posted June 15, 2013 06:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Probably a ***** who is verbally abusive at times.

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How exactly? like a sort of know-it-all?

posted June 15, 2013 07:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Actually i havent lol!!!

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posted June 15, 2013 07:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Is this your natal aspect?

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Nope....Just wanted to know how this aspect works...... I know someone with this aspect but we haven't interacted much..

posted June 15, 2013 04:25 PM            

I have to watch the WAY I say things. I often come off as very snappy and I've been called a smart4ss all my life.

posted June 15, 2013 04:34 PM            

"You might often find yourself stirring up controversy with what you say, or how you say it."

"You love a good debate, but sometimes conversations that needn't be stressful into arguments."

"Impatience, especially while driving or operating machinery, could lead to accidents."

posted June 16, 2013 12:03 AM            

From the little I've read, I have seen that the difference is more that Mars Mercury oppositions incline people to just rub others the wrong way; it's external and they don't have all that much control over how people will respond to them. Squares, being more internal, are harder to deal with but more under the person's control, I think. Just some speculation...

Mars being retrograde is important to notice, too, since that might mean a bit more seething or passive aggression rather than just airing grievances and being forthright.

Eh, just thought I'd jump in a bit!

posted June 16, 2013 12:50 AM            

I do come off aggressive in the things that I say very often (unintentionally), but I don't think it helps matters any that I have Aquarius Mercury/Leo Mars. I think brash would be the perfect word to describe how I can act sometimes.

posted June 16, 2013 01:32 AM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
I have this natal aspect. Mercury in Cancer retrograde opposite Mercury in Capricorn.

I have to watch the WAY I say things. I often come off as very snappy and I've been called a smart4ss all my life.

With my Mercury being retrograde, if I have something to say or express I must express it then and there or my Mars vs Mercury will be explosive times ten.

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Thanks a lot for replying

posted June 16, 2013 01:37 AM            

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Originally posted by ScatterShock:
I think Goatcat said it best. This is the impression these peeps give off, even if it's not necessarily how they actually mean to come off, versus us Mars Square Mercury types who may actually be inclined to communicate sharply or with vigor and have to actively work with ourselves not to do it. It's funny that this square isn't so present in my behavior since my Mars is in Cancer, but I imagine that if he weren't, I'd probably come off a lot sharper when angry!

From the little I've read, I have seen that the difference is more that Mars Mercury oppositions incline people to just rub others the wrong way; it's external and they don't have all that much control over how people will respond to them. Squares, being more internal, are harder to deal with but more under the person's control, I think. Just some speculation...

Mars being retrograde is important to notice, too, since that might mean a bit more seething or passive aggression rather than just airing grievances and being forthright.

Eh, just thought I'd jump in a bit!

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Looks like mercury-mars hard aspects are a really Sad aspect to have.....

posted June 16, 2013 04:23 AM            

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Originally posted by earthypisces:
What signs are the planets in? I have this (although the orb is somewhat wide, about 9 degrees), but I can still feel it and everyone thinks the description fits me perfectly. My Mars is retrograde too.

I do come off aggressive in the things that I say very often (unintentionally), but I don't think it helps matters any that I have Aquarius Mercury/Leo Mars. I think brash would be the perfect word to describe how I can act sometimes.

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Mercury in Gemini and Mars retro in Sagittarius...opposing EXACT. Plus this is in the 1st house-7th house axis...and mercury (ASC ruler) is in the 1st....So maybe this involves a strong Ego too?

posted June 16, 2013 05:39 AM            

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Originally posted by waitingforyou:
Thanks a lot for replying

Do you feel that this aspect is not in your control? And after saying something, do you regret having said it or the way it was said?

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That's a good question, and actually I do! A lot of the stuff I say seems unintentionally and overly blunt. I can be a little overly opinionated at times and not really fully process my thoughts before speaking. So yes, I very often regret the way I say things.

posted June 17, 2013 01:56 AM            

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Originally posted by waitingforyou:
Thanks a lot for replying

Do you feel that this aspect is not in your control? And after saying something, do you regret having said it or the way it was said?

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