|
Author
|
Topic: Scorp/Cancer mind games victim?
|
orocairion
Newflake Posts: 3
From:
Registered: May 2013
|
posted May 30, 2013 03:06 PM
  
Hello all, I'm new these boards and I was wondering if you could help a bit here, trying to understand someone.I've been interested in this girl for a while, and she is Leo sun mixed with Scorp Asc and Cancer moon. We have gone out a few times but lately she has gone hot and cold with me. We had a small argument a couple of weeks ago(triggered by me not paying full attention to her according to a friend of mine who is more female-savvy) where she completely ignored me no matter what I said or did. After 4 days of messaging her being faced with a wall of ice that puts The Wall of Game of Thrones to shame, I stopped all contact for almost a week, when she pretty much replied right as soon as I texted her. But she has been a bit on the iffy side with me lately, she replies sometimes and sometimes she doesn't or does it hours laters in a distant manner. So, I'm wondering how I could get on her good side again, or if I'm currently on a test to see if I won't mess up again... I could play the game, but if I do, its going to be horrible for both of us since I'm a Sag Sun/Pisces ASC/Aries moon with a Scorp Mars. So, any help is really apreciated!. P.S: sorry for the typos and few missing words that might have slipped by. IP: Logged |
its_aqua
Knowflake Posts: 371
From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012
|
posted May 30, 2013 03:31 PM
This doesnt have to do anything with scorpio/cancer it's all about her being a woman and a proud Leo.Leo women are very proud and want men to constantly show them that they are interested in them, but not because they are insecure but because they believe they deserve the best for themselves. So if you weren't paying her full attention, she is waiting for you to chase her, after all you're the guy and she's the woman IP: Logged |
Freesia
Knowflake Posts: 90
From:
Registered: Mar 2013
|
posted May 30, 2013 04:04 PM
its_aqua is completely right, I do agree. Games are probably just in your mind.IP: Logged |
orocairion
Newflake Posts: 3
From:
Registered: May 2013
|
posted May 30, 2013 05:36 PM
I see. Well, I was reading some of the threads about scorpio and cancer here and some of them seemed to fit her the way she acts at times.
How should I go about regaining her trust without looking needy/desperate?IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 628
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
|
posted May 30, 2013 05:41 PM
Just a warning: SOME Cancers WILL act detached and/or play games when they have lost interest or are not interested as much anymore.IP: Logged |
Freesia
Knowflake Posts: 90
From:
Registered: Mar 2013
|
posted May 31, 2013 09:17 AM
quote:
Originally posted by charlie:
Just a warning: SOME Cancers WILL act detached and/or play games when they have lost interest or are not interested as much anymore.
She is Leo Sun. She waits for attention from others. I don't think she does mind games. It does not exclude possibility of losing interest though. IP: Logged |
Freesia
Knowflake Posts: 90
From:
Registered: Mar 2013
|
posted May 31, 2013 09:27 AM
quote:
Originally posted by orocairion:
So, I'm wondering how I could get on her good side again, or if I'm currently on a test to see if I won't mess up again...
Do NOT ignore her. Ever. She is LEO, read more about leos. One of my good friends is a Leo girl, I think I know smtg about them.
Do not become needy. Just show her how much you like her, her style, hair, smile whatever. Ask her out to some expensive restaurant (if possible of cource) - to show that you think she is worth the money. And she must be the center of your attention. No phones or other girls around should steal your attention from her.
If you have not messed up allready and if she likes you then it should work for a start  Good luck anyway
IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 628
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
|
posted May 31, 2013 10:18 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Freesia:
She is Leo Sun. She waits for attention from others. I don't think she does mind games. It does not exclude possibility of losing interest though.
Ok. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 28440
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
|
posted May 31, 2013 12:51 PM
Welcome!IP: Logged |
orocairion
Newflake Posts: 3
From:
Registered: May 2013
|
posted June 01, 2013 04:07 PM
Thanks a lot for your replies. I've tried to pay more attention to her, though she is making it really difficult for me to bother, since she has been giving me the cold shoulder.
As for taking her out to expensive places and all that, I've done just that, including taking her to a Cirque Du Soleil(Dralion) show.But yeah, it seems she has lost interest :/ IP: Logged |
Lindaland
UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! 
