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Newflake

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posted June 12, 2013 10:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for liquidate     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote


him (the aqua sun/blue) ---- me (virgo sun)

in order of strength/closeness:

pluto / nn conjunct ascendant
pluto / nn opposite mars / vesta
chiron conjunct sun
jupiter / midheaven conjunct pluto
uranus / neptune trine mercury
sun / venus opposite venus
ascendant sextile ascendant
saturn square mars / vesta
mercury sextile moon / uranus
moon trine sun
moon sextile pluto
moon trine chiron
midheaven conjunct sun
mars inconjunct/quincunx sun
chiron inconjunct/quincunx nn

ascendant widely opposes chiron

I have a hard time understanding composites, but here, in case that might help:

I'm having a really hard time with this kid. we used to talk all the time, we met once and he was really shakey and nervous and we kept following each other around and kept getting as close as possible. it was at a show he was performing at (which he made a big deal about that show but not any shows since, and has actually complained about shows he's played since then)... any reason to whisper in each other's ears or touch... but over time we've stopped talking. before, I was the one that initiates conversation and he tends to drop off randomly and then apologizes later once I try to pick the conversation back up (this was after the initial time where he would actually text me good morning and call me after midnight). we both had admitted to being attracted and crushing on each other. one time I tried to sever ties and told him, and he got angry and told me never to do that again. we follow each other on every social networking place we can but still do not speak directly. it's been like this for a couple months now. this whole thing has been lasting since January.
everywhere I look, since we met in person, he's stopped advertising that he's single. there is nothing that even gets close to suggesting he is seeing anyone. he indirectly responds to me in very particular and peculiar ways that are obvious to me, such as one time I wrote a little 3-lined piece of poetry that was describing us and immediately after he made a short video and took a picture that literally interpreted what I wrote. things like that.
one time he told me that if I was around him while he was drunk he would probably fall all over me and tell me that he was in love with me. (what the..?)
I don't know, it's very strange and I can't stop with him and it's bugging me. I don't know what to do because we don't talk but we don't see anyone else either.

by the way, we both have venus strongly square pluto in our natal charts.

I'm deeply in love with this kid but it's beyond frustrating. I refuse to try to talk to him again but we still hold indirect conversations everywhere available.

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Newflake

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posted June 12, 2013 10:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for liquidate     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
from what I gather on aspects is basically that in a past life we were lovers but... something violent and abusive in how I was with him..?
but I feel none of that now... over time the occasional flare-ups have died out and I just really miss him in general. he said he missed me too but we never picked back up after that.

he said I could always talk to him about anything, but I'm too afraid/prideful to try now.

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Knowflake

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posted June 13, 2013 12:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He has lots of planets in Aquarius. Run for ur life.

Those men are complicated weirdos.

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posted June 13, 2013 12:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12thhouser     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
He has lots of planets in Aquarius. Run for ur life.

Those men are complicated weirdos.


lol, oh, I'd love to hear more.

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Newflake

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posted June 13, 2013 01:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for liquidate     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
just the 3. I seem to deal with a lot of venus+mars in aquarius types anyways. we tend to get along, just in a very fickle sort of way.

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