posted June 11, 2013 08:57 PM            

my husband is king of cool which sometimes can be annoying. cappy venus, and that darn aquarius moon! which opposes my leo moon and can be absolutely annoying. he never reacts. also, he has Saturn in the 12th house which may be a contributing factor.

posted June 11, 2013 10:36 PM            

I have my Mars square my husband's Mars... I prefer the square over the opposition. ~__~ 10x better. (my reasoning, the oppositions can be scary and tedious. the square leaves you with little other option than to negotiate, which means communication is invaluable if you want to make it work/last.)

My temper, my mood, are night and day to my husband's... but we do share the centaur-influenced "easy-going" nature. But, my emotions are cut off at a point, where his explode from out of nowhere... when/if, I ever do get really peeved... I seethe in silence and he flails all over lashing at everything indiscriminately (as in he's the type to throw things, and act on his aggression)... That is Jupiter-Moon vs Saturn opp Moon. I'm no saint in my angered state, Mars cnj Pluto (tight, 3h Scorpio)... the worst that can happen is that some poor fool would keep badgering me, the worst thing for them is Mercury sxt Mars-Pluto (tight)... I haven't known too many Mars cnj Pluto natals, but those I do seem to all share that unassuming power, that can turn into rage during tense (long endured) situations. I know I have a sharp tongue, but I've learned to say only what I will not regret later... contrary to those who spew out everything and the kitchen sink when they are caught in the heat of a moment. I don't enjoy displaying anger, so I don't allow myself to get angry. I despise fits of aggression from others and myself. I don't look kindly on those who can't control their tempers (emotions). My ex was that way, my mother was that way, and my brother is that way. Again, Saturn-Moon~ though it is wide in my chart, it makes a huge impact, being the only actual major harsh aspect I have and it of course involves an exalted Moon (Cap decan/Aqua duad) to Sun/ASC ruler no less. But, I am genuinely more Mercurial-Jovian... It really is a waste of energy and effort to be caught up in some negative emotion, be it sadness, fear, or anger. I'd rather be happy, enthusiastic, and grateful for each moment, even those truly sucky ones, even the unimpressive "boring" ones (you know the ones, on those days that seem to drag on endlessly and you just want to crawl into bed until the weekend comes, or Christmas, whichever). haha! XD (*Venus in Sagittarius... shut up!*) *blinks*

Husband's Moon-Jupiter opposing my Moon (again Chirons there too, aye) which usually amounts to a lot of unwanted teasing that gets taken too far, dealt out from his end. ~__~; learning to deal with opposing moons... yeah, I've had enough experience with this one... no biggy anymore. =) hah

posted June 11, 2013 11:21 PM            

I also have Pluto sextile my Ascendant and Saturn (Capricorn/4th) trine my Ascendant, which probably helps. Mercury (chart ruler) is in the 8th (Taurus), opposite Pluto and trine Uranus (also in Capricorn/4th). Even when I do explode, it's very contained. At no point does it come close to matching my actual levels of anger. No throwing objects or breaking things, here!

posted June 12, 2013 12:31 AM            

Taurus placements, Mars in 12th don’t get angry easily but once they get angry you must run for the hills.

Mars-Saturn are the best at controlling anger. Mars in positive aspect to Pluto may also help in controlling anger. I wouldn’t expect a person with Mars in hard aspect to Pluto to be able to control anger though unless they are really really evolved, too much tension there.

posted June 12, 2013 12:42 AM            

My mom is one person who can really bring my temper out.

posted June 12, 2013 07:28 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Mars-Saturn, Taurus Moon and Mars, Mars-Neptune, Mars in 12th?? thats all I know.

Taurus placements, Mars in 12th don’t get angry easily but once they get angry you must run for the hills.

Mars-Saturn are the best at controlling anger. Mars in positive aspect to Pluto may also help in controlling anger. I wouldn’t expect a person with Mars in hard aspect to Pluto to be able to control anger though unless they are really really evolved, too much tension there.

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Is mars inconjunct pluto a positive aspect?

posted June 12, 2013 10:05 AM            

I usually try to control anger, but I fail in it. Even if I didn't explode this time I still show somekind of signs of anger.
I could be cold and rude.

posted June 12, 2013 10:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Is mars inconjunct pluto a positive aspect?

I have mars sq neptune exact.

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posted June 12, 2013 10:10 AM            

I get angry very easily.

Anger management?

posted June 12, 2013 11:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
It takes me long but when i blow up yikes. I turn into a psycho demon monster.

My mom is one person who can really bring my temper out.

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Same here.
Especially the mother part.
Moon/Mars.

Other than that, I'm not easily angered at all. Very chill (I do get excited/hyperactive but not angry).

Mars/Pluto square Saturn.

posted June 12, 2013 11:32 AM            

My sister on the other hand has strong earthy placements-- a Pisces sun, Taurus moon and Virgo asc. I guess her Cancer mars also makes her very passive and not prone to anger outbursts.

posted June 12, 2013 05:59 PM            

Well, my family often get on my nerves and sometimes I raise my voice for a moment and crush them verbally but that doesn't count since they deserve it

I can't imagine myself yelling, throwing things, beating someone (unless it's self-defence) etc, and I don't tolerate such behaviour in others.

Taurus Mars trine Saturn, Libra moon probably helps too.