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Topic: How Patient Are you ?
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beckylee Knowflake Posts: 108 From: japan Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 09, 2013 07:34 PM
How patient are you with people you really like ? Will you forgive them a lot ? Rate yourself And what is your Sun sign ? I have Scorpio sun and I will get angry but if I like the person I will want to stay friends. I stayed friends with some ex boyfriends although I was super jealous because I adored their personalities. I can also be super cool with people who don't agree with me or who don't like me. I feel like they are totally free to speak their minds. I will only fight when someone disrespects me. IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 309 From: Portland, OR Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 09, 2013 08:07 PM
Virgo - I am patient with my kids & my partner. I put on face for everyone else but I really have no patience for most people. I get annoyed & aggravated very easily. ------------------ "Most people would rather be sheep and have company than stand out on their own with antlers on." — Tori Amos IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2058 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted June 09, 2013 08:08 PM
If it's a one-off problem.. I can forgive. But I'll watch them like a hawk. If it is behaviour that's ongoing... I'll be patient for a few months usually, maybe 3-4 months.. although I'll let them know through hints and sometimes directly *telling* them that I have a problem with their behaviour. If they don't change - I just walk. I draw a line and I'm done. I feel like anyone deserves a chance to change but if they can't or won't change - I definitely won't wait around for them. Sun - Aries/ Mars - Capricorn quote: I stayed friends with some ex boyfriends
I'm friends with most of my exes & not jealous. I've met only a handful of extra difficult people in my life - and those are the ones I avoid. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 1676 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 09, 2013 08:54 PM
I have so much Saturn in my chart BY ASPECT. It's really weird. It's not like it's strong by placement and I have no planets in Capricorn or Aquarius. I am not Capricorn or Aquarius ascending but I am Libra where Saturn is exalted so that could be a connection. People don't like to count exaltation when they talk about rising signs but it seems like they would count just as much as rulers, no? So you could sorta say Saturn rules my chart somewhat because of the exaltation in Libra, maybe.Anyway. the trine from Sun to Saturn suggests patience while the square to Venus suggests the opposite. So, sometimes I am, but not always. Look for Saturn and Capricorn, sometimes Libra for clues about patience. Saturn trine any personal planet or luminaries. Sextiles yes. Conjunctions, pending. IP: Logged |
starrystratosphere Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted June 09, 2013 09:46 PM
my whole heart is open to someone i really like.respect is imp though. if they disrespect me it shows i am waisting my time. and of course freindship can only be maintained with someone who respects or values it. gemini sun IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 4718 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 09, 2013 10:23 PM
I think I'm a super patient person for an Aries. That's why I get so irritated when people never bother hurrying up for my sake. In frustrating situations I really never lose my cool because there's no point. The only time I get impatient is when people take, take, take, without appreciation (even if they take and take, it's fine AS LONG AS THEY APPRECIATE IT!) My Sun, Mercury, and Venus are all square Saturn and Neptune though. Mars in the 12th. So I suppose I have some Capricorn and Pisces tendencies (Oh, Moon trine Neptune and Saturn too.) IP: Logged |
11nahyt Knowflake Posts: 737 From: the future Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 09, 2013 10:34 PM
The only patience I have is with a boyfriend- to an extent- and my dog.cause she's just an animal who doesn't know any better lol. With everyone else, I'm very impatient..I get annoyed/angry very easily..but then again, i feel like today more than ever, People seem to think its okay to be constantly innapropiate,inconsiderate, or "playfully" disrespectful to others, and they expect one is suppose to tolerate it. Lol I won't..On the other hand,for example, sometimes with "friendly" arguments..i try to act like it doesn't bug me when someone disagrees with me on something, to the point i sometimes wanna hit the person..but I know I'm just being petty lol. So I force myself to realize that and fall back (thank god for all the libra in my chart!).. I can overlook some petty things.. but any sign of disloyalty, lack of honesty with me, disrespect,lnconsiderate,will get you cut off immediately. I don't care who you are, family,friend. I refuse to keep someone in my life, whom I feel I couldn't trust, or expect full respect and loyalty from them..I don't forgive, because I don't forget... If I'm annoyed, I will most likely remove myself from what ever that is causing me to feel that way.I can go from annoyed to really angry and dramatic very fast. Soo yea I gotta avoid that lol. Sun/merc/mars conjunct in libra 7th house,. Which squares my Mc. And they form T-squares with saturn,Uranus,Neptune,Jupiter. IP: Logged |
DrewMann Knowflake Posts: 96 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted June 09, 2013 10:39 PM
I must be the most impatient man on earth. My colleagues at work often complain. Sun virgo opp mars pisces. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 2455 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 09, 2013 10:44 PM
I'm very patient and forgiving of people I like a lot & love, though it's a mistake to think I'm a doormat or won't call people on their behavior (especially if ongoing). I do believe my Libra sun (and other Libra placements) help in being more understanding (I at least try to see other points of view and desire harmony), and my Sag placements also help me "shake it off." IP: Logged |
pisces moon Knowflake Posts: 195 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 09, 2013 11:30 PM
I'm extremely patient. A few people have even called me a saint because of how patient I am. I don't like that because I am far from a saint and my well isn't limitless. And a lot of times I don't have much patience for a situation, or a person, but I don't say or do anything other than just bow out without any fanfare. When I'm more emotionally tied to a situation or person, and my patience does run out, it's not pretty. I blow up and I am pretty mean and cruel with the words when that happens. But no one ever blames me for it, because they would have lost their **** way before, that's what they tell me anyway. I'm virgo sun conjunct Jupiter in the 5th, Taurus rising, Saturn aries in the 12th, Mercury venus conjunct in libra in the sixth house. IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety Knowflake Posts: 643 From: Under the Sea Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 10, 2013 01:22 AM
Hmm.. In all honesty, It depends of the situation. I think I used to be more patient when I was younger, now, i'm not. I reached to a point where i'm like "So I just have to be patient, understanding and forgiving with people when no one even tries to be patient with me? No, screw it. There's only so much a person can take. I have my own problems that I have to be patient towards. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 2462 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 10, 2013 02:07 AM
I have zero patience in most situations. Yeah I'm known to suddenly leave when I'm cheesed. I ain't got time for bs. Call me when you have your **** together. I never stay angry thou for more than 1 hour. People know not to come at me, because I'll ruin your whole night, Idk It just leaves everyone in a sour mood muahaha I'm known to make dramatic exits.. with drinks flying everywhere.. Ironically people still invite me out because I'm the best person party with. They just leave their annoying friends at home. Mars in aries square uranus is probably the culprit. IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon Knowflake Posts: 135 From: Atlanta. Georgia, United States Registered: Jan 2013
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posted June 10, 2013 08:57 PM
I really patient unless people are playing games with me, or if I have to wait on someone who is taking their sweet time.Mars in Aries in the 1st house square Saturn in Capricorn is the culprit, no doubt. Cancer Sun. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 1281 From: walking with my head in the clouds! Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 10, 2013 11:02 PM
Scorpio SunI am fastidious and precise, but impatient and reckless too...a cool rage easily burns up, but I can restrain myself and let it fizzle out too. As a kid...not so much! It's funny too because I can be soooo impatient with people I deem gross or have a poor image, and people usually back me! Like calling out some awkward annoying person and then later everyone laughs and they're like "wHOA YOU SAID WHAT..." IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6762 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 10, 2013 11:11 PM
Taurus moon. I can be extremely patient ( or stubborn lmao) most of the time. but if I'm on the warpath its best not to test me.IP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 1715 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 12, 2013 09:30 AM
With family and friends it depends, normally ive been the one who has to seek dialogue and be diplomatic, te one who always does the compromising. Now im having a hard time trying to get across the simple message that its slightly unnatural that I should be the only oneFor the right lover I tend to put myself in rails and forgive everything. But they have to pay if they do me wrong Neptune/Pluto pendulum is what it is ------------------ Mercury in Sagi, I will say whatever I feel like and no accusations will be accepted IP: Logged |
SDragon Knowflake Posts: 60 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Sep 2012
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posted June 12, 2013 08:16 PM
I can be very patient, unless I don't think the other person is trying to listen to what I'm trying to tell them or teach them. Then I just kind of go cold shoulder.Taurus Sun, Venus, Mars, Mercury Stellium. IP: Logged |
geea Knowflake Posts: 373 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted June 15, 2013 05:50 PM
usually not, but if its in my best interest i can be extremely patient, i can always count on my cappy/scorpy planets. Depends on the situation. *libra sunexample: i recently met a crazy hysterical woman who happens to be someone that will decide the future of some documents i need. I have to put with her 23456 until i get those files. It is something i usually dont accept from just anyone but when its in your best interest you have to keep quiet and wait. IP: Logged |