posted May 28, 2013 07:12 PM            

I have this one friend I grew up with, and she describes our relationship as "sisterly." She happens to have sun in Leo. The other day, I looked up her chart and the synastry blew me away. Her Venus in Gemini is exactly opposite (both are at 19 degrees) my Mars in Sagittarius and both of them square our Plutos forming a t square. It's so strange. We have always shared jealousy between ourselves, too. She has Venus/Pluto square in her natal chart. I have a Mars/Pluto square in mine. I find this aspect pattern strange, startling and intriguing. I also had another Leo friend who was very jealous of me, have no idea why. One time some friends of mine complimented me on my clothing while ignoring hers and she about lost it. My sun Taurus friend is somewhat jealous, but not as intense as the sun Leos.

posted May 28, 2013 08:00 PM            

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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Pluto in my Fourth House...I don't think Cancers get jealous of me,

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posted May 28, 2013 08:15 PM            

not at all. ^^; (mad respect and love for & from the Gemini/Scorpio sisters I've had over the years!) <3

(Pluto positively aspects my ASC/MC ruler Mercury (Capricorn, 4h ~Sag). Pluto makes no major negative aspects to any key body in my chart. My chart severely lacks any major hard aspects.)

~they'd have to have something to feel jealous of me for, or a reason to be jealous... It's not that nobody has ever said, "aw, shucks SM, you got XYZ" or "you're one lucky SOB, SM" - something said lightly... but, I don't think I've ever had someone actually proclaim their resentment, or show signs of envy or jealousy (beyond subtle nuances toward romantic partners, which I understand); and besides my own juvenile romances... I'm not much for jealous behavior either. I share everything I can with those I care for, and don't go out of my way to make anyone uncomfortable over an achievement or possession, or even partner, etc... that's just cruel. If I'm successful, I'm grateful and want to share that with those around me, if I have something I can divide somehow, or let someone else get enjoyment out of, I do... If I cannot, I'd encourage and help them so they know they can do/have the same. Resentment and envy from those who dislike you for miscellaneous reasons is one thing, but generally... I don't give people in my life reasons to feel these things toward me, so I have little experience handling them, thankfully too. I am one lucky SOB though, this I know... albeit gullible. ^^;
<- horse(fire)/boar(water)

My husband's Pluto in the 2nd, Libra - (9h Taurus) - now he's someone who doesn't mind making people jealous, in fact, he rather enjoys flaunting even imaginary possessions/achievements in the face (cyberface) of others... then again, he has Pluto square Mars (5h), & Venus in Capricorn (AP 4h). ~shrug~ it's one of his more, how do I put it... unattractive character flaws. The whole faux-obnoxious, vanity obsession... it's not something I agree with. Beyond just charts though... we were raised completely different, by natally similar mothers... lol my poor as dirt Libra mother was happy just to have a roof over her head and food in our plates, his almost as poor as dirt mother wanted the roof over her head to appear to be a castle turret to others in order to be utterly unhappy by choice for the rest of her life by devoting herself to keeping up appearances. ^^; see, worlds apart~

posted May 28, 2013 09:52 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Okay, let's revamp this. People with Pluto in whatever house and the natural sign rulers - has your reaction to them been instant? Strong? Like you immediately know you like them or don't?

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No. I tend to like unusual people and normally give anyone I don't know well the benefit of any doubt. Someone would have to EARN my dislike. As for instantly liking someone, I might, but they would still have to live up to this by being good people.

posted May 28, 2013 10:27 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Okay, let's revamp this. People with Pluto in whatever house and the natural sign rulers - has your reaction to them been instant? Strong? Like you immediately know you like them or don't?

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Pluto in Libra (Scorpio cusp along with sun and mercury, and I also have Scorp Jupiter).

I can't think of any jealousy present, but I do tend to either get along beautifully with Libras or clash harshly with them. Though as far as I can tell the Libras I clash with are almost all social snobs (and might drown if caught in the rain as they have their nose so high up in the air) and put an emphasis on being superficial with gossip, fashion, and partying. I don't mind superficiality exactly, it's just the snob part that gets me, possibly because I see them as unfair to others (Libra doesn't like that, obviously they use different standards on how to judge what is fair), or maybe my Scorpio cusp bristles at their superficiality and attempts to create harmony with short sighted drama and/or passive aggressive behavior, my Leo ascendant is outraged that they'd dare judge themselves superior to me, or all my Sag placements (especially moon, Mars, and Uranus) can't stand the shallow standards they try to impose on everyone else. That's just my guess.

posted May 28, 2013 10:58 PM            

I'm sort of indifferent to Taurus suns. They don't really seem to make too much of an impression on me, for whatever reason.

posted May 29, 2013 04:16 AM            

However, my BFF over 12 years and significant other are both Gemini Risings and we love each other.

posted May 29, 2013 04:33 AM            

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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Pluto in my Fourth House...I don't think Cancers get jealous of me,

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Pluto Scorp IV house too.

It is a shame, as much as I love Cancers. They just never seem to love me back

It seems they refuse to be emotional around me which is killer, because my Venus conjuncts my Pluto. And being the emotional vampire that I am, I have nothing to feed from.

I've actually heard "you are so emotional" from a Cancer Moon, Pisces Venus and Mars. That definitely made me take a step back.

I really don't think they are jealous of me, there isn't much to even be jealous of, but honestly I never asked any of the ones I met.

posted May 29, 2013 10:13 AM            

pPluto is in 1st Libra. I like Libras and like Aries'.

posted May 29, 2013 10:16 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
nPluto in 2nd Libra. I like Libras and dislike Taurus'.

pPluto is in 1st Libra. I like Libras and like Aries'.

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posted May 29, 2013 01:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
Pluto Scorp IV house too.

It is a shame, as much as I love Cancers. They just never seem to love me back

It seems they refuse to be emotional around me which is killer, because my Venus conjuncts my Pluto. And being the emotional vampire that I am, I have nothing to feed from.

I've actually heard "you are so emotional" from a Cancer Moon, Pisces Venus and Mars. That definitely made me take a step back.

I really don't think they are jealous of me, there isn't much to even be jealous of, but honestly I never asked any of the ones I met.

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posted May 29, 2013 06:05 PM            

I haven't really been in any "jealousy" incidents with Pisces, expect maybe one who would talk shi about me and gossip... high school crap. However, it's generally been Geminis that I've had this problem with. Have had Gemini women openly try to put me down or compete with me. However, I have experienced the bad sides of Pisces in my life. But nothing to do with jealousy.

Since Leo Suns and jealousy has come up, I have been very envious in the past of a few friends, and attempted to fit in by emulating similar styles, but more or less it was because they had things in their life that I really wanted for myself and such things had always evaded me. I never cut them down or put them down for attention they recieved, but I would be very depressive and b*tchy. It sounds awful or whatever, but hey... I learned from it, and my bitter level has decreased since then. I'm not perfect.

posted May 29, 2013 06:18 PM            

I don't really know any Scorpios..I think..well, besides my dad, lol. I really can't think of anyone @ all.

Ohh my best friend was a Scorpio! RIP. I don't think she was jealous of me @ all. Idk..her death is creepy, but I don't want to talk about it. I wasn't jealous of her either - I loved her .. She was the best! Like a twin to me.

There is another Scorpio girl that went to HS with me & I was a bit jealous of her, but I think the feeling was mutual. Se tried to befriend me, but I never gave her a chance because I thought she was stuck up. Lol..other than that I can't really think of anyone else.

Oh yeah, 5th grade friend who loved me, but feeling wasn't mutual. All the girls in the class had this massive crush on him, and the girls hated me for that.

M is Scorpio rising. He's obsessed with me..