posted June 21, 2013 11:48 AM            

Remember my post I made not too long ago about people finding me sneaky? Mars opposite Neptune is why.

I admit, I am sneaky.

I wouldn't trust anyone with Mars opposite Neptune in their chart, sadly.

posted June 21, 2013 12:04 PM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
" Fears of sexual inadequacy can be great with this position, and you may either deny yourself as a result, or overcompensate, [b]seeking out experiences in which you are pretty much assured positive feedback."

I hate this about myself. I can have my man give me all of the attention in the world but I will still seek the attention of other men for reassurance.
I did this when I went clubbing with my boyfriend recently. I was looking amazing that night and I was getting attention left and right. My boyfriend allows me dance with other males but I had taken the dancing too far when they began to approach me in a way that meant that they wanted to do more than dance. Aware of this, I kept dancing. My boyfriend left the club.

I knew that I was taking things too far but the desire for that attention had me going. The desire is insatiable
But once I feel like I finally satisfy it, I feel so sheety.

I don't want this aspect to ruin my relationships, especially this one. I've never been so happy...[/B]

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posted June 21, 2013 12:10 PM            

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You can apologize and tell him it won't happen any more but you have to keep a close eye on it and mean what you say which is hard to do with Neptune opps to personal planets. The oppositions put you in unique situations, they bring circumstances in your life where you must act a certain way or others react strongly. Like, you can't dance with all the guys unless you have a bf who thinks that's groovy but Neptune will not put you in contact with someone who thinks it's all good, rather someone who finds that sort of thing hard to forgive. It's a tough lesson of Neptune's.

Neptune is like, SERIOUSLY tough in relationships unless you really think about it and figure it out and you seem to be doing that now so it's a start.[/B]

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posted June 21, 2013 12:18 PM            

I "cheated" numerous times in my last relationship because of the same reason: feeling sexually inadequate. I just need the reassurance or "positive feedback" and then I would come back to the relationship as if nothing happened.

posted June 21, 2013 12:19 PM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
I would say that people with Mars opposite Neptune are cheaters.

I "cheated" numerous times in my last relationship because of the same reason: feeling sexually inadequate. I just need the reassurance or "positive feedback" and then I would come back to the relationship as if nothing happened.

The feeling is easy to fight, but once you fight it, Neptune sends you another situation that's ten times harder to resist.

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posted June 21, 2013 12:25 PM            

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Think if it's worth it to you to cheat? Is it worth what you have to go through? You have to show resolve or try to avoid those situations.

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Oh it's never worth it! Cuz you feel like complete **** afterwards and I stopped because I wouldn't want anyone to do that to me. I'll never cheat in this current relationship I'm in, but sometimes the desire for attention and reassurance strikes and that's the struggle.

posted June 21, 2013 12:29 PM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
Oh it's never worth it! Cuz you feel like complete **** afterwards and I stopped because I wouldn't want anyone to do that to me. I'll never cheat in this current relationship I'm in, but sometimes the desire for attention and reassurance strikes and that's the struggle.

The desire strikes tenfold if my bf is really into me and giving me all the attention I could ask for. In my head I'm thinking, "If he loves it, that guy walking by will too". Ugh

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posted June 21, 2013 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I don't think I know anyone with that aspect.

Sounds like that's good news

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What, don't we know each other??

posted June 21, 2013 07:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
What, don't we know each other??

This thread is making me feel guilty. What'd I do wrong, I just showed up on planet earth on the wrong day!

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posted June 22, 2013 08:29 AM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
You have Mars opposite Neptune?

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Yes, I do. I can see where you are coming from, but I don't think you are as bad as you are making yourself out to be here.

Cheating, for instance~ well, you are still a teenager. As Caps we take relationships very seriously...but I think, in our younger years, that can backfire. I was too loyal when I was single, which limited the number of men I got to know. Consequently I spent my college years with a guy I didn't even like too much...I was just plain loyal.

Sorry if that sounds preachy, just saying, go easy on yourself

I don't cheat on my husband, never have, and I've been married 14 years. However, he doesn't know all of my personal business, and that's very important to me. So am I essentially duplicitous??

Maybe? But what can I do about it, I am who I am.

posted December 08, 2015 02:06 AM            

He's totally a sneaky person I've ever met, he always turns the table and people start to blame me if I openly tell him his unreliable and irresponsible behaviors.

He appears gently to everyone, but I always know he has motives and personal hidden agenda because he always thought I'm asking for details while I'm just asking like a normal question someone would ask to her bf and I stop and he starts guilt-tripping me.

When we're going and about, if there're some women in there giving him the attention, yup!, he eats it, always. He can not help himself.