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Topic: How can I trust Gemini?
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goatcat Knowflake Posts: 917 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 10, 2013 01:15 PM
Geminis have the ability to adjust their personality in any given situation. I don't know when to take them seriously, and I don't know when to brush it off like, "oh they're just being a Gemini".IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety Knowflake Posts: 641 From: Under the Sea Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 10, 2013 01:28 PM
Oh lord.. Gemini's are impossible. I don't mean to dump them all into one category but really, I think you should just be very firm when dealing with them. Don't be too nice with them, even if they "switch" to being so friendly. When they "Switch on" their dual personality, remain the way you are. If you were for example mad at them for being umm.. dual with you then stay that way. So he or she can understand that they can't pull that type of ******** on you. Oh and also.. NEVER EVER BRUSH IT OFF! Take it from someone who has spent a year and a half in hell dealing with a very fickle gemini. (At first, I brushed it off until I just couldn't anymore and eventually blew up in his face). IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 10, 2013 01:30 PM
It is pretty annoying. Just ignore them.------------------ Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp) Cancer asc 1st Taurus moon 11th Taurus venus 11th Libra mars 3rd Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
orocairion Newflake Posts: 7 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted June 10, 2013 01:34 PM
My best friend is a Gemini. Their duality will depend on how much they trust you and whether they like you or not.If they don't like you, they won't make much of an attempt to hide it from you unless they have to, be it for social reasons or need to get something out from you. And even then, they'll make it obvious enough they don't really apreciate you and are only tolerating your presence, so to speak. IP: Logged |
mockingbird Knowflake Posts: 1732 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted June 10, 2013 01:48 PM
Hm.I know that there will be some that disagree with this, but (in my experience), you've gotten to the "real" Gemini when they can be alone and silent with you (even if the silence is relatively short lived and bookended or interspersed with conversation). Beyond that... ...Dunno. With the Geminis in my life, I just enjoy watching all of the different hats they can put on. I don't so much see personality shifts as very thorough role shifts - there's still the core "them" there, but they can so adroitly morph into different characters that I can't help but be amused and amazed. Bless their little pixie hearts Maybe that's the Pisces in me, though. ------------------ If I've included this sig, it's because I'm posting from a mobile device. Please excuse all outrageous typos and confusing auto-corrects. IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 917 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 10, 2013 01:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by mockingbird: Hm.I know that there will be some that disagree with this, but (in my experience), you've gotten to the "real" Gemini when they can be alone and silent with you (even if the silence is relatively short lived and bookended or interspersed with conversation). Beyond that... ...Dunno.
Makes sense. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 3535 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 10, 2013 02:30 PM
You can't.IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 2414 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 10, 2013 02:33 PM
I was about to say the same thing pfft.IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 917 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 10, 2013 02:58 PM
Oh wow...IP: Logged |
mockingbird Knowflake Posts: 1732 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted June 10, 2013 03:09 PM
Aw, poor Gemmies ------------------ If I've included this sig, it's because I'm posting from a mobile device. Please excuse all outrageous typos and confusing auto-corrects. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 2414 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 10, 2013 03:21 PM
I'm a gemini and it does not bother me. I hate when people take me seriously, because I'm joking or being sarcastic 80 percent of the time.The problem is people don't understand us because we're so convincing and we can infinitely stupid things with a straight face. Also I don't like when people get all intimate and personal. Go to your scorpio/pisces friends for a heart to heart. Come to us for a good time, we'll show you awesome things you never heard of IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 2414 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 10, 2013 03:39 PM
This morning my sister showed me a average funny video of a baby laughing and I explained to her posting babies online is sick exploitationShe was like so confused. I made up all this bs about how pedos have a fetish for infants laughing. (which could be possibly true, who knows with sick people..) Since a child's laughter is the is the most innocent expression of humanity. She was like kinda freaking out and confused. She had to deal with stuff like this for 21 years, she still takes me seriously. That's how convincing we are. IP: Logged |
mockingbird Knowflake Posts: 1732 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted June 10, 2013 04:02 PM
Yeah...I dunno, though. Maybe I'm not fun enough to fool. The Geminis in my life always seem to let me in on their jokes. Kind of a, "Hey! Watch this!" ------------------ If I've included this sig, it's because I'm posting from a mobile device. Please excuse all outrageous typos and confusing auto-corrects. IP: Logged |
mockingbird Knowflake Posts: 1732 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted June 10, 2013 04:08 PM
Though I guess I'd not know any better if they didn't say anything.I'm pretty gullible. ------------------ If I've included this sig, it's because I'm posting from a mobile device. Please excuse all outrageous typos and confusing auto-corrects. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6899 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 10, 2013 04:49 PM
I haven't experienced that with geminis. Just jerks/assoholes. HahahahaI usually like geminis. I feel like I can trust them, I don't know why. They have always been very honest with me. Then I've met two or three geminis who had an iffy feeling about them...I didn't trust them, and turned out to be right. So not all geminis are sneaky in that bad way that astro always talks about There are a ton of honest geminis. In fact most i've met are honest. It's just that they like having fun first and foremost, and some don't have the conscience to stop themselves from having fun at someone else's expense. But the honest ones are honest AND fun...no tricks no games.
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Hera Knowflake Posts: 6016 From: Aries fantasy land ^_^ Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 10, 2013 05:25 PM
I guess I've only dealt with the more serious/stable Geminis. I've dated a couple and they seemed trust-worthy. But the regular Gems idk. I do like their versatility though. But the shallowness gets to me. Thank goodness I didn't have to deal with the shallow ones. Phew!!IP: Logged |
7thGuardian Knowflake Posts: 912 From: Transylvania Registered: May 2012
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posted June 10, 2013 05:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by mockingbird: Hm.I know that there will be some that disagree with this, but (in my experience), you've gotten to the "real" Gemini when they can be alone and silent with you (even if the silence is relatively short lived and bookended or interspersed with conversation). Beyond that... ...Dunno. With the Geminis in my life, I just enjoy watching all of the different hats they can put on. I don't so much see personality shifts as very thorough role shifts - there's still the core "them" there, but they can so adroitly morph into different characters that I can't help but be amused and amazed. Bless their little pixie hearts Maybe that's the Pisces in me, though.
Spot on! ^^ Bravo! I must admit - I'm impressed. I spent some time around this forum - and I've seen a lot of topics about Geminis - where they come of us being misunderstood (Gemini is probbaly the most misunderstood sign of the zodiac - for opposite reasons compared to the next in line), but - you're one of the few that actually gets it - one of the few that understands this part about Geminis and appreciates them for what they are. What can I say - that Gemini is one of the lucky ones... if he felt in love with someone - that loves him and can accept him for who he is (a mutual understanding/acceptance - I presume). Congratulations. ^^ ===
The things is - Geminis are easy to like at first, but - "most seem to take the early encounters with a Gemini - as some kind of act" and they keep waiting for "some kind of serious person - to emerge at some point". There is such person "in there" - and maybe they've witnessed that as well - but, that's just the other side of a Gemini... he can't keep it constant (like a Taurus - for example)... "unless he's depressed". A Gemini shifts between roles "naturally" - behaving how he sees fit based on any given situation. One part of his inner core has the vitality and the tendencies of a 7 year old (action oriented - likes to explore the world, to have fun) - while the other part acts more like 49 years old (for most part - it's related to mental activities). So yes... when a Gemini it's depressed - he comes of as being to serious (all the time) - as the other side of his inner-core is blocked... which is also the source of his vitality - of his youth looking features. Though when a Gemini is depressed - he looks older than his actual age. If you love a Gemini - you'd be cruel to expect him to stick to his serious side... cause he can force it - his adaptability allows him that... but doing that you'd loose him - as, nobody can live a life where he's not true to himself. IP: Logged |
iliketurtles Knowflake Posts: 167 From: 2099 Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 10, 2013 06:39 PM
my moon is in the 3rd. i had two female childhood best friends, both geminis. got along like a house on fire..didn't even notice a personality change in *them*. guys on the other hand, had a long lasting crush on a dude i went to high school. i really liked him but he could, at times, be a bit cold and moody but i think that had more to do with his moon or asc; on a personality level we got on really well. it never worked out because i would turn into a ***** everytime he went quiet on me i hated it. as i said, it had more to do with mood than how he wanted to express himself. my cousin (also one of ex-crushes bff's) a gemini too. something was off there as well. the same thing as before, minus the attraction. one thing i should say too is that we had different a sense of humour. i was much sillier than those two but they were still fun to be around regardlessIP: Logged |
Jkitty Knowflake Posts: 508 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted June 10, 2013 06:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by mockingbird: Hm.I know that there will be some that disagree with this, but (in my experience), you've gotten to the "real" Gemini when they can be alone and silent with you (even if the silence is relatively short lived and bookended or interspersed with conversation). Beyond that... ...Dunno. With the Geminis in my life, I just enjoy watching all of the different hats they can put on. I don't so much see personality shifts as very thorough role shifts - there's still the core "them" there, but they can so adroitly morph into different characters that I can't help but be amused and amazed. Bless their little pixie hearts Maybe that's the Pisces in me, though.
THIS! I've got a Gem Bro-In-Law who's a practicing trial lawyer. Haven't seen him in action in a court room, but from what I've experienced of him personally, he's really quite amazing at morphing and impersonations. I bet he's fabulous in a court room. IP: Logged |
Jkitty Knowflake Posts: 508 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted June 10, 2013 06:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: This morning my sister showed me a average funny video of a baby laughing and I explained to her posting babies online is sick exploitationShe was like so confused. I made up all this bs about how pedos have a fetish for infants laughing. (which could be possibly true, who knows with sick people..) Since a child's laughter is the is the most innocent expression of humanity. She was like kinda freaking out and confused. She had to deal with stuff like this for 21 years, she still takes me seriously. That's how convincing we are.
LMAO! IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 603 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 10, 2013 08:48 PM
i think it depends on other placements. i know a gemini rising/sun guy but his scorpio moon makes him 100% trustworthyIP: Logged |
CatMote Knowflake Posts: 179 From: New Britain, CT, United States Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 11, 2013 09:47 AM
my water dominant self and moon trine pluto usually keeps gems at a distance. i cant stand when people are afraid to get deep or get into the emotional side of human life. after all, its all part of the human experience. ive learned to accept when they are being part of their "dual" nature. i realize, that being "dual" is actually who they are. and if you cant accept a person for who they are then you really arent their friend. ------------------ Sun Aries Moon Pisces Mars Pisces Venus Pisces Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Portland, OR Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 11, 2013 10:00 AM
How do you trust anyone? It's almost like a religion... requiring faith in something you cannot see.A better question is - How do you want to live your life? In constant worry or fear? And over what, really? Sun signs? Placements? I've personally not known a cheating Gemini. Sometimes a 'silly, goofball who enjoys exaggerating' and the 'strong communicator' who simply loves chatting. Everybody (regardless of sun sign) has their thing. Is it a weakness or something unique? It's all about what you make of it and controlling how you react to those people/situations. ------------------ "Most people would rather be sheep and have company than stand out on their own with antlers on." — Tori Amos IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Portland, OR Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 11, 2013 10:02 AM
sorry double postIP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 917 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 11, 2013 10:12 AM
I should have called this post, "I Don't Know how to Take Gemini Seriously"Cuz that's all it is. IP: Logged |