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Topic: How do you activate moon in Sagittarius?
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 4700 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 09, 2013 11:01 AM
How do you make Moon in Sagittarius care or like you?IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 3387 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 09, 2013 01:00 PM
Girl, you should know..You can't make anyone like you or care about you, especially when it comes to Sag. I think they like things that unfold naturally and don't like being forced or even "lured" into anything. They need to feel like it's their choice, otherwise if you push them they'll flee. Just be natural & funny, and let them be themselves, as well. If they can be themselves around you and feel comfortable, that's a big plus.
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Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 6730 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 09, 2013 01:15 PM
And leave the door open!If the door is open, they may never even think of walking through it. But closed doors are ... suffocating, making us restless etc. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 4700 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 09, 2013 01:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Girl, you should know..You can't make anyone like you or care about you, especially when it comes to Sag. I think they like things that unfold naturally and don't like being forced or even "lured" into anything. They need to feel like it's their choice, otherwise if you push them they'll flee. Just be natural & funny, and let them be themselves, as well. If they can be themselves around you and feel comfortable, that's a big plus.
That's a good point about letting things unfold naturally! I always forget that about Sag. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 2294 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted June 09, 2013 01:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: And leave the door open!If the door is open, they may never even think of walking through it. But closed doors are ... suffocating, making us restless etc.
as long as they don't JUST stand in the way! IP: Logged |
nove731 Knowflake Posts: 107 From: Washington, DC Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 09, 2013 01:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: I think they like things that unfold naturally and don't like being forced or even "lured" into anything. They need to feel like it's their choice, otherwise if you push them they'll flee. Just be natural & funny, and let them be themselves, as well. If they can be themselves around you and feel comfortable, that's a big plus.
Oh man, this is too true! Anything that feels forced or contrived is such a turn-off! ------------------ Sun -> Aries Moon -> Sagittarius Ascendant -> Virgo IP: Logged |
Hera Knowflake Posts: 5969 From: Aries fantasy land ^_^ Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 09, 2013 01:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Girl, you should know..You can't make anyone like you or care about you, especially when it comes to Sag. I think they like things that unfold naturally and don't like being forced or even "lured" into anything. They need to feel like it's their choice, otherwise if you push them they'll flee. Just be natural & funny, and let them be themselves, as well. If they can be themselves around you and feel comfortable, that's a big plus.
I am a Sag Mooner and this is 100% true. It is usually best if it's my initiative and I like things to be free-flowing, unrestrained and unplanned for the most part. Any type of ultimatum or restriction and you'll never hear the end of it. Oh, actually you will, when I slam the door behind me and never come back lol. (my Moon is in the Leo decanate lmao, I like a bit of drama hehehe) IP: Logged |
Hera Knowflake Posts: 5969 From: Aries fantasy land ^_^ Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 09, 2013 02:03 PM
To give you an example, there's a Libra dude wooing me since last October. I have never felt the spark, not really. Though he still messages me, wants to meet and etc, I still haven't done it and don't intend to. He was too insistent and I didn't like it. Also, on the only occasion we decided to meet, he chickened out. Nothing against all Libras out there, but the ones I have dealt with = spineless. You can't make us like you or want to be with you. But some helpful tips: -be adventurous and warm-hearted. Remember the epic novels' characters? Act like one, we like epic. Few people are epic nowadays, too many are so narrow, we don't like them much. -open minded, truly! -enjoy talking about travels, philosophy, faith, religion or metaphysics but don't be fixed in your opinions!! While I do appreciate you standing your ground, if I sense any amount of a dogmatic attitude, you lose points big time. It helps to have compatible Jupiters because Jup and all it represents is/are important for us. I didn't pursue a couple of relationships because I believed we had different (incompatible) beliefs about life (and stressful Jupiters). -be fun! make me laugh!!! -be spontaneous and go with the flow -if I say let's road trip 1000 km don't hesitate to say hell yeahhhh!!!! -be relaxed and laid back, natural IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 271 From: Portland, OR Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 09, 2013 02:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: How do you make Moon in Sagittarius care or like you?
If we get the slightest HINT that we're being led on, manipulated, played, lied to, or that you are not being yourself (by trying to impress us), it is a MAJOR turn off. We can't always handle 100% truth -- but we cannot stand dishonesty (even by omission) in any way. And yes, I agree with that "leave the door open" statement because any ultimatum or feeling that we are required to be on your timeline is bad too. It's not that we're selfish or that we're stringing you along. It takes us a little more time to feel "settled" with you. If we feel pressure to be at the same emotional/relationship level with someone else, it is awkward. Also, even while committed, don't try to cage us or control us. We won't leave you if you just let us be. I personally like to go out dancing (aka clubbin' lol). My partner doesn't. He allows that. My ex-hubby didn't (he was too jealous and was afraid of people hitting on me) and I hated him... it was so suffocating. I always came home & I've never cheated on anyone so I don't get the problem. I get very restless with too much routine which sucks for me because I have a Virgo sun so I am drawn to routine/comfort. I also get very restless without road trips. I *need* to travel. I don't have to have a destination... I will jump in the car and just go. So if you're up for a road trip, why don't you ask your moon in Sag friend along? ------------------ "Most people would rather be sheep and have company than stand out on their own with antlers on." — Tori Amos IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 271 From: Portland, OR Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 09, 2013 02:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Hera: -if I say let's road trip 1000 km don't hesitate to say hell yeahhhh!!!! -be relaxed and laid back, natural
I think we were typing at the same time!! =D ------------------ "Most people would rather be sheep and have company than stand out on their own with antlers on." — Tori Amos IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 4700 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 09, 2013 02:16 PM
Sounds pretty easy to keep a Sag moon around if all you have to do is be yourself and let them be! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 42484 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 09, 2013 02:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: How do you make Moon in Sagittarius care or like you?
Run away from them
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Geeky Knowflake Posts: 271 From: Portland, OR Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 09, 2013 02:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Sounds pretty easy to keep a Sag moon around if all you have to do is be yourself and let them be!
Yes. I believe we are TRULY the most easygoing & laid back people (unprovoked). ------------------ "Most people would rather be sheep and have company than stand out on their own with antlers on." — Tori Amos IP: Logged |