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swampys
Knowflake Posts: 550
From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 20, 2013 06:13 PM
  
I fall in love so easily. There's this man I've only seen twice. The first time I met him he said he liked Japanese culture and manga, which made me think he liked Asian girls (and I'm not Asian so I just thought "forget it") but the second time I saw him... he said he likes redhead... AND I'M A NATURAL REDHEAD! YEAH! Except he was more interested in my mom!!! Ugh! Even with this, I'm still interested in him. :'( Like, he said my hair didn't look red but it was just the lighting in the room, and then he pointed to my mom. And I'm 99% he likes girls who wear glasses. I NEVER wear my glasses in public but my mom wears them! I don't think he thinks I'm ugly, but I'm not sure if he thinks I'm that cute - but since he likes redheads I'm a little fixated on him. :/And then a couple days ago I went to the mall, and there was this CUTE shoe salesman there!!! OKAY! So, like!!! I'm in LOVE with Married... with Children because I just think it is SO silly and I am SOOOOOOO MUCH LIKE PEGGY (WHO'S ALSO A REDHEAD...) and she's married to a shoe salesman! I'm pretty sure he thought I was cute. He was teasing me in cute ways. <3 ^__^ I forgot to ask him his sign!  But he found out I like manga and he likes InuYasha and Bleach. I love InuYasha but had only heard of Bleach, so I went out and bought volumes 1, 2, and 3 that day just because he likes it. 'Kay, I have a LOT of Pluto influence which may cause my obsession, but, like, WHAT ELSE COULD IT BE????? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Moderator Posts: 3680
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posted June 21, 2013 10:22 AM
I think it's cause you want to get attention / affection / love, so you sort of maximize your chances by "falling" for guys whenever they pay some attention to you, that way something could eventually develop (or so you hope).I don't think it's a Pluto thing.
Actually we're really picky about who we give our attention / hearts to, and very often find it difficult to just fall for someone, unless they fit our standards and are deemed trustworthy (and plenty of other things). Or maybe that's a Saturn thing.. Anyway.
Could be your needy Cancer Moon (?)
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swampys
Knowflake Posts: 550
From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 21, 2013 12:00 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I think it's cause you want to get attention / affection / love, so you sort of maximize your chances by "falling" for guys whenever they pay some attention to you, that way something could eventually develop (or so you hope).I don't think it's a Pluto thing.
Actually we're really picky about who we give our attention / hearts to, and very often find it difficult to just fall for someone, unless they fit our standards and are deemed trustworthy (and plenty of other things). Or maybe that's a Saturn thing.. Anyway.
Could be your needy Cancer Moon (?)
Yeah! I thought about my moon, too! IP: Logged |
starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 624
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 21, 2013 01:18 PM
I was going to ask if maybe you have any libra influences, or strong Neptune? I used to have this same dilemma ... the smallest flirtation or show of any interest from a man and I start to get fixated on them and develop my interests around them. IP: Logged |
swampys
Knowflake Posts: 550
From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 21, 2013 02:07 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
I was going to ask if maybe you have any libra influences, or strong Neptune? I used to have this same dilemma ... the smallest flirtation or show of any interest from a man and I start to get fixated on them and develop my interests around them.
I can't tell how strong it is.
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page one
Knowflake Posts: 59
From: USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 21, 2013 03:42 PM
Look at that funnel against the moon: Mars, Neptune *and* Uranus. No wonder.IP: Logged |
Geeky
Knowflake Posts: 324
From: Portland, OR
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 21, 2013 04:46 PM
One other possibility - that Leo ascendant.We tend to be very enthusiastic about new things/people/projects and we are also idealistic. In youth, we can be pushy, dramatic, and a little stalker-ish if we want someone. I used to get caught in day dreams about my romantic fixation for hours... it was ridiculous. Now that I'm middle-aged (eeesh!), I've tamed that over-confidence and daydreaming. I've also settled down in my pursuit of interests. If it was a crush, I used to have this quality of "going after want I want and F*** the consequences" because if I didn't, I would blame myself for not trying. Does any of this resonate with you? ------------------
"Most people would rather be sheep and have company than stand out on their own with antlers on."
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swampys
Knowflake Posts: 550
From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 21, 2013 07:35 PM
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Originally posted by Geeky:
One other possibility - that Leo ascendant.We tend to be very enthusiastic about new things/people/projects and we are also idealistic. In youth, we can be pushy, dramatic, and a little stalker-ish if we want someone. I used to get caught in day dreams about my romantic fixation for hours... it was ridiculous. Now that I'm middle-aged (eeesh!), I've tamed that over-confidence and daydreaming. I've also settled down in my pursuit of interests. If it was a crush, I used to have this quality of "going after want I want and F*** the consequences" because if I didn't, I would blame myself for not trying. Does any of this resonate with you?
YES!! ^__^ IP: Logged |
Geeky
Knowflake Posts: 324
From: Portland, OR
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 21, 2013 07:55 PM
I thought it might. Poor girl... crazy like me lol!  All I can say is that it calms a bit with life experience/maturity. I've learned to embrace it and not be afraid of it. I used to get so offended when people would call me "intense" but now I'm like, "yeah, and?!" I have Venus in Scorpio too so yeah... ------------------
"Most people would rather be sheep and have company than stand out on their own with antlers on."
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