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somethingexcellent
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posted June 19, 2013 05:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A romantic relationship. State your Venus, Mars, and Moon.

I am very free and love to do things with my partner. Definitely playful and affectionate when in private, but in social settings, I prefer to keep things cool and keep them at a comfortable distance. I don't like to show much vulnerability, but I am often attracted to vulnerability in a person. I am a bit demanding and selfish, truth be told. I am often the instigator in a relationship too.

All in all, I love fun over maturity, privacy over publicity, and can burn through people somewhat quickly - I can be all over my paramour but then turn on them unexpectedly if they give me enough reason to.

I am Scorpio, Leo, and Aquarius in that order. Venus/Moon are tightly square.

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Jessica2407
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posted June 19, 2013 06:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I love privacy over publicity too. I love fun over maturity too except nobody would have guessed not until they really know me.I can be unbelievably childish

I like to surprise the other person with things I know he loves or I would cook him his favorite dish.

I can be very demanding,quite self centered at the same time. Just something I know I have to work on.

leo venus,sun,mercury and saturn.

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12muddy
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posted June 19, 2013 06:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
12th house Capricorn venus, 4th house Taurus mars and 3rd house Aries moon.

I’m affectionate, perhaps a little too much sometimes but I make sure that I don’t hog all of his time and that he has time to do what he likes. I tease and poke fun, so someone with a gigantic ego isn’t the ideal partner. I expect my partner to take lovers' quarrels lightly. Don’t want someone whose feathers are easily ruffled.

“A woman’s heart is a deep sea of secrets”. I’m complicated and my past is rather colourful, but I also like honesty in a romantic relationship. Often I try to tell my partner as much as possible. It is difficult coz normally I like to keep things light, so telling my secrets feels a bit like pouring water over a bonfire. It takes time to see all the different sides of me.

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meissieri
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posted June 19, 2013 06:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meissieri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol I'm the complete opposite from you both, if someone doesn't want to be public with me, I get soooo turned off! Not talking about hardcore making out in front of others, but even stuff like holding hands or a quick kiss. And I think it's so cool when people can call me something affectionate )especially playfully/in some play banter) with others there, shows confidence <3 Makes me feel so special~

That said, I do like some space. If someone's super busy with work or has personal problems on their mind, I'm happy to step back and give them time to work things through; I make sure they can come to me for support (especially moral) when they need it, etc. But I do want to be able to count on them when I'm going through a tough time. Someone ditching me when I need them is a no and often kills the relationship for me. Sadly, I've had to learn this from experience.

How I'm perceived depends on the person I'm dating. Me and air dominants don't go well together, yet I'm always super attracted to them (I'm an air void). I've driven some of them nuts with my strong emotions and clinginess.

Long-term and stability is quite nom too. And lots and lots of physical action . There's a reason I have Taurus on my 8th house cusp.

My dominants are Capricorn, Cancer & Virgo, a good dash of Neptune, plus a honourable mention for my Leo sun square Pluto in Scorpio.

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Doux Rêve
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posted June 19, 2013 06:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Complicated.

Way too complicated.

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posted June 19, 2013 07:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by meissieri:
if someone doesn't want to be public with me, I get soooo turned off! Not talking about hardcore making out in front of others, but even stuff like holding hands or a quick kiss. And I think it's so cool when people can call me something affectionate )especially playfully/in some play banter) with others there, shows confidence <3 Makes me feel so special~

This.

Hi Rie, how are you ?

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Orange
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posted June 19, 2013 08:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ultra possesive, dominant or submissive - depends how much I like them, highly sexual, elusive
Venus in Libra 8th house, Mars in Leo

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posted June 19, 2013 09:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meyray     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
At first I am very flirty and playful. I’ve been called a “coquette” several times. I love the stage before a relationship – the courtship you could say.

When I form a relationship things turn around. I become very serious and any kind of frivolity is looked down upon. I’m very loyal and very private. I don’t like my relationship to be in the public eye. I’m strictly against public displays of affection. I try to be fair and give my partner the space he needs. Communication and emotional bonding are very important to me. Intellectual understanding is my strongest feat – I can talk about and discuss any topic and will always listen and give advice if needed.

My downfall is intimacy. I’m very distrustful and it’s very hard for me to open up (especially sexually). I’m too cautious and at times may seem like I’m pushing the other person away. This gets the best of me and when the relationship forms it starts feeling like a burden. In the past I felt it was my duty to stay in the relationship out of loyalty but I’ve learned that this is debilitating and I should not stay in a relationship if I don’t want to.

I’m still young and there are a lot of things for me to learn but so far my behavior in romantic relationships has been counterproductive to my happiness.

Scorpio Moon (6H)
Scorpio Venus (6H)
Leo Mars (4H)

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posted June 19, 2013 09:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Complicated.

Way too complicated.


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meyray
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posted June 19, 2013 09:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meyray     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Complicated.

Way too complicated.



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meissieri
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posted June 19, 2013 09:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meissieri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by 12muddy:
This.

Hi Rie, how are you ?


Hey! Back again? I'm okay, recovering from surgery. How about you?

... And I totally forgot to mention the honesty thing in your post, haha. I put my heart into it, so I don't want my emotions to be toyed with. Once I get attached, I need to know where I stand with my guy.

And also forgot to add: my moon's in Capricorn, 4th house; Venus in Virgo, 12th house; Mars in Virgo, 11th house conjunct Mercury. Moon trines all three of them.

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posted June 19, 2013 01:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
super fun/outgoing and friendly, and polite. inventive about dates and activities. the partner is a friend first and a partner second. want to talk with my partner 24/7. and rather jealous at times - libra sun and mars, virgo venus, and scorp asc.

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posted June 19, 2013 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for unforgiven_soul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpio Moon (8H)

I am very affectionate and warm with my partner, and my Moon moto is all or nothing!

Aquarius Venus (12H)

I love my freedom of action and thought, I need my partner to be both a lover and a friend.

Libra Mars (7H)

I prefer men with good appearances, good manners, clever and a huge sense of humor. Being funny is a great evidence of intelligence!

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I get very suspicious actually, and it's hard for me to trust. I suppose that is one of my karmic lessons in life! (Sun, Mercury, Venus square Saturn and Neptune, Moon trine Saturn and Neptune but Moon also opposition Pluto.)

I am actually genuine in the beginning of the relationship and as time progresses I start to withdraw. I guess it's a manipulation tactic, a test I do to see how much they actually like me. So far no one has come running begging for my attention, so I should probably stop doing that. I tend to love my partner deeply but have trouble expressing that, or end up with people who aren't comfortable with that kind of expression (seems perfect, right? Oy.) I like our relationship to be consistent and loyal, but not boring. So far the only person (granted it's not a romantic relationship) I can be around every day and not get bored of is my Scorpio friend with a Capricorn moon. I like that we are used to each other and look for that in my relationships as well, which is proving to be quite difficult...

Sun and Venus in Aries, both in the 11H (I love to date friends, definitely a friends first kind of girl.)

Moon in Taurus (in the 11th house and also trine Uranus in the 7th house. Maybe this makes me emotionally quirky? Moon is also opp. Pluto in the 5h)

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charlie
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posted June 19, 2013 05:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer Venus 11H
Virgo Mars 12H conj Asc
Cappy Moon 5H

I am horrible. No joke!

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posted June 19, 2013 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm very impulsive and energetic. Love makes my world go round. I'm a bit needy when it comes to attention. Bah, who am I kidding, "a bit", I crave attention the way a junkie craves drugs.

I could and do constantly touch the object of my affection, whether it be holding hands while we walk, sitting in his lap, walking by and touching his hair.. I'm very touchy-feely.

I like to touch and flirt and play and I absolutely love taking adventures with my love. Whether it be hiking, camping, or visiting a different city/state (my fiance and I haven't been out of the country yet together .)

And I love it when he comes home to me and our house after a long day of work to find me cooking one of his favorite meals, working in the garden, or cleaning the house still in my work-out clothes.. The look/words/actions of gratitude/satisfaction I get from him at those times mean the absolute world to me. I like knowing that I keep a home that he wants to be a part of and that he enjoys being in.

Aries Venus 9H, Sag Mars 5H, Taurus Moon 11H

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posted June 19, 2013 06:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 19, 2013 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vradec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus = Capricorn (trine Mars, conjunct Saturn, conjunct Neptune)
Mars = Taurus (opposite Pluto, trine Saturn)
Moon = Gemini (opposite Mercury, opposite Asc.)

It takes ages for me to warm up to someone and be wooed into a relationship; and indeed I need plenty of wooing with things like poetry and music. Once in a relationship, I tend to be very obsessive (internally) with the person, and I am totally consumed by that person. It's like they become a little god or something to me. I tend to become more like them too, without meaning to. I always need to be romanced with things like poetry, and I can be somewhat jealous. But I am like a powerhouse of sexual energy in a relationship - I'd have it all the time if I could! I'm also incredibly loyal, devoted and will stick by that person no matter what.

I like forward coming guys, who are strong emotionally and mentally. I like them to be the leader, and for them to be wiser, and older than me, and stronger as a person than me. I don't like men who are stuck in their pasts. I tend to like firey, creative, artistic men.

I tend to be shy, mysterious and elusive at first. I need to be discovered!

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posted June 19, 2013 07:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by meissieri:
Hey! Back again? I'm okay, recovering from surgery. How about you?


i hope you'll have a speedy recovery. Yeah i can't stay away for long. do you want a thread in hearth n home for a bit of chit chat?

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posted June 19, 2013 08:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You said "in a relationship" but did not specify the type, other than romantic.

Mine have taken many forms, from monogamous to polyamorous, long-term, short-term, marriage, divorce, friends with benefits, one night fling, etc. so my best description of me in a relationship is: "ADAPTABLE".

I can be light hearted & fun, intense & slightly psychotic, or where I am now which is completely content and settled.

I want to love... I love to love! But lie to me and I turn cold. I lose interest in a millisecond.

It's great to be with a partner now who returns my dedication with the same level that I offer.

Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Libra
Moon - Sag

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LiesLilithsaidtouranus
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posted June 19, 2013 08:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LiesLilithsaidtouranus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Evil. Jk, JK!
Ummm. I am really sensitive in relationships. Very careful, protective but very critical o my partner. I can be very loving or completely detached, depending how into the person I am.
Venus in Pisces
Mars in Aquarius
Gemini moon

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posted June 19, 2013 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What am I like? loll

....Honestly I think I'm a bit like a prisoner trying to break out of jail.

Even with those men I truly liked, even loved... for whatever reason I can't stand the thought of being in a relationship. It's taken me a while to be honest with myself about this.
Because I love change so much - initially I feel like I would really want a relationship with that particular person - just to do something different.. But this lasts such a short time.

I can be friends with someone for years but I don't think I could make a "traditional" relationship work - because it would just bother me so much that I am in one.
I like being single.

The only men who managed to charm me into a serious relationship had strong Libra influence. I still don't know how they did it in retrospect - but I think it's because Libra is so good at maintaining a relationship over time - that they even managed to do it with ME .. although I'm such a difficult & unwilling partner.

I know that I'll fall in love again. My feeling is I will have kids with this person.. but it will definitely be a completely unconventional situation - not living under the same roof day after day etc It will possibly be an open relationship..
I may even (don't laugh) marry my Libran gay best friend! I think he is very open to the idea and has jokingly proposed. We also have an exact Venus-Pluto conj.. so it's pretty intense although non-sexual.

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posted June 20, 2013 02:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In relationships, I idealize my man. I like to look up at him with starry eyes while I play with his gold chains or his beard. :))))

He is my God.

If I could I would lay under him all day, but there's work to be done. I like to see my man pretty much every day. Spending a day or two away is nice but I begin to miss him and long to lay on his chest.

I used to be a private person about my relationships but now since I've found someone I really like I like to show them off. I like to show us off. I love PDA. Hugs and kisses. But I also like when he grabs or slaps my ass. I like whispering dirty things across the dinner table and anticipating for him to put it down in the bedroom.

I love to nurture and pamper him. He's my king! Rub his back, massage his scalp. If I lived with my boyfriend I would go as far to prepare his lunch for work in the morning or the night before. He would have dinner when we come home and breakfast nearly every morning.

Though I'm one to worship him, there are times when I can be mean for "no reason". I'm only mean to my boyfriend sometimes because everyone loves him and I have to be his enemy some times. For example I will put him through hell just so he can prove himself to me for whatever reason then I realize that that's wrong then I feel bad and my nice side comes back out.

I'm always down for new experiences, it doesn't take much to make me laugh. I love anyone that can keep me laughing. With my man, anything he says goes. I try not to ask too many questions but I'm a Capricorn I can't help it. I have a tendency to dominate but I'd rather follow. I cannot be with anyone that lets me walk all over them. I prefer inequality. I like 4ssh0le$.

Moon in Scorpio trine Mars in Cancer trine Venus in Pisces.

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posted June 20, 2013 02:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With the right person I am in absolute heaven on earth but it has to be with the right one for me or I am utterly miserable, wanna kill myself everyday if I am with someone who drives me crazy. So it can be pure bliss or utter hellish chaos depending on compatibility. Nothing is better than being with the right one, though and I would do anything for that person.

10th house Venus Leo
3rd house Mars Sagittarius
8th house Moon Taurus

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posted June 20, 2013 02:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
**i also like to feel little in his big arms and protected <3333

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