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Topic: Women who got married just to get married
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I'm so cappy
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From: Poland/Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 02, 2013 07:15 AM
  
Do you know such women? My mother is one of them. She's a Pisces sun and Virgo moon. Is it common for this combo?------------------
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Jessica2407
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posted June 02, 2013 08:11 AM
My mother is another one. Gemini sun, pisces ASC and Leo moon.All this time I was doing her chart with the wrong time of birth. DUH. She is actually a leo moon,and pisces ASC. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 1001
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posted June 02, 2013 08:33 AM
Unfortunately I don't know my mother's TOB. Are your parents still together?------------------
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Doux Rêve
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posted June 02, 2013 08:35 AM
"just to get married" - as in, societal pressure? or for security / financial reasons?I know earth influenced women (especially Taurus and Capricorn) can be quite rational about stuff like that and marry someone for money and whatnot.
I've also noticed that tendency in some Leo women, but definitely not all of them (generally, they're too into love to make cold decisions). Pisces can be very impressionable and tend to want to be saved / protected, so I can see how they could marry someone just for the sake of being married.
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 1001
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posted June 02, 2013 09:02 AM
quote:
"just to get married" - as in, societal
pressure? or for security / financial reasons?
Both, but more because of the latter. ------------------
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Jessica2407
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posted June 02, 2013 09:17 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Unfortunately I don't know my mother's TOB. Are your parents still together?
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 1001
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posted June 02, 2013 09:21 AM
Hmm. Mine still want to be stuck in their little bog.------------------
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Jessica2407
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posted June 02, 2013 09:23 AM
She wants me to do the same thing.IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 1001
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posted June 02, 2013 09:36 AM
You mean you want to get divorced?------------------
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Odette
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posted June 02, 2013 09:39 AM
This may be pure coincidence... but I know a bunch of Cancer-Gemini women who are in a relationship purely because they think they should be... usually not as serious as marriage though. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted June 02, 2013 09:47 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
You mean you want to get divorced?
I mean she wants me to get married just to get married. Just so she can say ''my daughter is getting married''
It's a little bit like getting yourself a bf just because everyone you know has one,and you start defining who you are by the fact that you don't have a bf.
Well my mother feels that something is wrong with me and that my life will be a total fiasco if I don't get myself a husband. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted June 02, 2013 09:55 AM
LoL Jessica - Your mum sounds like the opposite of my mum. My mum thinks my life will be a fiasco if I DO get a husband! IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 1001
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posted June 02, 2013 11:16 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I mean she wants me to get married just to get married. Just so she can say ''my daughter is getting married''
It's a little bit like getting yourself a bf just because everyone you know has one,and you start defining who you are by the fact that you don't have a bf.
Well my mother feels that something is wrong with me and that my life will be a total fiasco if I don't get myself a husband.
Eww :/ I hope you don't let her words get to you.
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Londongirl8
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From: London
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 03, 2013 04:56 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
LoL Jessica - Your mum sounds like the opposite of my mum. My mum thinks my life will be a fiasco if I DO get a husband!
That's funny!!! My mum knows that I never do things just because other people to them so she's over that fact that she'll probably never see me walk down the aisle- I'm Aqua and like to do things my way. IP: Logged |
Tofu addict
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posted June 03, 2013 05:52 AM
I'd say 99% of women get married because they want to be married. Nothing to do with astrology, just social pressure.IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 1001
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posted June 03, 2013 07:26 AM
A lot of women marry over the pressure someone they love. I want to discuss women who didn't and don't love the man they married. ------------------
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mockingbird
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posted June 03, 2013 07:47 AM
I don't think I've ever (knowingly) known someone like that.Gotten married because they were knocked up?
Sure.
But just to "be" married?
Nope. Maybe it's a regional/cultural thing. ------------------
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Kerosene
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posted June 03, 2013 09:22 AM
so did my mother...
Her mom was pressuring her to get married because thats what old people do.
So she married the first foreigner she met because she didn't want to be treated like a 2nd class citizen in her own country.Anyways her family fell in love with my dad anyways..
They're relationship is like "Don't tell me what to do, and we're good."
Gemini and Leo is not a bad combination, in theory. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 1001
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posted June 03, 2013 10:38 AM
Never mind.------------------
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