chattyfishy Newflake Posts: 1 From: New York, NY Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 11, 2013 03:28 PM
Hello! I have a question regarding the weight of synastry vs composite in a relationship. My boyfriend and I have a pretty harmonious synastry (with obviously some hard aspects as well, like my venus opposes his mars for example), but overall it seems pretty nice. Communication is there, we understand each other emotionally, conflict is resolved quickly, etc, etc. However, when I do a composite chart it indicates that our relationship will be very challenging in terms of egos and differing view points (which I am ok with because I think this is something you can work around and also if you always agreed you would eventually lose interest). But, one of the major recurring themes in the composite indicates that we idealize each other and not be very realistic about our relationships (which we kind of are not). If we were to get past the unrealistic part (something we are actively working towards and I can explain further if requested) how likely would it be that the composite would hold true? Is the composite just a representation of what could come to be if we are not cognizant of the way we perceive each other and/or is it just a representation of how outsiders view our relationship?Me (female): Sun - Pisces Moon - Gemini Mercury - Aquarius Mars - Libra Venus - Capricorn Jupiter - Scorpio Saturn - Libra Uranus - Sagittarius Neptune - Sagittarius Pluto - Libra Ascendant - Capricorn Him: Sun - Pisces Moon - Aquarius Mercury - Pisces Venus - Pisces Mars - Cancer Jupiter - Gemini Saturn - Leo Uranus - Scorpio Neptune - Sagittarius Pluto - Libra Ascendant - Aries I think astrology is an interesting tool to understand where each other are coming from and I know that is is not the end all be all, but am just very curious about the composite chart and how much that would end up affecting our relationship. Any insight is appreciated! 
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