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Topic: Pluto-Moon Parent/Child Relationship
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SDragon
Knowflake Posts: 46
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 27, 2013 02:47 PM
  
Natal Aspects:I have no Pluto-Moon contacts myself
My mom has Pluto trine Moon
My dad has Pluto square Moon In Synastry:
Pluto opposite Moon with Mom
Pluto square Moon with Dad Both my brothers have a Pluto conj. and Pluto trine with Mom so Pluto-Moon contacts as biological and family karma is definitely relevant. --------------------------------------------- My question is how is the Pluto-Moon contact perceived from a Child/Parent relationship where the son is the one with Pluto? I definitely perceive the control and emotional manipulation at time but with awareness, I tend to no longer let it bother me. But is just being around me kind of like a catalyst for them forcing them to become more aware of their emotions and its impact? My family is not the explosive argumentative dynamic - more of the undercurrent, don't show emotions dynamic. Is the control behavior a defensive reaction because my actions are perceived as causing or capable of causing them to lose control of their emotions? I'm early thirties now and my parents are close to retiring, so this isn't a teenage angst thing anymore. Thanks for reading  IP: Logged |
Enigma9
Newflake Posts: 5
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Registered: May 2013
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posted May 27, 2013 05:24 PM
my mom has moon conjunct pluto in virgo and I have moon square pluto. none of my siblings have the moon pluto in their natal as far as im concerned im the only one with the conflict with my mom. we don't get along. constant fights in my family. my mom tries to control me and i just won't let it happen. i'm all too aware of the undercurrents and any current and her not being able to control me is really the source of all conflict. she tries to manipulate but i am all too aware. once i became aware of what was happening, i see it as entertainment now.IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 599
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 27, 2013 05:31 PM
Mom: Scorpio Sun and Moon square Leo Pluto.Dad: Leo Moon conj Leo Pluto. (Gem Sun) Me: Cancer Sun and Cappy Moon square Libra Pluto.
I THINK no further explanations are needed....because none of them will be good...
Also, Mom is an Air and Fire Singleton in Neptune and Pluto.
Dad has NO water. I have an Air Singleton in Pluto.
Oooh!! If someone would like to comment on these placements so that I can gain some added insight I would really appreciate it!
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SDragon
Knowflake Posts: 46
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 27, 2013 09:33 PM
No comments on the dynamics charlie, but couldn't help but notice, Cancer Sun, Cappy Moon?? How's that working for you? IP: Logged |
SDragon
Knowflake Posts: 46
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 27, 2013 09:52 PM
But ya, I guess I've resigned myself to the fact that I will never have a close relationship with my parents. I can only be around them for 5 minutes before they start criticizing how I'm living my life, the way I do things, what I should be doing, what I need to be aware of, think about, etc... It's tiring being on the receiving end of all that 'control' regardless of how 'concerned' they think they're being as parents. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 599
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 27, 2013 11:11 PM
quote:
Originally posted by SDragon:
No comments on the dynamics charlie, but couldn't help but notice, Cancer Sun, Cappy Moon?? How's that working for you?
Ummmm.....not well... IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Moderator Posts: 3254
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 28, 2013 04:58 AM
SDragon,same here. I have Moon square Pluto and my mother has Moon quincunx Pluto. My father and sister have no Moon/Pluto aspects.. so it seems that it really just affects my mother and me. We have a very strained relationship and I find it very hard to talk to her about anything, as she is very critical and judgemental. She's still my mother, but I don't think we'll ever be very close. We have some difficult aspects that point to the tension, though - her Uranus conjuncts my Moon and squares my Mars; and her Sun squares my Pluto and opposes my Saturn. Not very friendly aspects. Sometimes we just have to accept that that's how it is.
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depth
Knowflake Posts: 570
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted May 28, 2013 04:46 PM
My parents don't have Moon/Pluto. I do - Moon in 8th sextile Pluto.I think it's the hard aspects that make for a turbulent relationship with the mother. My sextile seems to work fine. We're very close and share everything. Keeping aside her obsessive compulsive disorder (not clinically...I tease her cause she nags if I don't bathe and stuff which irritates my lazy independent planets who think she's being controlling), everything is pleasant. She can be very defensive for no real reason(not with me) which disturbs my peace loving planets and I don't like disharmony anywhere close to me. So to re-establish peace, I fight a war for peace which rarely exceeds 15 minutes. :P IP: Logged |
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