 02:35 PM
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Originally posted by *Golden_Wing*:
Sometimes it's just better hearing it from others I guess...
oh.okay. IP: Logged |
*Golden_Wing*
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From: South Africa
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posted May 25, 2013 02:42 PM
Could be the other planets influence. I'm a vocal person, but it doesn't mean that people shouldn't trust me, because I know I can be trusted.  IP: Logged |
Geeky
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posted May 25, 2013 02:43 PM
I'm not a Cappy, but my partner is. He was initially trying to impress me by telling me about his job, music, etc. but then when he *really* started to like me, he became silly. Like 12-year-old adolescent silly. And he's 47. We've been together for more than a year, and he still does ridiculous stuff like make goofy faces at me, run up and crash into me, booty bump me, snap my bra, etc. At first I found it obnoxious but now it's endearing. Love makes you silly I guess. ------------------
"Most people would rather be sheep and have company than stand out on their own with antlers on."
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hannaramaa
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posted May 25, 2013 02:46 PM
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Originally posted by *Golden_Wing*:
He's never been in a relationship. The other night him & I talked about players, games people play in relationships, he admitted that he wouldn't be able to teach his nephew how to be a little player, because he isn't one himself. So that did tell me a lot.
For some reason I felt the need to say watch his actions and don't pay attention to his words so much. You're a Scorpio so there's no fooling you, but I'm just saying. IP: Logged |
*Golden_Wing*
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From: South Africa
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 02:50 PM
I will do that. & yes, I do know that actions speak louder than words. I will also try finding out from his friends what he's like. I do know that he doesn't go out much, but I will definitely try finding out more. I do my research before I put my all into something. Thank you*  IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 1966
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 03:27 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
For some reason I felt the need to say watch his actions and don't pay attention to his words so much. You're a Scorpio so there's no fooling you, but I'm just saying.
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Lioness
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posted May 25, 2013 03:30 PM
One of my female friends is married to a cap.. He's a Plummer, he is all about making more money, but not in the business suit type. My friend she is a Pisces, she is very girly.. He doesn't like her working, he wants to be the sole provider.
He has a very traditional way of thinking about relationships..
The women stays home while the man works..
He expects her to stay thin, well kept, nails done, with a perfect house and dinner ready when he gets home... She doesn't like working, so it works for her... But she wants money of her own, instead of having to ask for it..
He controls all the spending... Not saying all caps are like this, this is just one example of one cap man..
Idk his bday.. So idk any if his aspects.. I was in a relationship with a cap, my daughters father.
My worst relationship ever!!! Lol
He wanted full control of me...
He would even take my spark plug wires to work with him, so I couldn't leave the house..
He was all about control, control, control...
I had to sneak out in the middle of the night to get away from him..
Bahhh...
Again not all cap men are like that.. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 25, 2013 03:37 PM
Opps, I think I posted this in the wrong cap thread..lolIP: Logged |
*Golden_Wing*
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From: South Africa
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 03:40 PM
Hahahahaha! Lioness, you just made my eve! Blonde moment much!* IP: Logged |
*Golden_Wing*
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posted May 26, 2013 02:39 AM
Oh, this mutual friend happens to know him very well & long, he said he's a real gentleman & I wouldn't make a mistake in going for him, so I'm very happy about that. Comes to show that the majority of Cappy's are straight forward about who they are, they're the real deal* :] IP: Logged |
*Golden_Wing*
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posted May 26, 2013 02:45 AM
Doesn't seem my other comment posted. Anyway, I spoke to a mutual friend of ours, & this is what he said to me. It also comes to show that being vocal doesn't always mean you cannot be trusted. I'm also like that, & I would never hurt someone. It's a common misconception people seem to have. :]* IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 1966
From: Saturn
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posted May 26, 2013 03:15 AM
^^ Nobody linked being vocal or taciturn to (un)/trustworthiness.
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