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Topic: Venus opposite Venus synastry
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11nahyt
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From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
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posted June 24, 2013 04:13 AM
  
What is Venus opposite Venus like in synastry? I'm specifically interested in the Taurus/Scorpio Venus opposition aspect. But Regardless of those signs. I'm still interested to hear from those whom have experienced this aspect. what was/is like for you? Is this aspect really about having opposite love natures? Or is there more to this aspect? I wanna know!IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted June 24, 2013 07:38 AM
I don't know..
Hahaha. Sorry.
That was a useless reply.I'll tell you this though: it often leads to attraction. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted June 24, 2013 08:36 AM
i have this too in synastry!my venus in scorpio opposes his venus & mars in taurus
my mars is in capricorn IP: Logged |
11nahyt
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posted June 24, 2013 03:18 PM
Lol. This aspect is the least talked about aspect from what I've seen. I can't even find a thread on it here on ll. how odd..@lisalisa would you care to explain hw you feel this aspect plays out in your relationship? Is your love nature the total opposite of his?IP: Logged |
11nahyt
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posted June 25, 2013 04:28 PM
Almost forgot about this post. BumpppppIP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
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posted October 19, 2013 03:20 PM
bump again.  IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted November 06, 2013 10:25 PM
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11nahyt
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posted November 06, 2013 10:27 PM
omg i don't even remember making this thread  ahh
but thanks for the bump :')
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Kerosene
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posted November 06, 2013 10:47 PM
Bumpin'.I don't vibe too well sag energy
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I've dated a Cap sun/mercury with Venus in Sag opposite my venus.
It was nice...
Still planets in polarity aspecting each other is more intense..
Like
sun-moon.
Venus-mars
Moon-mars
Sun-Venus. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 06, 2013 11:02 PM
It's kind of hard... because there are feelings involved. It's not just sex (Mars).. so the people might feel "in love".. but they can't always make it work.I had both Venus opp Venus and Mars square Mars with the same person. Brangelina also have these two aspects. If you are both mature and you want a relationship - and you are willing to do everything to make it work - then it can work. In my case - I just found him very immature in behaviour. He is still like this now. I cannot deal with him and I broke up with him long ago. It depends so much on where the two people are 'at'.
Venus opposite Venus does not lead to a 'fling'.. Maybe the conventional opinion is that it *could*.
I disagree though. I think it feels more like 'relationship material". If either or both of you are just not ready to take that step, it will become extra unnerving.
It's like meeting someone you *could* see yourself with - but you met them at the wrong time, wrong place, wrong ages - and you (or they) are just not read to commit. This will not be a friendship.
If you can't commit romantically to each other - you can end up taking little stabs at each other and blaming the other person about things not working out - so it's very difficult to stay friends. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 06, 2013 11:14 PM
Oh i should add this though... If you do end up in a relationship, the bickering won't just end lol
But at least - because Venus is such an 'agreeable' planet - you will both have a willingness to sort things out.If you wanted to talk things over - they would try to listen... If you suggested that you see a couple's therapist together - your partner would probably be happy to go along! The talk might not be very fruitful and the therapist might walk out of the room pulling their hair out - but at least you are both open to keep trying lol  Watch this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Smgge61-Y8
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11nahyt
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posted November 06, 2013 11:22 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:It depends so much on where the two people are 'at'. If either or both of you are just not ready to take that step, it will become extra unnerving. It's like meeting someone you *could* see yourself with - but you met them at the wrong time, wrong place, wrong ages - and you (or they) are just not read to commit. This will not be a friendship. If you can't commit romantically to each other - you can end up taking little stabs at each other and blaming the other person about things not working out - so it's very difficult to stay friends.
Wow, this was accurate in my case. My feelings for him are like off and on. Because I can't shake away the feeling of knowing it could work..... But He's not ready for what I have to give, And what I want in return  . We can't just be friends. At least not me. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted November 07, 2013 12:02 AM
I think for me it's the other way around, he's ready, i'm not, i think he's frustrated by it, but patient (taurus) + he's like 6 years older than meI wonder if it has a significance when venus opposes venus and both our sun signs are ruled by venus (he's taurus i'm libra) IP: Logged |
Chiemi
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posted January 02, 2014 01:34 PM
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MagnumJoe
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posted March 19, 2014 09:44 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
Oh i should add this though... If you do end up in a relationship, the bickering won't just end lol
But at least - because Venus is such an 'agreeable' planet - you will both have a willingness to sort things out.If you wanted to talk things over - they would try to listen... If you suggested that you see a couple's therapist together - your partner would probably be happy to go along! The talk might not be very fruitful and the therapist might walk out of the room pulling their hair out - but at least you are both open to keep trying.
What if both venuses are well aspected otherwise? Like for example, my mercury trine her venus, her venus is in my fifth house, and her saturn sextile, pluto conjunct my venus? EDIT: Keep in my mind that my mercury sextile my own venus, should it work like a bridge? IP: Logged |
Azurenite
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posted March 21, 2014 08:38 AM
I have a Venus opposed Venus in Taurus/Scorpio aspect with someone. I loved the oppositions. I'm the Scorpio and I only fall in love with a person that has at least one planet in Taurus. The person that has Venus in Taurus was lovely. We fell in love. I found the love natures flowing, a lot of give and take in a natural way. We aren't together now but we still love each other.IP: Logged |
SDragon
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posted March 21, 2014 10:36 AM
Yay! I have 4 planets in Taurus! Love me, squeeze me, hug me!! 
J.k.
From my experience ViT and ViS feel the long term thing strongly but differ in the way to get there. ViT wants to take the time to build from the ground up, revealing their passions slowly which creates insecurity in ViS as they jump back and forth between whether they can truly trust or not, whether it really is forever or not. This gets ViS turning cold and hot, love you and don't love you which in turn frustrates ViT because they believe VS isn't being truthful and honest which flares their insecurity for ViT doesn't like putting effort into something that isn't going anywhere. The dynamic can be enjoyed for what it is but it takes effort on both parties to try and make it work. To be aware of both parties dynamic involvement without saying one is better than the other can make a huge difference. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted March 21, 2014 10:53 AM
quote:
Originally posted by SDragon:
Yay! I have 4 planets in Taurus! Love me, squeeze me, hug me!!
Hahaha, Venus in Scorpio would say.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QD75qrmHYes
(one of my all time favorite even though I am Venus in Taurus also)
Oh how dramatic, lol. quote:
for ViT doesn't like putting effort into something that isn't going anywhere.
 One of the truest things that has ever been said!
Been with Venus in Scorpio. I have mixed feelings about it.
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StubbornOne
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posted March 21, 2014 11:07 AM
Have Venus in Aries and someone had a Venus in Libra, near exact opposition. She was the aggressive one though. It didn't work out unfortunately. Of interesting note is it started and ended while Venus was in Capricorn (my 7th, her 12th).IP: Logged |
Azurenite
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posted March 22, 2014 01:03 AM
quote:
Originally posted by SDragon:
Yay! I have 4 planets in Taurus! Love me, squeeze me, hug me!!
J.k.
From my experience ViT and ViS feel the long term thing strongly but differ in the way to get there. ViT wants to take the time to build from the ground up, revealing their passions slowly which creates insecurity in ViS as they jump back and forth between whether they can truly trust or not, whether it really is forever or not. This gets ViS turning cold and hot, love you and don't love you which in turn frustrates ViT because they believe VS isn't being truthful and honest which flares their insecurity for ViT doesn't like putting effort into something that isn't going anywhere. The dynamic can be enjoyed for what it is but it takes effort on both parties to try and make it work. To be aware of both parties dynamic involvement without saying one is better than the other can make a huge difference.
Oh, I do already! Very nicely said BTW. Sounds like Mars in Taurus too. IP: Logged |
Virgo28
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posted March 09, 2015 05:32 AM
In my opinion, It doesn't work well.I don't like the aloof and controlling ways of a Venus in Capricorn. They usually trine my Sun and we get along great as friends. ------------------
"If a man does not work passionately - even furiously - at being the best in the world at what he does, he fails his talent, his destiny, and his God." IP: Logged |
astra7
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posted March 09, 2015 05:55 AM
The way you love is different, I think...IP: Logged |
Virgo28
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posted March 09, 2015 06:21 AM
Correct.
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LovelyKitty
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posted March 09, 2015 06:27 AM
It's depend to the rest of the whole chart indeed. For some reason , I think only venus opposed venus should not be a big problem in relanshionship until any venus is actually an angel' rulers.I have venus in Leo conjunct my NN , and I've met someone who has aqua venus conjunct my SN and also his mercury too ! And his 2 aqua planets trine my sun. His gemini mars and moon also sextile my leo venus.
It's so lovely to have such a show-it to your face relationship. You can just throw away the opposition in my case.
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Randall
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posted March 09, 2015 11:45 AM
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