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HannieBananie
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posted June 20, 2013 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HannieBananie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Because i have Saturn in the 7th, and i don't wanna wait till i'm that OLD to get married anyways!

What if i find someone that's 7 or more years older than me? then i could get married before the Saturn return?

I read that with this placements that Saturn in the 7th gives you a partner that's 7 years older than you!

Source: http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/seventhhouse.htm

My chart: http://oi46.tinypic.com/29yfouu.jpg

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posted June 20, 2013 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL!

well, you are in luck, your 7h Saturn is in house of exalt but sign of fall~ and opposed to the ruler of the house. ^^

you will likely marry impetuously, young, and possibly more than once, judging from the aspect formula. (Especially with all that Neptunian goodness going on from inside the 5th.) ^^;

I love when people interpret Saturn in the 7th like it is naturally a long-wait, or age difference, or bad thing... when in fact - this is the very house you want Saturn in... by natural rule, the 7th is imbued with all kinds of Libra-yumminess which pulls out the best from its energies. It gives those relationships a higher chance of survival, a steadfastness, and last time I checked... that's really why people engage in longterm commitments in the first place. lol

It's the stodginess and all that blah-blah "bad guy"-reaper, super-stereotypical, modern mumbo-jumbo that wears away the essence of all that is good with "old man" Saturn.

No, I have friends with Saturn (Scorpio) in their 7th, most have been married since right out of high school, my one good friend has just celebrated his 11th anniversary. 7th house Saturn does not "always" mean a late bloomer/late partnerships or big difference in ages...

Sometimes though, astrologers make as much sense as....

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HannieBananie
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posted June 20, 2013 09:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HannieBananie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
LOL!

well, you are in luck, your 7h Saturn is in house of exalt but sign of fall~ and opposed to the ruler of the house. ^^

you will likely marry impetuously, young, and possibly more than once, judging from the aspect formula. (Especially with all that Neptunian goodness going on from inside the 5th.) ^^;

I love when people interpret Saturn in the 7th like it is naturally a long-wait, or age difference, or bad thing... when in fact - this is the very house you want Saturn in... by natural rule, the 7th is imbued with all kinds of Libra-yumminess which pulls out the best from its energies. It gives those relationships a higher chance of survival, a steadfastness, and last time I checked... that's really why people engage in longterm commitments in the first place. lol

It's the stodginess and all that blah-blah "bad guy"-reaper, super-stereotypical, modern mumbo-jumbo that wears away the essence of all that is good with "old man" Saturn.

No, I have friends with Saturn (Scorpio) in their 7th, most have been married since right out of high school, my one good friend has just celebrated his 11th anniversary. 7th house Saturn does not "always" mean a late bloomer/late partnerships or big difference in ages...

Sometimes though, astrologers make as much sense as....

*sharesawealthofsalttotoss*


Thanks. im young but i met this Taurean guy a week ago and we have tons of Juno,Lilith,NN, Venus & Mars aspects, despite him being Moon in Scorpio and me being Leo moon(i feel more like Virgo or Cancer moon ...)

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posted June 20, 2013 10:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
is 28 a long time away?

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HannieBananie
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posted June 21, 2013 12:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HannieBananie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AriesKat:
is 28 a long time away?

Yeah for me I'm 16 1/4...

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posted June 21, 2013 12:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOLLL

Well I'm 27 and I would not get married if they made me.. at gun point haha

Also - to be honest when you get to 27/28 you will not feel old at all. Trust me. I feel and even look younger than I did at 17! Many people in their 20s wouldn't say that they feel old.
I understand it seems 'old' to you now - because you are very young... but it really will not at all, seem that way - when you are that age.

The average age of marriage is late 20s where I live.. in Australia.. so a 7th house Saturn person would technically get married after this 'average' age... in their 30s.

I'm curious - What makes you so keen on marriage?

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HannieBananie
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posted June 21, 2013 01:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HannieBananie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
LOLLL

Well I'm 27 and I would not get married if they made me.. at gun point haha

Also - to be honest when you get to 27/28 you will not feel old at all. Trust me. I feel and even look younger than I did at 17! Many people in their 20s wouldn't say that they feel old.
I understand it seems 'old' to you now - because you are very young... but it really will not at all, seem that way - when you are that age.

The average age of marriage is late 20s where I live.. in Australia.. so a 7th house Saturn person would technically get married after this 'average' age... in their 30s.

I'm curious - What makes you so keen on marriage?


I met an older Taurus guy so yeah...

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted June 21, 2013 08:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know which state you live in but there are all sorts of legal ramifications. At a minimum, you are a minor and you cannot get married without the adjudication of probate court absent parental consent. Furthermore, statutory rape is a felony. I don't know who this guy is but he's playing with an inferno of consequences. Having a son slightly older than you, I personally find this highly odious but that's my personal opinion and it is of no consequence.

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posted June 21, 2013 09:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mockingbird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by HannieBananie:
Yeah for me I'm 16 1/4...


*redneck voice*

You MIGHT be too young to get married IF...
...you still refer to your age in fractions.

/redneck voice

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LiesLilithsaidtouranus
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posted June 21, 2013 09:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LiesLilithsaidtouranus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What Saturn in 7th house means is that you need to work at a relationship, you can' rush into it! You have to be sure to commit. You need to balance your everyday life so that you can prepare yourself for a married life one day.
You're going to turn 17 in some months. Wait! Obviously you are still too young to grasp what a really committed relationship is if you are worried about getting married late.
I am 17, I have Saturn in the 11th house and i am very picky on who I consider my friends. But I am committed to the ones I do have.
so slow your roll sister!

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HannieBananie
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posted June 21, 2013 11:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HannieBananie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by mockingbird:
*redneck voice*

You MIGHT be too young to get married IF...
...you still refer to your age in fractions.

/redneck voice

|Yeah... but i really like this guy and if it works out really well with him i wanna marry him in like 7 or 6 years from now which im gonna be 23 or 22 years old. H



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HannieBananie
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posted June 21, 2013 11:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HannieBananie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LiesLilithsaidtouranus:
What Saturn in 7th house means is that you need to work at a relationship, you can' rush into it! You have to be sure to commit. You need to balance your everyday life so that you can prepare yourself for a married life one day.
You're going to turn 17 in some months. Wait! Obviously you are still too young to grasp what a really committed relationship is if you are worried about getting married late.
I am 17, I have Saturn in the 11th house and i am very picky on who I consider my friends. But I am committed to the ones I do have.
so slow your roll sister!

Ouch. i got moon & lilith in the 11th. lmao... blame my aqua mercury + sun trine mc for thinking ahead!!!!!!

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spanishlover
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posted June 21, 2013 11:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for spanishlover     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
how can you calculate based on asteroids and your venus/sun when ,at what age, are you getting married?

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HannieBananie
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posted June 21, 2013 11:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HannieBananie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by spanishlover:
how can you calculate based on asteroids and your venus/sun when ,at what age, are you getting married?

I'd like to 6 to 8 years from now!

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LiesLilithsaidtouranus
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posted June 21, 2013 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LiesLilithsaidtouranus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by HannieBananie:
I'd like to 6 to 8 years from now!



I would totally get married in 5 years if I find the right guy. Just to get it over with so I can travel the world with him. Sagittarius is on the end of my 7th house. And I have all this 9th house activity. i am an aquarius so I know how it feels like to yearn for the future.

A wise person once said, you have to not look or love for it to find you. It will find you in time, trust me.
i found love one day and i thought he'd be in my life forever, but then he passed away. But he would never want me to sink myself in the sorrow of losing him. I know that for sure.
If you end up in a relationship soon, take the feel for it. Work it out until it's either time to say good bye or time for the next level. Don't stress it out trust me.

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unforgiven_soul
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posted June 21, 2013 04:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for unforgiven_soul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't worry, I'm 31 and still single. I have Mars in my 7th house, now this is worst lol! Saturn is kinda cool in that placement, I believe in good aspects it shows a stable marriage and after mature thoughts. You are still young, maybe when you get older your opinion about marriage will change.

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