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amorphis
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posted June 23, 2013 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amorphis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello all!

While searching the web, I came across this lovely forum and thought I would share my little problem with you..

Recently, I have gotten to know this Cancerian man. We have actually first met last year but we couldn't get to know each other properly and this April we started chatting (he wrote first) and from there, we have chatted for 1 month straight, every day. He would write to me early in the morning and we would chat about life in general. At first the chats were friendly but then he started complimenting me and telling me nice, sweet stuff (just the stuff I wanted to hear! ) and eventually, he told me he wanted to see me again. I gave him my phone number and he texted me the next day so all of the signs indicated that he was into me.
We met at the end of May (he was going to a festival and I decided to go there the last day too). We spent a day there and the chemistry was incredible! That chemistry eventually led to some other stuff. He was such a sweetheart the whole time. However, after we met, I kinda hoped that more would come; he would open up a bit and he would want to see me (since I kinda made the first move) but he is acting all 'cancer' now; he still writes to me every day or every 2 days but I kinda have this feeling that he is pulling back.. It has been almost a month since we met and I dunno how to approach him. Is this normal that Cancer guys act like this or should I give up hope? What do you think?

I don't wanna jump into a relationship or anything by the way.. We both live a bit far away from each other so we cannot see each other every day or so but the distance makes it more difficult; I don't know what he thinks and he doesn't truly show his feelings. However, he is kinda curious about what I think about him and stuff.. He indicated that several times.. So it's kinda unfair He even told me that I am not telling him everything but the truth is he is the one who is doing that!

Little info : I am a Leo with a Scorpio ascendant and my moon sign is Aquarius.

His moon sign is Libra.

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Doux Rêve
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posted June 23, 2013 03:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Give him some time to figure out what he wants.

He'll come back to you if that's what he truly wants, trust me on this.
Otherwise, let him go and find someone who's willing to become your partner.

Good luck!

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its_aqua
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posted June 23, 2013 03:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for its_aqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancet Men are MEN. If he wants anything from you, he will ask dont worry All men go after what they want. If they dont make a move they just dont want it enough.

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Doux Rêve
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posted June 23, 2013 04:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Agree with its_aqua 100%.

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charlie
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posted June 23, 2013 04:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He's not sure about you. Take the wait and see approach and don't chase him!!

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amorphis
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posted June 23, 2013 04:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amorphis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for your answers! That's what I am doing actually. I am not chasing him.. Things have not been going the way I expected them to go so that's why I am confused. We spent a great day together and everything seemed to work out fine so I still cannot figure out why he is holding back and not sure.. Oh well, time will tell I guess

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charlie
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posted June 23, 2013 04:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by amorphis:
Thanks for your answers! That's what I am doing actually. I am not chasing him.. Things have not been going the way I expected them to go so that's why I am confused. We spent a great day together and everything seemed to work out fine so I still cannot figure out why he is holding back and not sure.. Oh well, time will tell I guess


Cancers go on feelings, intuition and gut. He might like you but you might also have set off some sort of internal "alarm bell" that has made him retreat. Just keep it cool

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