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piscesww9
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posted June 22, 2013 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for piscesww9     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi all!
I've been reading the posts here for some time but this is my first time posting. I need some advice on my situation. I'm a pisces and I met this awesome cancer man a little over a month ago. He couldn't take his eyes away from me since we met. We met on a wknd trip with common friends. We spent the wknd chatting and getting to know each other. He was always very attentive and making sure I was ok (I felt a bit overwhelmed with all the attention). It was obvious that we clicked. After the trip he kept contacting through texts msgs and we went out lunch a few days later. Then we went out 3 more times in two weeks. After our 4th date he told me he was interested in me and that he always had a great time with me. That he likes to spend time together and he feels so comfortable with me. Now... Here's the big BUT. He also said that he wanted to be honest with me because he cares and that he has a long distance relation with someone. He said he didn't want to lie to me but he wanted to keep seeing me. That he didn't feel the same about her anymore.
I told him how I feel about him and that I like him too but I won't feel comfortable dating him knowing that there's someone else. There was some hugging and yes he kissed me and I allowed it. I know that was wrong. I felt really bad about it afterwards. Two days later we met again and I talked about my feelings again but I said I couldnt see him again until his situation is solved. He said he was confused that in the over a year they have been apart he hasn't been attracted to any woman at all and that they have seen each other only 3 times. What should I do? I really miss him. He is everything I have wanted in a man until he confessed the gf thing. We haven't seem each other in two weeks. He was supposed to see his gf this past week but he was not sure what he was going to do. He sent me txt saying that he cares about me and that he thinks that I deserve to be approached the right way. This waiting is killing me. Do cancer men act like this all the time and so confused about love matters? Do you think he really cares about me? I do appreciate that he told me the gf thing before something happened but he still approached to me like he was single. Thank you for taking the time to read my post

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Doux Rêve
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posted June 23, 2013 07:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi piscesww9, welcome!

The only thing I can say now is this:
Don't chase him unless he breaks up with his current SO.
Love triangles are never good. They only create confusion and damage.
So tell him that unless he's single, nothing's gonna happen..
Even if it's hard to resist.
If he really wants to be with you, he'll make a choice.

Good luck!


Ps. Cancer men can be very manipulative and sweet talkers, so careful not to fall victim to his mind games.

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piscesww9
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posted June 23, 2013 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for piscesww9     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Doux Rêve for the great answer! I know is obvious but I really needed someone else to say it.
He is back in town since yesterday and I just got back today. He hasn't contacted me yet and I believe he won't at least for a couple of days if he ever does. Right now, I'm a bit hurt since I feel I've been played. I know is just a month together but that's all it takes to care about someone. I'll keep strong though. One day at a time.

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